He asked you if you wanted to see it and you yourself said you got curious and said yes. Its not a red flag on either end.
Anyone that says it is, is more than likely trying to dig to try to find a deeper meaning to justify it possibly being a red flag.
As for the vacation thing I say be cautious unless you've been to that country before and you know you way around but still be cautious. Also if you're not interested in actually having sex with him inform him of that, because if you don't then he could think ok I can make a move when in reality you're not interested in having any type of sexual experience with him, stay in places where its active and with lots people around just in case because if you only know this guy from online messages, then you don't really know this guy so he could be a possible threat to your safety.
If you do decide to go bring a friend instead of making it a solo vacation that there is some security for you while in a country you possibly have never been in.
I look at it like this you're curious and now you're not to a point I think you're both old enough and both adult enough to look at it just like that it doesn't mean that you're married or going together and that's the way you have to handle it it's not that big of a deal that it I mean we've all watched porn just because you know that person now it doesn't really mean much not mess you want to take it further if you don't you need to let that be understood
Is it a sex tape if its solo? Lol. I think its a masturbation session or a jerk vid or simply just a flashing of his dick. But yea you accepted so you’re both kinda the red flag. he's looking to get sexual and you’re easily allowing him to be. So of course he's gonna try to make a move on the trip
He wants sex. He obviously isn’t capable of putting that into words, so he does worse, sends performance videos, like an advertisement. If you want sex go for it. If you want something else talk to someone else.
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he didn't send her a solo/masturbation video. It was a video of him having sex with another woman
he asked. you said yes. he sent it/
what the fuck is wrong with you?
I'm just saying, if you go on that solo vacation and meet up with him you could end up on a sex tape of your own XD Why do you even need a relation like that?
No red flag. He asked, you were curious and decided to see. Just make sure that when you visit him he knows in advance that just because you were happy to see him perform it does not mean you will have sex with him.
Red Flag that you wanted to see it YES. HUGE he should run.
You have agreed to see it, don't blame this on him. Be happe he asked beforehand.
he asked if you wanted to see it, you agreed, im failing to see how it is just a red flag on his side?
Can't really be a red flag if you agreed to see it. If he sent it unsolicited then yes sure it would be a red flag. The 2 of you have obviously talked about sex so I can see what he'd ask if you wanted to see it.
You got what you agreed to. Don’t be the star of the video he tries to pick up the next girl with.
Yes, dear. It is a red flag. And you want to leave the securoty of your home soil to "hang out". I think you should not make any solo travel plans.
Don't meet strangers on your solo vacation trip! For your own safety! You should watch a case of Grace Millane..
https://youtu. be/qJbWdrZNH9o
Becareful..
To me is a red flag. He's a show off and a exhibitionist. I wouldn't want to be around someone like him. He probably just sees you as a potential temporary f*ck since you're not even both on the same country. Hope you got the hint.
Asking means he's pretty decent dude
So it's ok to send sex tape? 🤔🤔
I guess so
He asked and you accepted. I don't see that as a red flag unless he seems to be obsessed with sending you tapes.
Was it a video of just himself or him with someone else?
If there’s another woman in it, I think it’s weird that he’s sharing around a video with someone else who probably didn’t consent to other people seeing it ( I’m assuming)
You said yes so he send you... what's the red flag here?
Well he offered isn’t it weird he offered? Of course I wasn’t going to say no!
But how he get comfortable to offer you? Cunt there is always give n take.. stop act like good girl.
Sometime people overshare. Some mental disorder such as People who have adhd display those sort of behavior. It’s weird but i’m sure it was just his brain probably chasing the dopamine in the discussion until he found something that made him happy.
Seems kind of weird
Yes it is
You agree to see it, now you're asking if it's a red flag. I see red flags on both side.
Maybe, but you did ask to see it.
Well I mean he offered, I’ve never had a guy offer to just show me that but I kind of regret it she’s hot and they had good sex. I’m a bit jealous maybe I should tell him it’s not for me because I don't know how to come back from that
Stop worrying about her.
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