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Penis size. Why can guys accept that girls prefer a guy with a smaller penis who knows how to listen to a guy with big one that's just good in bed?

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  • Here we go again.
    OK first of all it doesn't matter what all girls think or what all guys think.

    What matter is the person your with and if you lack size or if your big you better have the know how to listen. And learn because if you don't. Then that means your selfish and your only into it for yourself so that mean just a matter of time and your gone anyway.. if you a two min man big or small your gone anyway..

    If your going to do it big or small learn how to do it. It's an art it's control its about making it all about her so. That means. Ask her what she likes ask her what turns her on . don't just get on and get off. Something call 4 play. It's for you to learn what they like and what they need learn how to look in to her eyes read the color of her cheeks the sound of her moans the way she mover her body. Because she talking to you with out saying 1 word and it's your job to understand. In that moment to either give it to her. Or hold back. And make her crazy a little longer.. guys with small dicks learn all the above. Make it about her. And remember. No matter how small you are. She took the time and learned how you like it with just the very tip of her finger .. with the tip of her finger she can take herself to the moon but she took the time to understand what she wanted. You have to to the same guys with big dicks same thing. That last thing a girl wants is someone one who makes it about themselves and thinks just because they have a big dick all is good and o ly good if you can take her there and Beyond more than once and then do it in reverse for me I could care less about this question because I know who I am and I know what I'm going to do it's not going to be about me it's going to be about her and taking her to the place she wants to go because I learned a long time ago.. make it about her know everything about her from the slowest of motion. To the deepest nonstop pounding with intensives with Rhythm and commitment with naughty words LOL

    And remember one thing doesn't matter what I say or anybody else it matters what your partner says and that's what it should be all about good luck go to school learn practice makes perfect

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  • I think a majority of women think like you do, BUT the minority of women who insist upon a large penis (or just say that a smaller one isn't satisfying) are LOUD and love to shame men about it, and so a lot of men have developed a complex about that - especially if they've been shamed about it personally.

    Most men only have a very few vulnerabilities - things that attack our egos and our self-worth directly like an armor-piercing anti-tank round - and one of those is our ability to please a woman sexually. If a woman says or implies that a man can't please a woman - especially if it's for a reason he can't do anything about, such as penis size - many men are near-mortally wounded by that. Their egos are shattered and they feel worthless and hopeless. It's such a big part of the male identity that most women really can't relate to how sensitive it is. I'm not sure anything quite compares for a female, but the closest thing I could imagine is if a woman had been struggling to get pregnant for years, and having a child was the most important thing in the world to her, and some guy casually called her "barren" and "worthless as a woman" - I could imagine she might feel something that approaches what many men feel if a woman implies their dick is too small to please a woman.

    Of course it doesn't help that the only penises most men see besides their own are porn penises, which are all in the top 0.01% in size. It's like earning $40,000 a year when everyone you know is a multi-billionaire - it makes you feel inferior.

    So, yeah, that's why so many guys struggle with that - and why it helps when women who don't feel that way actually tell men so. Most men hear that FAR less than they hear that only huge penises are pleasurable.

Most Helpful Girls

  • They are brainwashed by porn and by what other men tell them online.

    • Really...

    • @Arik_jade yes

  • I think a majority of women think like you do

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  • I can accept that as it corresponds to reality. You have to listen and talk to even get a chance to use your dick with the woman.

    Still, it will be best if it is a good size dick that fits for the woman.

  • I'm happy having an average sized dick.

    If it were bigger, it'd be a pain in the ass to figure out where to put it when I'm not using it.

    Yeah, I'm good.

  • Because it sounds not true. Guys learn about sex through porn for the first time and in porn all the "great" guys have big dicks. So for the guys it sounds too good to be true if they meet a woman that actually is fine with them having a smaller dick since the dick size is one of the most vulnerable physical aspect of a guy´s body.

  • It's the helplessness effect as I like to call it.

    You can't change your height
    You can't change your penis size
    You can't change your race
    You can't change your hair loss

    And these are the things guys often get most insecure about.

    It's a way for a guy to justify shortcomings, "oh I would have made her cum if my penis was bigger" that type of energy.

    I would say a man really comes into his own once he learns to accept who he is and lets the chips fall where they may.

  • I can accept that; hopefully you'll find some other reason to shame me:)

  • Statistically as a life partner yes but not so much for fwbs or hookups. However I do agree. Most women get so much more turned on by having an emotional connection as well as someone who's listening and actually trying to do the things that she likes him to do instead of just doing whatever he wants it definitely does make a difference in that aspect

  • My secret weapon is Cunnilingus. I have gotten rave reviews.

    • Agreed and it's nice.

  • you have to actually like the person that you are with.
    If all you are doing together is getting laid then if he is good in bed then it may be a plus.

  • It drives me crazy like I'm getting a hand job and I yell out loud, hey daddy's baby girl squeeze the head of daddy's cock and stroke the base of daddy's thick cock, thank you sexy Pink Anonymous. I accept that the girl likes small cocks, mine isn't too big, but a lot of Ladies gave me compliments on my size.

  • I'm confused.

  • People think what they think, regardless of what the facts of a situation are.

  • Because we want to be everything to y'all. Listen and hung like a horse. At least a baby's arm (flaccid), then whatever size hard. Then giving you screaming and exploding orgasms.

    So we have to make you choose. That's not fair to you.

    Its also our self conscious getting to us that we're not good enough for you, but you chose us. Sometimes we can't get that through our head.

  • Sex isn’t just about busting a nut and making a woman orgasm. Although size does matter.. knowing someone intimately is the most important thing.
    It doesn’t matter if Im too deep, too big, or just good at sex. Learning a woman’s body and how she responds to every sensation you can give will make sex more worthwhile and make every session feel like a first time.

  • Bigger is not always better.

  • Because it is not the case, thats why

  • I don't quite understand your question. But my advice is communicate with your woman. Figure out what you both like, then go for it! Also little package men are just embarrassing. (Anyone who's offended is small XD this is the test.) Sorry to josh with you there. Too big is no fun either okay? So being the right size for your wife is all that matters.

  • Because it's not true.

  • I think you mean why CAN'T guys accept.

  • Because our cock is only good thing we have and we’re built for fucking. Having a good cock makes us seem mainly and women want a man to fuck. If women want a guy that just knows to listen she needs to find a gay guy. I am not kidding here, I heard women prefer gay guys over straight guys for stuff like this.

  • I have smaller size...

    • He's lying.. it's big 😝

    • Well, how do you know cute_potati01? 😉

    • @Cute_potato01 you are so funny 🤣

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