Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Okay so neither of the guys are new guys. One is an ex and one is a friend. My ex and I have been broken up for a year, contemplating working it out, but just not getting along. We had a date planned for Saturday. He cancelled the reservation because he was upset I went out for drinks the night before. I told him he was being too controlling and he ignored me the rest of the day. I had a little too much wine and ended up telling my friend to come over so we could watch movies. We both ended up really drunk and had unprotected sex. I felt so slutty the next day and VERY uneasy because we did not use protection.
The next day my ex apologized and we spent the day together and yes, we had sex. Unprotected.
I don't know if I feel guilty because I am not stupid enough to think my ex hasn't hooked up with anyone else, even though he told me he hasn't (we haven't seen each other in 3 months). Additionally, my friend and I talked it over and we agreed it was a mistake and we are just friends. I told him I was paranoid about the sex being unprotected but he assured me he has not been with anyone and he did not finish (to put my mind at ease about STDs and pregnancy)... I plan on getting a full panel STD test soon so that I can stop being paranoid.
I just want to know whether this was a really bad thing I did. I don't know how to feel.
Slept with 2 guys in 2 days. How bad is this?
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6 22You are not serving your true self, only the flesh. Your actions will not bring you anything fulfilling, useful or soulful. Hence why you feel the need to ask this question. You've forgotten that your body is a temple and there are now new risks due to the COVID 'vaccine' too. Unprotected sex holds much more risk than ever now. This is assuming you aren't already 'vaccinated'.
hahaha people still think dating is real lol
Sleeping isn't bad bc you were single and didn't cheat. Lying is bad because no matter what STDs r never impossible. Your ex needs to know if is only friends with benefits now so he doesn't waste time trying to date you again. If he catches any disease later then he will hate you instead of thanking you for honest even if you didn't give it to him
I don't think relationships are for you if you jump into bed so easy. The man you date should always be the last one you slept with never men between
Yeah I feel awful. Yes I was single but I lied to him. I told him about it and now he wants nothing to do with me and I definitely understand. I should not have let being lonely allow me to just sleep with someone so easily.
Yes it’s an awful thing to do because you exposed your ex to possible stds and lied about it. To think you accused him of being too controlling…if you ask me he’s not controlling enough for a rabid slut like you. Get mad all you want you did a bad thing and you know it. Fess up to him so he can get tested. He said he slept with no one since you and you just assumed he was lying and lied to him? That is majorly fucked up. I sure hope my ex didn’t do thet to me when we hooked up cause I specifically asked her if she had been with anyone else and she said no. I do trust her but goddamn hearing stories like this make me think my trust his misplaced, after all, his was
I agree with you. Very selfish and irresponsible. I will definitely tell my ex about it.