Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My Mom's boyfriend is almost 50 Years old but he is quite Rich Guy and Since My Mom have lost her Job in a Hotel, Her Boyfriend has been helping her with the Money and for the other Expenses ! These days My Mom is ruining out of Money and I also doing a Part time job but I get paid very little, in The Morning I go to college And I return in the afternoon, So My Mom's boyfriend helps us with Money !
We live in 1 BHK Flat, ( I bedroom, Hall + Kitchen ), My Mom's boyfriend comes on Weekend sometimes and he stay All night and go out on Next Morning, Now issue is that he has a high sex drive and he fucks My Mom very hard that sometimes it makes her cry and moaning, I have heard her crying many times and even she ask him to stop even then he don't STOP ! Although he is Supporting My Mom financially but he is quite Stubborn and Arrogant Man and I feels like he is very harsh and Rough with My Mom, Shall I talk to him about this? Will he listen me?
Shall I talk to My Mom's boyfriend ?
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My Mom thinks he can offer me a good job in his office So My Mom wants me to Greet/ Welcome him whenever I see him but to me He seems to me a TOTAL Arrogant and Surly Guy, He is quite Rich and because of My Mom's Bad financial situation he is taking her Advantage, I feels like he has made My Mom like his Concubine Instead of a Actual Girlfriend !!!
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13 39Ask your mom about it carefully and see her reaction if she defends him excuses him ext.
No, talk to your mother and ask how she is!
how she is?
Yes, exactly! Ask her!
It sounds like you and your mom are between a rock and a hard place. Talking to this guy might not be the best idea if he is a manipulator he might make things worst for your mom. From what I read the relationship your mom has with this guy is very toxic and really should get out of it. I understand with the crazy world we live in where everything going up in price the average joe is having a harder time making ends meat.
I recommend trying to at least warn your mom probably.
This is not your business, and you don't understand sex enough to know what's going on. It's understandable that you feel concerned about your mom, but you should NOT know anything about their sex life, you should mind your own business.
Take the job. Set him up or Plan a heist. Move ur mom somewhere nice.
Thank me later
Hate to break this to you but welcome to the real world. Unfortunately your mom is in the position where the only value she has is her body and she has made the dececion to use it to feed and shelter her family. Sounds like you have a dececion of your own to make. Look for a job that pays more so you can take some of the burden of your mom or finish school and attempt to survive the situation you're in until you do. Not an easy spot but talking to the guy probably isn't going to do anything but get you beat up and sounds like there's nothing your mom can do. Good Luck.
@vegasrunner You Know what? My Mom lost her job a Year Ago and she had to pay some old debts and then She asked him to pay off her debts but Now i feels like he is taking advantage of her situation and it seems like My Mom is his Concubine instead of a Real Girlfriend, Anyway My issue is that When he stay at My house then he fucks her very badly and I barely can sleep because of My Mom's crying and Moaning and More or less it happens ALMOST Once or twice in a Month !
It is certainly not what you want to hear, I understand that but it is what it is. There is a choice here, your mom technically dosen't need to accept money from him. Nothing in this world is for free and this seems to be the consequences of the decesion. The barely sleep part is tough, but why don't you just find somplace else to stay on those day since he's only over there twice per month?
@vegasrunner He comes like twice or thrice in a Month but he comes At any time specially late In evening and Its very difficult to go and sleep out of the house for a Night, I have few friends but they live far and going to there house in Night is also not very comfortable !
Uncomfortable position I can imagine, what actions have you decided to take?
If it concerns you, then by all means talk to him about it; but prepare yourself for his reaction as well as your mom's.
@dchrls78104 What could be his reactions? Can he be Mad on me?
At best, he could listen to you and all could go well; at worst, he could get mad at you for interfering and so can your mom. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
@dchrls78104 You got me in Dilemma, I usually don't talk to him because his attitude his quite Arrogant and Surly, Can you PM me?
I don't think you should talk to him about your mom. If you did he might treat her worse and cut off the financial help he has been giving her. If anyone should say anything it's your mom
Wouldn't hurt to talk to him
Yeah I know it would not hurt me if I talk to him but Can it take out on My Mom?
Not if ya do it politely
From what you say I don't think he is hurting your mom with rough sex. I know it's your mom but he's fucking her good. When a woman is enjoying sex and she's overwhelmed with pleasure they scream, moan, yell, cry out in pleasure. Some will actually cry cry afterwards because their emotions are off the charts. Did she tell you that he is hurting her? If not I would say go buy you some ear plugs.
How do. you know that she really means it. Maybe it's consensual nonconsent. If you bring it up with him, thr only thing that might happen is that they will be quieter or use something to muffle the noise. My girlfriend is a screamer during sex, so I always play music when we do it
I guess that happens when you get paid for sex.
Probably but He is her boyfriend as well
No coz most probably she wants and like that type hard fucking.
@redhotline Hmm... First i don't think she likes that kind of hard fucking, you can say it brutal fucking... My Mom cry a lot when he do this So I think he is sexually Exploiting her Though I am not sure if I should intervene or Not because My Mom didn't ask My help and if he got annoyed then he would fuck her even more badly !
Then ask her. Is there any problem or not.
Financial problems get everyone and they come out of it. My thoughts are this guys gonna keep you in poverty and maintain control. Better to do it yourself and keep your freedom than be under someone's control.
You know what this is, she's being a sugar baby. She should satisfy him as long as he pays her
@tstrbrainer She is being a Sugar baby but I NEVER asked My Mom for anything, if she don't have Money then its okay... She should not have taken help of a Guy like him, Now he fucks her so badly that I feels like he thinks her like his Concubine ! Also I am not Sure if he will stop if I talks to him !
He really doesn't need to stop. Better tell your mom to stop seeing him.
if he is that stubborn and arrogant he will not care what anyone says. your mom may want to be with him and stay with him for many reasons money it seems mainly but you do not have to deal with him, if you take the job for him he will think he owns you too. i say do not deal with him at all. he is a jerk and he knows it.
I would definitely talk to my mother first and let her know how I feel as well as asking her how she feels before talking to the guy. If that guy is as arrogant as you say he is then it may put your mother in a tough spot if you do talk to him.
You mom is lucky to get such boyfriend, who is rich and sexually strong, giving money to your mom, he may give you some good job but may be he will also fuck you in return,
Yes but I may talk to your mom first and make sure it is what you think it it before talking to him…
@ngraham101 But what is the use of talking to My Mom first? She can't do Anything and He is exploiting her sexually, I know I am not Sure after I talked to him then he would change his behavior with My Mom !
Ok then if you are sure of what he is doing to your mom then I would tell him what you heard and what you know and front him out….. do you think he will do anything to you if you call him out on it?
He might go Mad on me or He might starts shouting on me !
Ya that’s a hard call….
Yeah but I will have take some Risks