Should I ask my boyfriend about sharing me with another man?

It’s not any guy in particular that I want, and I don’t just want to sleep with him, I want to sleep with both of them at the same time. I really don't know how my boyfriend would react to this, but I don’t want to go my whole life never knowing if he would.

Some of the porn he's told me he's watched makes me think maybe he would be open to the idea. I love my boyfriend very much and I’m not interested in pursuing a relationship with the other guy but i just want to experience two men at the same time. I think my boyfriend and I will be together for a very long time as we have always talked about kids and marriage, so my worry is if I ask, I might put this at risk, but if I don't ask, I'll always wonder!

What would you guys do?
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  • Yeah I ask him he might get to it I enjoy seeing my girlfriend having sex

  • If you want to be single, sure.

  • You shouldn’t live your life in fear of what might happen.

    Ask your guy what he thinks about you and him having 3sones, and then tell him you want to experience a MMF 3some with your boyfriend and another man.

  • I think you should say it to him as you have said it to us.

    Not many people like sharing and its really important that you make it clear that its him you want and that if he isn't into that isn't a problem.

    I always think its best to ask this sort of question right out of the gate before either of you cares about the other for exactly this reason.