Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Should I open up to my mom about being used for sex?
SuGaR18 Xper 3
My mom and I are really close but I don’t know if can tell her that my boyfriend used me for sex. I don’t want her to be disappointed in me and she can’t help noticing that I feel very down these days. Should I keep hiding it to myself or open up to her? What do you guys think?
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14 43Just once or thats only reason he with you dump the prick
You should tell you mother. She gave birth to you and deserve that her children are honest with her
It’s entirely how you feel about telling her. Sometimes it might be easier just to talk to a close friend or even someone on a site like this.
Whatever you do don’t bottle your feelings up.
I’d be more than happy to chat with you if you wish.
Thank you so much ❤️😞
@sugar18 My pleasure.
Definitely depends on yalls' relationship. If you're used to talking about personal things with her then maybe/yes. You shouldn't feel ashamed about this though, we all make mistakes. Recognizing them and learning from them is how you grow as a person. It's good you're trying to find someone to confide in, much healthier than bottling it up.
Is she generally nice to you otherwise? Then I would say yes; you can tell her.
You know well the nature of your mom. If you think she is open in discussion and won't get depression or anything else, tell her, otherwise you will remain in constant mental disturbance.
I don't see why not because you are really close to your mother and she can probably give you the best advice. I think it will do you a lot of good to talk to her.
How did your boyfriend use you for sex?
My guess is he used his penis on her :(
As in rape?
No. I read her prior question. Apparently, this dude broke up with a girl and SuGaR18 was the rebound chick. But then the dude went back to the original girlfriend, leaving SuGaR18 a woman scorned. And rumor has it that Hell hath no fury for something like this particular situation. LOL. Live and learn!
Yea that's fucked up but it's obviously not her fault the guy was just a sleezebag
Yeah it sux. But it happens. :(
He didn't use you any more than you used him. He just traded a little round for some flat.
I mean it's always best to lean on someone who knows you rather then a stranger however sometimes it might help and sometimes it won't but it depends. I would do it just to be safe and cause you trust her
If you are not pregnant nor caught an STD from your encounter.
Since it can not be undone,
Just need to accept this as a learning experience of what not to allow to happen and move on with your life.
If he isn't your boyfriend anymore, you could tell her that you broke up with him and then decide if you want to go into details.
If you've been able to open up to them in the past then you can for sure, or if you have friends then that's better. Parents can be overbearing sometimes
If you have a good relationship with your mom then tell her. I'm sure she won't judge you
Yup. Moms love hearing that
If you want to
That’s totally up to you, I don’t know your Mom.
Just forget it it happens to lots of girls
Not everyone can move on the other day
I know sweetheart 😢 i would never use a girl for just sex unless sge wants too
Best way to get over something, is to talk it out. Your mom may have some knowledge and help you through this
You can consult your mom. What did your boyfriend
First of all sorry to hear about that!
Sometimes sharing something helps one feel better.
She won't be disappointed in you if she is close to you, trust me!