Should I ever admit this to a b/f or husband?

I've done a few things sexually that some might find bad or wrong (multiple guys, gang bangs, orgies, etc.). Is this a part of my life I should ever admit to or just keep it a secret.
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  • If I were your b/f, I'd want to know

  • Thats up to you really. I knoe if a girl told me that she did those things i would be ok with it. But not every guy is understanding.

  • Hmm those are my fantasies too. Reverse gangbang, FMF, FFMF etc if you were my girlfriend we will do that together 😜

  • You can't turn a whore into a housewife. I would dump you.

  • take it to your grave

  • only if you feel like you would need to

    mostly due to you having std's

    or pregnancies/kids

    or legal trouble

    or current boyfriend's (you're actually cheating)

  • Judgement call on your part. Is those sort of things along the lines of something you would still enjoy, or is that something you don't look back on fondly? If you still have the desire for those sorts of things, you should probably bring it up. If not, it's more a question of what you're comfortable talking about and what he's comfortable hearing.

  • well normally i endorse honest transparency. but it really depends on if he can handle it and if you want more of it. most men have such fragile masculinity these days. it saddens me really. the reaction should be based on the fact that after all of that you chose me. but recent generations might be better with a bib and a rubber spoon

  • Pm me if can tell you things and give you advice

  • yes you should, he might be okay with it

  • Maybe before you two get married.
    If he later finds out from someone else, he might feel bad

  • Why not talk about it. Secrets just drive people apart. But choose the situation carefully. Don't just tell I've had a gangbsng randomly haha

  • It would be best to be honest.

  • Its your expereince. U dont have to share it. But if i was your guy i would like to know cause you can use the experience to give me more expereice 😉

  • boyfriend: then u should, a husband: i dont know

  • Depends on the boyfriend or husband, some will take it in stride, some will judge

  • Only admit it if they ask.

  • Thats sexy

  • Without any doubts yes.. He may accept it.. or no but you'll be 100% clear and honest.. Until u find someone who ll accept it... Good luck

  • Your partner deserves to know so they can choose if they want that type of person.

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