Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Should I ever admit this to a b/f or husband?
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I've done a few things sexually that some might find bad or wrong (multiple guys, gang bangs, orgies, etc.). Is this a part of my life I should ever admit to or just keep it a secret.
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8 42keep it to yourself. no guy wants to hear his woman is doing that shit
Keep it secret.
I guess you should admit it. This is the best way to find someone who matches you and your mindset. If you lie, this person will be very disappointed when learning about your past. This has happened to me before...
You did it, now own it. Own it before he falls for you so he isn’t hurt too bad. Somebody will tell him.
She isn’t required to tell him about her sexual past and why do guys by force need a girl With no sexual experience? It’s creepy to be frank it’s almost like Some guys do prefer women to have a limited child’s experience which is highllyyy strange
@laPrincesitaRoxi She a hoe and she know. So do you. So will he when a friend or enemy tells him.
I don’t think women are children and shouldn’t have a sexual past wtf, she’s grown and should have her own experiences. Also why would anyone even do That lmfao
@laPrincesitaRoxi She can. But many guys don’t want a woman that has done those things so it’s best if she is upfront about it instead of it eventually coming out. Many people already know, he should know what he is getting.
And many of those guys are also Deluded and hella suspect if I’m honest, like did They want to date little Girls or? And it coming out? 😂 it’s not anything major or like some dark Secret it’s Just her business, also women aren’t product she’s an actual person he should just be with her SIMPLY for liking her and he clearly Already does now if someone Need you to be these molds Of people they want it’s just gross tbh and screams superficiality
@laPrincesitaRoxi bitter much? If it doesn’t matter she should just let them know, “hey I’m a gangbang and orgy kind of girl, just so you know”.
Huh? 🤨 Also no it’s not something that matters, if they want to make Sure there partner is clean (which Should be the only concern) than they should get tested together. Also she’s allowed to have her kinks tf, grow up.
@laPrincesitaRoxi These are all things you want them to be but not how other people view them as they have their own opinions and preferences. She knows that many men think and feel this way which is why it’s a question. You don’t get to speak for everyone!
Well than date a doll it has no experience beyond you and nobody has opinions on them ^.^ Real people unfortunately do have lives and i know that’s not something you want lol
We all know guys think this way and that’s why I tell All women don’t tell them anything unless you want to keep misogyny and controlling women culture well and alive. Men Shouldn’t feel Entitled To a Women with no sexual past
@laPrincesitaRoxi People that have had a few partners aren’t an issue. People that have had a few partners in the same night, multiple times, yeah that’s an issue.
Women are allowed to engage in their kinks, life is only 1 time and I don’t see why women have to ALWAYS not live life how they want because stupid males like you want to control even the experiments women are allowed to have. Those days are over and as they should be because it’s wrong and this is why so many women like me definitely just refuse to date altogether because guys are misogynistic and it’s annoying tbh. We’re already in 2020 and guys are Still I’m Denial Women Have sex And can have sex.
@laPrincesitaRoxi We don’t want whores for wives and the mother of our children. You sound defensive, lol.
It’s an outdated idea and we didn’t Want cheaters and abusers as husbands but yet that’s what so many got woman got and that’s why marriage rates are down because of women. Also no I don’t I’m just pro women.
@laPrincesitaRoxi yes you are defensive, Miss friends with benefits. Wow, can you see her mother-in-law finding out, wow! Yeah, that will go over well.
No im not im just prowoman, I don’t see the problem. Also I don’t see the problem with preferring friends with benefits. As a mother myself I don’t think we’d care about the past of the women our sons with. All that matters is how well They treat our son and how happy They make them.
@laPrincesitaRoxi And yet to you, men can’t have an opinion on behavior? And you would be grossed out by anything a man did in his past and then went to get with you? I don’t believe it. I think you just want it to be “the world according to you”. Fucking narcissist.
Not when your opinion is to control women throughout there entire life even before they meet you and put shame onto women who don’t do that. I don’t ask people’s past, I don’t even ask about past relationships because I don’t find it productive in any way. Also you’re looking in a mirror if that’s so.
@laPrincesitaRoxi I don’t want to control women. I want to control what happens in my life to the best of my ability. Bringing a gang banging hoe into my life as a partner is a bad idea. That’s a big fucking no, lol. It’s an easy call, no pun intended. You don’t get to decide what’s acceptable to others. I know on here that women won’t want a man if he sucked another guy off. I have seen the polls. Women don’t have to accept bisexual men. They don’t have to accept cowards. They don’t have to accept short guys and more. Men don’t have to accept cum dumps.
but yet its cool for guys to do things? gotta love double standards
Exactly that girl he’s a misogynistic and all guys who think this dumb fs are and
I like bisexual men sooo.
That’s for women to decide, not me. Do you want to be with a guy that has had gangbangs with other guys, sucked them off, was screwed by them? Then have at it.
I wouldn’t even know because I’m not looking too deep into people’s past, to me it only matter if there clean and a good human being and having sex won’t make u a bad person no matter what u did unless you’re a predator or rapist than that’s the only Thing I’d say is a big fat hell no
Other than that the past is the past
See, you can. Because I won’t try and stop you from liking them. Buuuuuttttttt, your opinion ends there. It doesn’t get to apply to others. You are so determined to make others believe what you want them to believe. So intolerant.
No it’s beyond just my opinion it’s killing a toxic culture created by men, women don’t have to explain what they have done before and with who. The only thing that matters is if there clean period. You trying to keep a toxic mentality alive just isn’t being accepted no more.
@laPrincesitaRoxi Blahahahahaha, no, just no. Hoe is a hoe. LMFAO. You are ridiculous.
Women don’t even care about thAt man made word anymore it’s just a word with 0 power anymore :) Women are free individual and can be just who they want to be At any point in there lives. Stay bootyworked over it woman don’t owe you any explanations.
@laPrincesitaRoxi you hide it to, don’t you. Yeah you do.
Women of all types are worthy and amazing 🤍♾
@laPrincesitaRoxi so, men of all types are worthy and amazing too?
@laPrincesitaRoxi I love the way you think... you say what I want to say but I have probs saying it. You are awesome, thanks.
No 😌✨ Not misogynistic like yourself or rapist but other than yes ofc all men Are worthy and amazing too
Girl your welcome 🙏🥺❤️ You are awesome girl and don’t let nobody make u feel any different
@laPrincesitaRoxi Oh please. You are both SJW trying to message. Whores are whores, even women don’t like them. Don’t wait hours later to declare victory, you haven’t won anything.
Women empowerment is big nowadays don’t lie. Women love women and ur very mean
@laPrincesitaRoxi I just speak truth sweetheart.
You SHOULD admit it to a boyfriend or husband because:
Wait until he is your fiancee or about to propose, if you know before he does, about it. But you should be open and honest with the man you are about to marry about this part of your life.
But even then, is it important to tell him. Why can't the past just be part of the past. If I'm not cheating him, why does it matter?
Those skeletons will always be in your closet; better that he find out from you than someone else.