Sexual Relationships 
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Let's think about courtship and relationship dynamic and what both genders bring to the table:
1) Men almost always are the ones who initiate contact
(1 point - Male, 0 point -female)
2) Men for the most part are the ones who have to pay for dates
(1 point - male, 0 point - female)
3) Men almost always are the ones who have to plan and be the entertainers for the relationship while women judge whether she finds him entertaining enough to stick around
(2- points -male, 0 points -female)
4) When it comes to companionship and sex both members bring that to the table.
(2- point male, 2 point- female)
5) Even during official relationship men are often expected to continue caring out duties 3) and 4).
( 1- point male, 0 - female)
Hell, most relationships today just like marriage ends due to female majority of cases. Why the hell are men being the ones asking women out on date when they put in more of the effort at keeping the relationship active?
This retarded concept is akin to men having to get on their knees and beg a woman to marry him, the same marriage in which he gives his balls to a woman and gets divorced raped whenever the women decides she is fed up of the relationship.
What Girls & Guys Said
45 42hhhhhhh you're right. there is nooo problem in asking men out. I hope I have the courage to ask my crush out :p In addition , I am muslim and our Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) has been proposed for marrige from Khadija and he accepted even though she was veery older than him :)
Of course we should. I do it
The ironic thing here is that women want to be equal yet be treated with "chivalry". Again with the wanting the cake and eating it too. Choosing something from corum a and corum b that benefits THEM and disregard everything else. Not to mention the legal risks that a man had to deal with in a relationship or even marriage. I would recommend spending $40 at most on dates, spending 0 if possible and or 50/50.
I disagree with 3 and 5. Its usually that men chase a woman and after they have got her they loose interest and take her for granted. Ever heard of ," we never do things together anymore"? It comes from women. " I feel you're losing interest in me" " Don't you care/love me?" etc etc are all from women. Ever heard of a man complaining about how his girlfriend isn't romantic anymore? Doesn't love him anymore? Or how they don't spend enough time together? No, because most of the times boys chase girls and till that time its possible she didn't give him a second thought but after she says Yes, he assumes he's got her and no work is needed to make the relationship work. Girls care once they are in the relationship, or in conservative cases, had sex and they are the ones chasing him.
' Female majority of cases", any data? statistics? Hell, even a list of those cases?
Ever heard of a man complaining about how his girlfriend isn't romantic anymore? Doesn't love him anymore? Or how they don't spend enough time together? Yes actually i have. This usually precedes with girlfriend breaking up like a couple weeks after. Also your response shows a sense of entitlement. Why should men continue to be giving majority of effort in keeping the relationship active? " we never do things together anymore"? It comes from women. " Well girl how about you come up with some activities and be active in keeping the relationship romance alive rather than complain that your man doesn't want to be mr. entertainment for you 24/7.
Well you have to make time for it! . Its all " why will I have soup after a sweet dish?" to anything after sex. Its all sex. When are we going to have sex? Why are you making me wait? Sex this, sex that. And after sex is over, yeah I am off to sleep or to my place. How often is it that you actually do something romantic regardless of sex after you get a girlfriend? You only see it in romcoms, men being romantic and fun after a relationship, nobody cares about the damned relationship after he's got her. I am ready to even do all the planning myself if you just make time for me!! . No its all "boy's night out" and " personal space". Men never give the majority effect, if you are lucky they'll give a little. This is only for SOME men, not all.
At least we men take initiative in texting and conversation even though we're sick of women playing hard to get.
@Zeanobia I asked a guy out once. He said no. So its not like women asking men out will make stuff easier. Also ehen a girl gets rejected iy feels like something was seriously wrong with her because guys generally don't reject girl. Itakes wounded hearts to a whole new level.
But women do approach men, maybe just not you or the people that you're around. I agree with what @justbanANNAz said though, approaching can sometimes take an emotional toll especially if you get embarresed in public or rejected mostly so it's good to take a break because we want to feel wanted and that the ball is in our court.
they can if they want.
How is FBI brah?
its chillin d00d.
No, because, I'll most likely will say no. The reason why I won't ask the girl in question is because I don't like her, in that way. I can be shy, don't get me wrong, but if I can't do it, I'm not ready.
*yawn*
The guys are becoming more and more bitter on this website daily.
But I get a kick out of it!
I know! Whatever crawled up their ass and died needs to be dislodged and replaced with their heads!
@Kroakies_krickees it's crazy
It's so crazy i have to hard so hard not to generalize all western males because sometimes I cannot even fathom how western people get together, with the men acting so bitter, crazy and over analytical :/
I have asked, he wanted sexual favours after date 👇🏻. Down with da mutha fookers.
U don't like sex?
No I'm a totally sexless being 😈
So what? Sex is a great way to be intimate and you need to know whether you're sexual compatible. And to filter out the gold diggers and prudes
My choice is no so fuck off and stop acting like a walking Wikipedia @zeanobia
That's not how biology goes. Males approach females so that females choose their mates.
None of those reasons matter. Genetics and natural selection dictated that men shall chase as many women as they can. Men have a much harder time not chasing women than women trying not to chase after men.
Yes, they should.
I already do, but many still don't. Most of us women aren't necessarily opposed to the idea, they just never realized that women can do it too.
How butthurt are you to come up with something like that. You make it sound like men are superior yet in the comment section you're talking about equality. All I can see is how bitter you are and that you feel the need to put women down. I don't know about your past or what's happened but if that's a reason to post shit like this then it's a piss poor reason. You've literally just stated that the only thing women are good for is sex. with that approach in life you're not gonna get anyone
I never said men are superior but from the traditional dating/relationship dynamic that feminist and a lot of women still adhere to men tend to take on a very active approach at keeping relationship active. While women tend to be passive at it.
You did state "usually better then them in every way" If that's not what superior is then I don't know anymore
"usually better then them in every way" Nice snipping of a small piece of text without context. "We all know that women generally go for guys who make more money than them, usually taller and basically better than them in everyway" Meaning women generally do not date down but up. Hypergamy. They tend not to date guys who make about the same as them but guys who make more than them, usually is taller, and is naturally better looking than them when we remove the makeup from their face. Most guys who contest the last point I'm betting have never gotten a girlfriend and seen her in the morning when she isn't plastered with makeup.
Yea but it's insulting. You're saying women want men who are better then them. Why not equal as them. We're not gold diggers or something along those lines. You've literally insulted all women with that comment. As for your makeup comment. Not every girl does. I have never ever touched makeup let alone put it on my face
"Yea but it's insulting. You're saying women want men who are better then them. Why not equal as them. We're not gold diggers or something along those lines. You've literally insulted all women with that comment. " I did not make this statement with the intent to insult but bring to light the decision made by women in general. Women are either trying to deflect or subconsciously not aware of their choices in picking men. You can't expect to make a set of decisions and then don't want people to call you out on making those decisions. By in large the average woman does not date men who are in her tier, they tend to almost always mobilize upward. This can even reflect in the article written on vice recently where many college educated women were complaining of not wanting to date men with college degrees.
That's not what I've heard or read from other women so right now it's like my word against yours
Fyi I'm not saying you're wrong about women asking men because it should go both ways. I think it's simple that if you like someone then ask them out, putting gender aside. My point was that you made it sound like women are good for nothing just with how you laid out the whole question.
"You're saying women want men who are better then them. Why not equal as them." Yeah, it's pretty well established. It's called "dating up" or "hypergamy."
It does not matter if you didn't intend to make somebody feel offended. Intentions don't get anybody anywhere, actions do. So take action and make sure you aren't saying anything that would offend you. Put yourself in the other person's shoes.
I meant to say make sure that you aren't saying anything that would offend anybody. If you wouldn't like it, they wouldn't either. Put yourself in the receiver's shoes.
@Kroakies_krickees who are you talking about?
Sorry! The question asker!
@Kroakies_krickees oh ok gotcha 😊
Who say women don't ask guys out?
I would ask a guy out I liked but how do you go about asking if he has a girlfriend or not?
Last time I didn't know he had a girlfriend
The next day she slapped me. It was my fault anyways I didn't know.
But divorce raping a guy is just wrong.
Presume he has a girlfriend and say something about her in the abstract, then wait for him to correct you (or not.) Also, next time a woman slaps you in the face, open-palm strike (not a slap) her in the neck.
I mean it would make things easier.
I like the use of words wish i could défend my gender but you seem to have crackhead the code there davinci what ha gon do bout it?
Some women do ask out guys SOMETIMES... but most aren't hunting like men do. Mainly because they don't have to.
But your mentality is seriously fucked up.
Think about YOUR best interest. For YOUR best interest, u should be out PURSUING... instead of waiting to be pursued on.
THINK ABOUT YOUR BEST INTEREST- Is it in my best interest to have my money run down and be constantly be the entertainer in relationship?
I'm not telling guys shouldn't pursue girls but when you lay down who brings what to the table men by in large bring a lot more. If one party has a lot more to offer then the other party should be going after them not the other way around. You'll never see Bill Gates/Zuckerberg going to some startup company and begging them to allow them to be involved in a startup project their doing now would you?
It's about being a go-getter and pursuing women, instead of waiting around for an opportunity to come to you. Ever self made millionaire, was a go getter that took risk of failure, to achieve their goals. #JustSayin
I can initiate contact and pay for my portion of the date. I've even asked/suggested dating... but in my experience it's better meaning the outcome is more successful when the guy does all this FIRST.
Otherwise I'm just an option to him
First of all dates are corny. Secondly, I don't what the fuck you are talking about, girls chase guys all the time. You've got to be blind and whats up with this men vs women thing, there's no competion, we all are here for the same reason, to enjoy eachothers attention, care and conversation.