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Should I let go of my boyfriend since I am scared to show him my saggy unattractive breasts?

Well I I have been dating an amazing man..
He things I am the best thing that happened to him... Even i iike him a lot
Also he fantasizes that I have an amazing pair of breast

Which sadly is not true

I have saggy breast with large areola... And I think they r unattractive...
I dont want to disappoint him... And this fear is eating me alive...

Should i just let go of him so that he can find a perfect girl
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  • Please don't do that to him and yourself. It sounds like you have a negative body image issue regarding your breasts, even though the attributes you mention are normal. Please don't project that onto him because that's not fair to him. He's going to accept every part of you and he knows full well what the normal variation in breast appearance is. And don't push him away also because you say he's an amazing guy and you deserve to be with a guy you think is amazing. Most of the things women think are their body flaws aren't things that guys think are problems.

    • Thank you so much for ur kind words

    • You're very welcome. 😀

  • I doubt that's any big deal, but if you think it might be, then simply tell him. Say something like "I hope you aren't going to be disappointed, but they aren't nearly as firm and perky as I wish they were." That will at least adjust his expectations, and I doubt he'll even slow down.

    It's pretty unlikely that he's as good a guy as you say and is still one of the few ultra-picky guys who insist upon "perfect tits." And those guys are usually quite young (teens/early 20s). Most likely, he won't care.

    • I told him loads of times... But he just still wants to believe

    • Well, if you've told him, then he's not going to be shocked or surprised by some sag. I don't think you have anything to worry about.

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  • don’t be an idiot. Give yourself more value than to base it solely on the size or shape of your breasts.

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  • Hell no!!! Get him all turned on and let him at them. He may well love them.

    • Ya... Although all the men i have been with in the past has complained,.. or they being modest... I don't know.. but thanks for your time

  • No if he loves like u say. Then ur boobs being saggy shouldn't make him want 2 leave u. In all honesty he really might like ur boobs. Especially cause they have nice acerola. Just cause they sag a little. That's no reason for him 2 want 2 leave u. They other ways 2 make up for ur boobs. Another is don't be ashamed about ur boobs. Be proud u have some. If he truly loves u and want u 2 have better boobs. Then maybe the 2 of u can work 2gether and get u a boob job. Good luck

    • Thank you... I really am feeling a little better

  • WTF did I just read? No, you shouldn't break up with a person for fear of disappointing them. That being said, show him your boobs already, and be sure to tell him your concerns before you do it, and see what his reaction is. It'll probably not be a big deal for him, even if he's a boob guy

    • Will tried that already... He says it doesn't matter... He knows they are amazing... Sigh

    • Then there won't be a problem. Go with it. If you warned him, he knows, and doesn't care, I'm pretty sure. My girlfriend used to be concerned about her boobs too, and I was the same way. When I saw them, I adored them

  • No you shouldn't let your insecurities get in the way of this. Do you really wanna look back on your life and say I had this great thing with a guy but I threw it away because I was afraid? He probably already knows kinda how your breasts look and he's into them so don't worry too much and be brave :). You can do it! :)

    • If that is true that he already knows about them... Then thats a huge relief

  • Forget about it. They are fine. He's not going to care.

    • Hope not

  • I have never been turned off by breasts. We men might have a picture of what we see as ideal breasts, but I don't think any men would turn down a girl if their breasts are a little different.

    • He won't turn down... But he might just not like them

    • If you would ask someone who is single to describe the perfect person, it's very hard or even impossible to find someone who fulfills all the requirements. People don't expect others to be perfect. He hasn't seen your breasts yet. They might be not completely as he expected them to be but he doesn't expect perfection. I'm sure that if he sees them, he will like them.

    • Thank you so much

  • WHy don't you let him decide if he likes your breasts, and you worry about whether you like him.

    • I like him a lot

    • So that's part 2 covered. No just have to worry about part 1. Let him at your breasts and see if he's happy. My guess is yes, but only one way to find out.

  • Your breasts are fine. Guys don't look at your breasts in a mirror like you do. We see them from the top and if lucky in our faces while you are on top and from the side if we are coming at you from behind. Guys see boobs and go into action. They don't just stare at them. They all look similar when you are on your back.

    • I hope so too

  • No, don't let your insecurities kill a good thing. He'll be happy with them, you at least need to give him a chance to decide for himself.

    • Ya you are right

  • STOP BEEN RIDICULUS, is you're boyfriend, you sucesfuly have him whit a small one, and if you want so much to have a big one, then go for a threesome

  • No. You should realize that you are your own worst enemy and show him anyway. I guarantee that your breasts are 1000x nicer than you think.

    • Ya you r right

  • Let him see them. Maybe he will like them anyway. I dont care if they are perfect. They are still fun to play with, suck on, etc.

    • Ya only time can say.. not that any if my exe's complained about them... I m just nervous about this guy

  • Care to share a picture? Chances are you are over thinking it. If your guy is 25+, he's probably seen breasts of many women and can correctly imagine what they look like already.

    Also, breast size can't be increased but it can be uplifted by some shoulder and pec exercise if that is a disappointment to you personally.

    • He is 35 ... And actually seen many women around the world... Makes me more nervous that i might be the most different... By the way does exercises really work?

    • Yes, you can look them up online. Not drastically, but they make a difference if you don't want them to sag as much. My sure guess though is that it wouldn't matter to him much. But 35 he's probably had some sexual partners and 'been there done that', and if he likes you it's probably got to do with the connection he feels to you. So there is no reason to feel insecure about your breasts.

    • *Because he's 35 he's probably...

  • You say he fantasies that you have amazing breasts. How do you know?
    Might he really be expressing his determination to find them amazing because they are yours?

    • Ya... He said that though... That its amazing because they r mine... I was just worried that they might imagine them to be perky

    • But he presumably knows your age and has some idea that only 16 year olds have perky breasts. Allow him some intelligent inference. He likes you, let him enjoy doing so.

  • No. If you let him go, what about the next guy? And the next? Be yourself. If he loves you he will love all of you.

  • What they look like is opinion based.
    If he likes them, then they're not unattractive.

    • True

  • A little sag is actually attractive to me.

    • I hope my guy thinks like u

    • I hope so too :)

  • No no!! Keep Him! There's a Gentleman! I also find my Girl's Breasts to be the CUTEST, most PERFECT breasts ever! I'm actually afraid if my Girl sees Her Boobs that way too... I'll ask sometime!

  • O think you should stop overthinking and let Hime decide for him self boobs are just boobs

    • Lets see,,,,

  • If he likes you, he'll find your boobs attractive. Whie I don't find that attractive I know a lot of guys do. He m. j st find boobs that look like yours amazing.

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