Should women in bars wear badges declaring if they're up for sex?

[purplepoppy]

I'm going to say something really controversial here that many of you might find hard to believe. Not every woman you see in a bar is on a cock hunt. That's right some just want to have a drink and chat with their friends. The problem is guys then get butt hurt. Politely declining his kind offer of sex because you have a husband and 6 kids is translated into "women don't want guys like me, I'm off to whinge on GAG"

So should women wear a small badge to state her sexual intentions. Perhaps red for "only chatting" blue for "good looking rich guys only" or yellow for "I'm the village bicycle". You get the general idea.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Ok, I like the theory of this, but I have a few reservations.

¹a woman may still want to change her mind and say no, but if she has this badge on her then its possible she could revoke consent but have no proof because she had this badge on her
²what is stopping someone from just drugging a girl and then putting a badge on her?
³if my conversations on here are anything to go by, even when I say I am not interested and that I am gay, I still get guys asking me all the time if they can still hook up with me. A badge isn't going to make much difference. Those kind of guys think the girl just needs to be convinced and he is the perfect guy to do it.

I would love to see something though making it easier for both sides though

[Kaneki05]

Oh these are some great points.

[Birdlegs]

I’ve been to parties that use this system with the color of their cups or like glow sticks and as far as I’ve seen these hang ups haven’t happened. I obviously haven’t seen the first one since that’d be in a more private area but I’m sure if a woman shows off her thing that says “approach me I want to have sex” she most likely wouldn’t change her mind

[Ez-Bri-Z]

But of she wants to it just hurts her defense to say she changed her mind before anything happened.

[purplepoppy]

I'm looking for sex doesn't mean with anyone. I think mos

[Kaneki05]

@Birdlegs people can always change there mind. People can change there mind just before the moment of pull down there pants. Consent 101. And just cause you haven't see it don't really mean much. Would for happen if given the chance it happens now without this as an excuse.

[purplepoppy]

Most guys. would hopefully get that

[Birdlegs]

@kaneki05 I’m not saying they can’t. What I am saying though is that if she’s wearing a thing that says “approach me I’m open for sex” that she would be open for people to approach her. She can choose to have sex or not. The question is asking about how some women don’t want to be approached or don’t want to have sex because they’re hanging out with their friends or something. That’s what I’m referring to. I’m not talking about having sex itself I’m talking about being approached

[Kaneki05]

@Birdlegs i think your missing the big point of the badge been used in such way's a rapist would.

[Leavesbound]

I would not obligate a woman to do such a thing but...

It might be helpful if women who were there looking for a booty call had some sort of a badge or name tag or something that constituted an invitation towards that end. Maybe the bar could have a sign and a rack with pink beads with the sign saying "LADIES IF YOU WANT TO ADVERTISE WEAR THESE BEADS" then if you're there to hook up just grab a string of beads and put then on and wait. Or bars could have "no flirt zones" and if you are there just to do as you say, hang out with friends for a drink then go over to the no flirt zone and sit down there and any guy who goes into the no flirt zone gets kicked out of the bar. If you are their for a hook up then sit down at the flirting zone where guys are free to hit on you.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah that is actually a good idea.

it would also save guys who are out with female friends, from acting like hired muscle lol.

We will need some specific ones for Newcastle,

one for Blow Job available but buy us a drink

etc

Bigg Market a big badge that also acts as a sponge

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Is there a badge for " there's not enough alcohol in the whole bar for that" badge, cuz that's the one I'd be wearing🤣

[purplepoppy]

Yes its the black "let's visit a bigger bar before we do anal" badge

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

🤣🤣🤣 but tI meant there wasn't enough alcohol in a bar for me to have sex with a stranger, anal or otherwise😂

[chrissykerdock]

if it helps getting what you want it's a great idea.

[rajcuckold]

Yes it is @chrissykerdock

[loves2learn]

Yup. Great idea. Then everyone knows what’s up.

[Red_Arrow]

They could wear more descriptive badges. Obviously they might wear one that states they are looking for a guy to leave with for fucking, Or that they intend to stay virgin, but want a guy to blow. But more choices exist. Do they want one guy to connect with. Or perhaps they are looking for one for a quick fuck in the bathroom and then on to the next guy. Or perhaps having more than one, but at the same time.

[Mark-IV]

It’s a bad idea, because girls will just use it for attention from a ton of guys

[Guffrus]

Kind of like a wedding ring?

[A_Bell]

Would it toggle off and on based on what we think about the men in close proximity.

[kinkynicci]

I kinda like that idea. Would make life much easier for everyone involved.

[rajcuckold]

Yes @kinkynicci

[helva]

Indeed easier but less arousing.

[rajcuckold]

@helva do you wanna try? Have you cuckold your boyfriend before?

[helva]

@rajcuckold [When in a relation and going to a bar I would not wear a yellow one. Never been cuckolding and I never do.

[kkirk4442]

I'm guessing that this would not work, as the women with badges, would be swarmed by men they were not interested in.

[Kaneki05]

Would make social interactions so much easier.

[Kas19]

I would love that

[rajcuckold]

Let's try @kas19

[Kas19]

I will try nothing with you.

[exitseven]

If only life could be that easy. My best friend's sister in law used to wear a fake wedding ring sometimes when didn't want to get hit on.

[Anpu23]

Isn't that what an anklet means?
https://askinglot.com/what-does-it-mean-if-a-woman-wears-an-anklet Or is that just too obscure for most people?

[honeylover21]

No , because it just saids you are ready to hookup

[Andres77]

Brilliant.
It would have made my childhood so much easier.

[hellacray]

Lol I'm starting to wonder if you're a guy.

Your perception of women is that they either want someone rich or they're some loose slut.

I mean good to know that there's only 3 type of women that go to bars.

[karaspara]

PMSL nope guy's should wear badges

[ChrisMaster69]

@karaspara that’s me wearing a Yellow badge then 😂😂

[DaveToo]

And take away the mystery? Hayul no!

[Feelicks]

Sounds like the handkerchief code

[purplepoppy]

That was the inspiration for the question

[dray995]

What’s that?

[Nobodyherebutme]

Well men don't have great attention to detail. They may not notice the badge. But if you paste it on your chest, they won't miss it.

[Mark987]

NOOO!!! that ruins half the fun... if a woman or a man wears a badge makes it too easy.. you wan't some type of excitement