Should I give my husband a threesome?

About two weeks ago I admitted to my husband that I had cheated on him. I had sex with another guy twice two years ago. Before the other guy, my husband was the only person I had ever been with sexually and the only person I had even dated. I felt horrible about what I had done to him and our relationship. I've apologized several times and told him I didn't want to lose him. That I would do anything to save our marriage. He thinks that I was unsatisfied with our sex life and that's why I cheated. I've tried several times that it wasn't unsatisfaction with our sex life or with him but he doesn't seem to understand. He says that he wants to have a threesome now. That a threesome is the only way to prove my love and that I want to be with him. He also wants to have sex with some other woman twice. After that, he will then be able to move past my cheating. I love him and don't want to lose him. I know I deserve to be punished and accept the consequences of my actions but I don't know if I can go through with a threesome, especially with the fragile state our relationship is in. What should I do? He said if I don't do the threesome than he wants a divorce.
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Does everyone really believe a relationship is unable to survive infidelity? I regret what I did with every fiber of my being. I know that I will never do it again. I don't want to cause my husband any more pain. I love him & want to stay w/ him.
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  • Not a chance you want to Dike yourself out? and you should have never cheated on him in the first place