Should you stay in a relationship with low sexual satisfaction?

Question

if you can easily refuse, try adding kids in the equation.

mmat2020 · Accepted Answer

You should never stay in a relationship if you are not satisfied, you actually don't need any reason. Kids need loving and happy parents. If you are not happy that's not good for them

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

if you accept that. otherwise, you are going to suffer a lot as your needs are not met and have to... adapt.  welcome to adulthood and having to make decisions and tradeoffs.

PrudentGuy · Answer

I experience was, if the couple have feeling (preferably love) for each other, then sex can be explored and improved. Maybe I'm lucky but this was what happened to me.

1) we were both virgins when we had our first sex.

And TBH, we were clueless and it was among the worst I could remember. LOL!

2) but we talked and insisted to live a sex-filled lifestyle.

So we search the web and try out many advices given from "sexperts"

3) eventually we both know the skill. Coupled with stronger feelings and trust, our sex life improved.

Eventually, when we really have to part, we both unexpectedly blurb out we missed the sex LOL! That was a very awkward moment. 😄😄😄

DizzyDesii · Answer

If i had kids i would, but if we’re not married then no

RemoErdosain · Answer

If you're 19, hell, no! I wouldn't advice to go without sexual satisfaction forever. If you're older, though, then I'd say to consider how important sex really is to you. Maybe you've had enough, maybe finding the right partner for life is much more important

divspppp · Answer

Yeah, you shouldn’t. Sex is a huge part of a relationship, so u should leave since kids need happy parents.

wingattebaby16 · Answer

there is a difference between Frequency and Satisfaction.

If your man does not Satisfy you, it does not matter if you have sex 3 times a day, it will not be fulfilling.

If you have kids, a man that can fully satisfy you, will make every effort to make the few times you do have sex, to be very special, satisfying, fulfilling, and leaving you waiting for the next time.

Quickies while the kids are busy or napping can be very fun. You 2 need to become very creative in your love making. Carrying a small bottle of Astroglide in your pocket is a smart idea...

sex in the laundry room
sex in the bathroom in the morning
sex in a dressing room at a dept store
sex in the guest bedroom or bathroom at a friend or family's house

All stuff to take advantage of 5 mins and still be a happy couple.

Youryeodongsaeng · Answer

With me humping pillows since I was 5, it would be frustrating if your partner didn't satisfy your needs. I mean, I would still stay in the relationship.

About the kids part, I can let him jerk off and let him cum in my entrance if we both wanna stay virgins.

You don't have to have sex to have a baby. A virgin could produce a baby even if the sperm is at her entrance.

karupin · Answer

I stay for love, trust and respect. Sexual satisfaction is just a bonus. My partner and I have no problems with this

ReginaFilange · Answer

Nope, either way, sexual satisfaction is one of the most important things that hold a relationship together and each individual's happiness

ushagomez · Answer

It would be difficult for me. I would move on way before marriage or children.

Apple1996 · Answer

I would not stay in a realtionship like that

PeacefulRainDrop · Answer

I have no sexual satisfaction due to covid19 self isolating an hour away from each other hope he comes around and realizes this isn't going away and comes to be with me or lets me move in with him and his mom..

CalabrianClaudia · Answer

Well, I enjoy sex a lot so probably. LOL

Venusday · Answer

If it’s because of low sexual attraction it’s because there is something wrong in another area. My ex never satisfied me and I tho u hot something was wrong with me but it’s because he was doing things outside the bedroom like treat be a dirtbag to me