Should I believe what a guy says while having sex?

[Anonymous]

Stuff like "you the best", " I love you" etc..

[megabamse]

Almost always all the intimate things humans say is white lies. We as humans say these things and i do mean all humans and all genders. We say these things because it makes the other one feel nice and that in return makes us feel nice that they feel nice. And we like hearing these things. It's not a complete lie, but it might be not completely true. But does it matter? Like for real? There is nothing unique with "you" "us" there have been billions of humans just like us through out history. There is nothing special or unique about us. Not really. There have been milions of someone just like you and there have been milions of someone just like me. But that don't really matter, it's the now that matters. That moment right there. Enjoy it. Don't over think it. Don't think to much about it. Not everything's have to be unique or ultra special to be enjoyed. We all like some form of trash food. It's all fun and nice to go to a fancy restaurant but we know we enjoyed that trashy food a bit more. It's comfortable, it's nice. And if both parties involved falls deep in love you can definitely tell, and all them generics average things that's being said feels like home.

[slatyb]

Pay no attention to any of that ever. Pay attention to how he makes you feel. If you are relaxed with him, and would rather be with him than anywhere else, then it doesn't matter if he says "I love you" or not. If he stresses you out, and you are exhausted after being with him, then it doesn't matter how often he says "I love you."

[elizamichale1]

Not really coz they will say tht to every girl tbh
But if they keep coming back to u n u feel u can control them through ur sex then yeass believe him

[Sour-rose]

Lol nooo. If you slap a guy hard enough after he said he wants it, he'll say anything for more

[Anemone978]

Sometimes.. but usually no..

[ArrowheadSW]

Funny that the general consensus on this thread is, "No"... LOL

[richardcory]

He probably means it when he says it, but the real test is what he says at other time.

Also, some things are just expected. No one (I hope) says "that was great, you are the 3rd best lover I've had". A little white lie about how great your partner is is fine

[OfMiceandMen]

Does he say the same thing when you aren't having sex?

If not, then he's just saying those things to make you feel good, to get more sex out of you.

[boggboss]

In the moment sure but I wouldn't say that's how he feels on a deeper level no

[Finchie40]

Only if you been with him for awhile and he is in it for the long haul then yes believe him , if you know he is coming to you and spending quality time with you outside the bedroom then yes believe him , if it’s just some guy that you been having sex with on occasion and you barely see him outside the bedroom , then it’s probably more pillow talk then anything

[MementoMori777]

If he's not your boyfriend or husband, you probably shouldn't

[Angel_ica]

No it is his cock talking not his brain

[Nikki1989]

Hell NO!

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes, you should, but he should also mean it.

[Amishaxx]

Don't look much into it. Just enjoy the moment hun

[sidhagain]

Good advice!

[shades777]

just go with it, its apart of foreplay doesn't have to be literal, thought women liked to role play lol 😂

[Guardian45]

LOL! In the heat of the moment, should I believe what you say?

[ThebestIndian]

If he means it

[MasterKS]

No, its just a reaction.

[Cheerfull009]

If you satisfy him, he will say, I love you

[Justjerkoff90]

No never

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. Many factors play into it. A lot of people are drunk or high when they have sex. Usually can gage there true feelings but usually don’t take that too heart because it tends to cloud judgement. What they see as attractive under the influence and what they say will change when they sober up. However, if they are completely sober in there right mind and say some stuff during sex, you can communicate and see what they meant more times than not they may be true.

[Anonymous]

Take it with a grain of salt

[Anonymous]

When we say that stuff during sex, we feel like we mean it, but it's probably mostly because good sex actually fucks with our heads a lot.

I've been with woman I barely even knew and after having sex a couple times, literally wanted to marry them (for a span of about 3 minutes)

I don't think most guys would admit this but it's mostly because the whole time I; and I'm assuming other guys too, know it's just an emotional/chemical response and it's not always completely genuine.