Nude Family Photos? Good or bad idea?
Over the years, things have gotten better - though never perfect with her dad, though he mellowed considerably when he got grandchildren. I would be the first to say that he is an amazing grandfather.
Anyhow, when my girlfriend was expecting our first, at about 7 months pregnancy, I took a few nude shots of her and us together, because frankly, I thought she was beautiful. A few were sexual, most were not. We looked at them and put them aside. That was that.
About a month after the baby was born my girlfriend, bouncing off what I had done, thought it would be beautiful to have some nude shots with the baby. So we hired a photographer who came to our home, and took some shots - a few outside in our secluded backyard, but most inside.
There was NOTHING sexual in any of these. There were a few of us holding the baby together. Some of me holding the baby - who was also naked - or him sleeping on my chest and such. In some of these just of me chest up, in others you could see my penis.
With my girlfriend something of the same thing. Plus a few of her breastfeeding.
In all of these there was nothing explicitly sexual. The idea, besotted new parents that we were, was that it was natural and beautiful and the whole idea was artistic. We did not post the photos or share them with anyone else - unless you count the photographer. They were just for us and to us illustrated the natural beauty and love we shared. We looked at them now and then and then put them away.
Well, long story short. My gfd's dad was over the other day and for some reason we were going through our photo albums and he discovered these 9 year old photos. He about had a stroke and a furious argument ensued.
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