Telling your date you masturbate?

I went on a date and we both were having a conversation. Then naturally it lead to the question if either of us were seeing or sleeping with anyone else. I mentioned that I’ve never slept with anyone. He, just like almost everyone else was surprised lol.

I guess curiosity got the better of him and he asked if I ever have urges or feel the need to release. I’m quite honest, and I said yes but I tend to pleasure myself and I enjoy it. He was quite normal and we continued our conversation.

But as an over thinker, I’m now wondering if that was tmi or what? Should that be private information?
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  • everyone masturbates... pretty sure he was already thinking that once you said you never have sex

  • there is NOTHING wrong with being open and honest with someone you like and trust

  • Maybe talk about masturbating together

  • Don't worry about it

  • seems normal on a date

  • It’s probably good that you were open and honest , guys like that

  • It is private, however it's fine if you were comfortable sharing it, and obviously you were. Nothing to over think here. It was a general question to him and curious.

  • I don't know. I often tell people that I am waiting for marriage. But that I frequently masturbate.

  • Probably better to ask him honestly since everyone has a different definition of what tmi is. I thought this was funny yet redundant because, well, everyone masturbates.

    I think a funner conversation would be how you masturbate so you can start exploring each other, find out what his boundaries are first.

  • It's very personal, but if the question comes up and I'm feeling good about her I'll be honest about it.

  • Doesn’t sound tmi he asked the question what else should you have said?