Nudes before sex?

I was recently given the advice that before embarking on a new sexual venture, that nudes might help with getting us more comfortable. Is it better to know before hand what they look like naked? Or to be surprised at the time?
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  • Hold off... Anticipation

  • Do people really just give out nudes like this? Holy fuck dude. And u guys want a serious relationship one day?

  • I wouldn’t ever since nudes unless you are in a serious relationship and been dating for at least a year. If you send nudes you will end up being used for sex or black mailed. Never send nudes with your face in them

  • It depends on how good you look naked.

  • It's better not sending nudes to anyone

  • I can understand wanting them to be prepared. But personally, when a woman sends me nudes before sex, I can't help but wonder if she has done this for other guys and how often.

  • Well it does really matter to me cause I'm not going to have sex with someone I'm not attracted to and for me its more than just looks that just one part of it for me you need a get personality a good sense of humor intelligence then looks

  • Don't risk sending nudes to anyone. Someone could betray your trust and spread them around, or you could get hacked.

  • ya that pretty norma

    • *normal

  • Nude video calls would help actually before having sex.

  • Depends about situation

  • What did u choose

    • I think I'm going to go with no nudes...

    • Possibly wise!

  • Are you sending or receiving nudes?

  • For me up to a certain extent. I like to see body and butty/tits in panties or tiny bikinis but not show everything. I want to see the nipples, pussy lips etc. from up close.

  • Only if size matters to you, does it matter to you?

    • Not really!

    • @lilyofthelake Okay, can you please PM me?

  • up to you, do not show face

  • Would you ever send bra and panties pic

  • Sending nudes (without showing face) are good thing for both girls and boys both can enjoy 😉😂

  • On the one hand I can see the advantage like you'd know what they look like and all of that, on the other hand nudes are risky im not interested in then myself and wouldn't want to send or receive them.

    As for me I think sharing that intimacy and something like that should be more special then through a lense.

    With the comfort thing I can see the appeal it could be that you take things slow maybe make an effort to say even go swimming together so you see more of each other but in a more normal context to build comfort then you could progress through like taking bits of clothing off slowly. As well as that take the sexual acts slow as well j don't see the appeal of going to far to fast as you think its better.

    Take things slow I think and also to me I think it would add to the experience and that could be quite erotic.

  • I don't mind sending nudes to a guy but I really don't want to see dick pics.

    • lol i think most girls dont wanna see. you have better boobs or ass?