I went on a date and we both were having a conversation. Then naturally it lead to the question if either of us were seeing or sleeping with anyone else. I mentioned that I’ve never slept with anyone. He, just like almost everyone else was surprised lol.
I guess curiosity got the better of him and he asked if I ever have urges or feel the need to release. I’m quite honest, and I said yes but I tend to pleasure myself and I enjoy it. He was quite normal and we continued our conversation.
But as an over thinker, I’m now wondering if that was tmi or what? Should that be private information?
Telling your date you masturbate?
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2 32everyone masturbates... pretty sure he was already thinking that once you said you never have sex
there is NOTHING wrong with being open and honest with someone you like and trust
Maybe talk about masturbating together
Don't worry about it
seems normal on a date
It’s probably good that you were open and honest , guys like that
It is private, however it's fine if you were comfortable sharing it, and obviously you were. Nothing to over think here. It was a general question to him and curious.
I don't know. I often tell people that I am waiting for marriage. But that I frequently masturbate.
Probably better to ask him honestly since everyone has a different definition of what tmi is. I thought this was funny yet redundant because, well, everyone masturbates.
I think a funner conversation would be how you masturbate so you can start exploring each other, find out what his boundaries are first.
It's very personal, but if the question comes up and I'm feeling good about her I'll be honest about it.
Doesn’t sound tmi he asked the question what else should you have said?