Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Should I worry that I initiate sex with my boyfriend more than him?
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So basically my boyfriend and I been together for a year. He lives kinda far like an hour and he works the rest of the week so we see each other on the weekend. It’s became almost like a routine when we see each other to have car sex (since we don’t have anywhere else to be intimate) sometimes it’s hard because it gets hot and his car is kinda small. Anyways, before he used to initiate it and I feel like over time I’m the one mentioning if he wants to hit our “spot” he never says no or make excuses he’s always down. When we have sex there isn’t a problem he gets into it, he loves my breasts and when I give him head he’s on top of the world. I’ve confronted him about it asking why he doesn’t initiate as much and he says because I bring it up before he does and he knows no matter what we will end up doing it. I feel almost as like he’s like whatever with it, I’ve asked a friend and she thought it was super weird that he’s a “man” and should be jumping for my pants every second. He’s 27 and hasn’t had many serious relationships and he was pretty sexually NOT active before we met. I consider him an introvert since he was super shy and waited for me to make the move and then it flowed from there. Also he isn’t into sexting or phone sex or sending dick pics but he’s more than happy of my nudes in fact, he has a whole gallery in his phone dedicated to my nudes. Should I be concerned? Is there something wrong
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Thanks for all your responses! Makes me feel better that I’m overreacting. I talked with him about it and he’s been initiating more!
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 31Nah. I initiate sex a lot.
Nothing wrong at all
Keep on keeping on
So you asked him, he answers you but you still think there is a problem? Why you asked him then?
Most tasks in a relationship fall to who can't go without it as long. Be it sex, washing, cleaning or gardening.
Being honest, it’s kinda weird, but maybe you just have a higher sex drive than he does?
No probably being to polite.
no, don't worry about. It is a good sign from a woman that she wants sex. I lot of guys don't quite know when to ask, feel rejected after asking and getting a no, or seem like legal issues could start if asking too much
I think you shouldn't worry. It doesn't mean every man should be running towards man. It can be opposite too.
Yes If he isn't looking for it from u he's looking other places
Yes, you probably should. If the guy isn't the one seeking sex the majority of the time, that's not normal. He either isn't particularly into you, or he has low testosterone. Neither is good.
This guy is correct.
Are you implying that you were the initiator in starting the relationship? As in, you asked him out first or approached him?
Sounds normal.
No problem there
Yea.