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  • I have had a few one night stands in the past. I look back on them all as failed experiments. In my experience, first time sex with a new woman is nearly always bad sex. Why? Because you are not familiar yet with the sexual preferences of the person you are with. How they react to being touched in specific ways, what they like and dislike. And they do not know these things about you yet either. The result: it can be difficult to satisfy the other person, and the other person may do things that are a turn-off for you, making it hard for you to get satisfied too.

    So when I met the woman who later became my wife, I was very careful not to go all the way too soon. Our first intimate actions in the bedroom didn't go much further than handjobs, exploring each others bodies. I didn't go all the way as soon as she wanted, but at least I was open about the reason why. This strategy worked; the first time we had full sexual intercourse it was very good, and it only got better later.

    So what I learned from my one night stands in the past; it is not worth the effort. Sex gets better the more you do it with the same person, especially if your sexual preferences (and sexdrives) match.

  • I don’t get it why people like to have sex with strangers.

    It’s disgusting because sex usually involves a lot of sweating, saliva, semen and vagina fluid.

    I don’t think it’s normal to tolerate these things with a stranger.

Most Helpful Girls

  • some demon destroy my belief in true love. when i give my all and truest love what i received is betrayal and punishments and judgements with his mental experts as his accomplices. but God is great he send me the sonh " if i fall in love it would be forever" via my dreqms without that sonh i don't thinj i could even ever gwt up on my bed due to the tremendous emotional pain that made me sooo weak


    anyway to answer your wuestion no because of my deeper relationship and trust with Jesus.

  • BIG Nay. I want a real relationship that will lead to marriage. I can’t imagine some random dude hitting it and quitting it. Just not my style. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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  • I just want the will power to have one and not make it a big deal.

    It's nay but yay in question and calculation lol

    Probably wouldn't do much anyway because of all the negative possibilities with health issues or so.

  • when i was younger i did... i loved getting dolled up putting on my shortest dress and going out to meet a guy to give a blowjob to... talk about an adrenlaine you'll get one from that... but with all the chaos and covid i don't do that stuff anymore... i've only had 1 man in the past 3 years but he's not my boyfriend either.

    • You sound like a free spirit, Chrissy.

  • I think they're good if you're lonely or have just broken up with someone and you want to take your mind off of them.

    The great thing about one-night stands is you have sex and part ways. No hurt feelings. No attachments. Just a nice sexual release from someone who wants the same as you.

    I had a one-night stand with a friend of mine once and I discovered she was wild in bed! I don't think they're all that bad. Everyone has different views on them though.

  • Once Out of All the Guys I have Had for Dates and Mates. A classmate from School. I am Gathering He may Have Had a girlfriend. xxoo

  • Nay because I do not (ever) want to have sex

    • Why not?

  • It'd be a no for me. I'm pretty emotional so it would not go over well.

  • Nay. I probably would if I was also getting something out of it but my experience with men has taught me you have to fuck a guy at least 5 times before they are capable of bringing you to climax and even then it’s not a forsure

    • Maybe just the guys you're attracted to. There were only two women in my whole life that didn't climax the first time I was with them and that's because they had medical issues.

    • not knowing what they were doing, focused more on their own needs, or not being able to last long enough were all things at play. No clue how id go about weeding those out. I don’t think asking to analyze a strangers sextape in front of them while in a public setting would go over well🧐

    • Let’s talk through some alternatives then. See if we can learn something that can be useful to others as well.

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  • The last time I did one was 1983. Now, I am much more careful.

  • Huge Nay!!!

    I have no idea what’s the point of having sex unless it’s with someone I love and care for.

  • Nope.. I know I couldn't handle being used just to get an orgasm lol I would never get over it..

  • I never engaged in that type of thing, but I do certainly fantasize about it.

    I'm married, so that's off the table in reality anyway.

  • Never. I will only loose from it.

  • It's a trap.

  • When I was a teen and early 20's and not in a relationship I had some and they all were fun. It was fun to get naked with someone new and share some orgasms together.

  • In college it was certainly a yay a few times 😂😂

    College was wild though lol

    • Oh! Really, would you care to elaborate... lol

    • On one night stands?

    • Yes... elaborate... lol

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  • I believe the 2 people should have a deep connection to have sex, so... nay

  • Used to do it

    Stopped since the pandemic as it’s too risky and also lately too many crazies out there.

  • never tried before

  • No sex isn't worth the potential issues that can arise from that.

  • Tried it before, not my cup of tea. Pros are that you get the sex you are looking for possibly with someone who is attractive and get the itch scratched, downside is it is one less person you form a bond with and the potential to receive an STI or pregnancy.

    It doesn't feel as personal or meaningful.

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