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They say girls should keep their legs closed if they don’t want to get pregnant.. then why don’t guys keep their dick in their pants too?

It takes TWO to make a baby.. shaming people for having sex is wrong and owning their sexuality. Whenever guys fuck around their praises for it but if a woman wants to enjoy herself a little even nowadays if she’s had sex with 2 or 3 guys it’s like the worst thing to them. With Roe v Wade there’s even more controversy now. Even with birth control pregnancy is still possible but doesn’t mean people should not be able to have a sex life.

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  • Wouldn't you agree that women have a much greater opportunity to stop the pregnancy though? Like, obviously it's better for men to not be promiscuous and to wear condoms and all that (that's an idea that I've promoted for a while, because promiscuity hurts men too), but I have a tough time believing that anyone would dispute that women have greater control over whether or not to be/stay pregnant, in most cases. I agree that it takes two to tango, but you have to admit that there does come a certain point where the woman is making choices that a man simply can't make.

    Abortion services are already federally guaranteed to women who are the victims of sex crimes under the Hyde Amendment.

    Even in the most outlier cases of voluntary abortions; where the woman did nothing wrong and still got pregnant on a fluke, took additional after-sex contraception that mysteriously failed, can't afford to get an abortion/doesn't have access to health insurance (which I can firmly call bullshit on because of how many insurance options there are available to EVERYONE), happens to live in a state where only first trimester abortions are allowed AND also somehow genuinely had no way of knowing she was pregnant (which again, I very respectfully call bullshit on because it doesn't make sense to me that a woman who was horny enough to sleep with a guy wouldn't have a gut feeling that something about her body changed as a result of fulfilling biological function to reproduce that made her hook up in the first place); the problem could have been resolved by having the self-awareness to not fuck bad decisions.

    I have also always thought it was strange that so many women seem to think that anyone has problem with them having sex with 2 or 3 men in their lives; that's not what people take issue with and I'm not entirely sure where that error in translation happens. You'd have to sleep with a lot more low-value men than that before you become a slut.

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  • My wife's a doctor. She regularly treats syphilis, gonorrhoea, HIV, genital warts, herpes and refers unwanted pregnancies for termination or prescribes the morning after pill.

    No birth control is 100% effective at preventing any of those conditions.

    Abstinence, however, is.

    I had an argument with a girl of 17 when I was 30 who was asking my advice. I'll say what I said to her: at some point in a physical encounter both parties make a decision to remove their clothes. Yes, it can be clouded by alcohol or drug use, but a decision is still made.

    I've been in that position many times. I've never had sex with a girl I wasn't 100% committed to. Not once. My "body count" (a horrific term by the way) is 3. I wish it was lower by 2.

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  • Oh my goodness, never a truer word written... Thank you.

    • Thank you for the MHGirl.

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  • Agreed for 200%

  • Because. . . guys don't get pregnant!

  • Women are like locks, women are the gate keepers of sex, so women tend to be more responsible.

  • Oh oh oh I got this! Because the sex can’t make us pregnant… because it can’t kill us… aside from STIs. Because you find the people tend to value what they don’t have more than what they do so for guys they want lots of sex while women want the deeper meaning… therefore sex is more valuable to guys.

    • Ide also like to add men don’t like women with many partners because it shows she might not be a loyal choice. For women you KNOW the kids your. Men don’t. In some places like France paternity testing a illegal and in many places in the states illegal without the mothers consent.

  • Agreed

  • You're confused.

    Pregnancy is the girl's problem - not the guys. Sure the guy has responsibilities, but you are aware a girl can turkey baster to get pregnant without directly involving the guy, right?

  • You're exactly right. Shame on fornicators who are irresponsible and produce "illegitimate" children they don't intend to care for.

    It's both the man and the woman's fault, and I'm disgusted by both parties.

  • Regardless of Roe vs Wade being overturned, (which really made me angry as hell, even me being a Republican) you still have to take the responsibility for your own body.

    That said, as a "20 something" and (30 something" guy, I AT LEAST made an effort to withdraw from a girl before ejaculating in her, if I did not know her BC status, BUT those same women/girls, should have ALSO taken some steps to protect from an unwanted pregnancy.

    Don't know how you feel, but the birth control issue cuts both ways, and men AND women both need to take the responsibility for preventing an unwanted pregnancy.
    Either be on BC or insist that your partner wear a condom. I rarely wore a condom, but NEVER did I ejaculate in a girl, not knowing her BC status. Withdrawal is NOT a really good method, BUT beats the hell out of leaving a deposit of semen in an unprotected cervix, without knowing the BC status

  • I totally agree with you. Its so sad to see what is happening in the USA in the past years. I am still shocked that someone like Trump even made it this far! Everytime we read news about USA, its like "is this real news or just fake? This can't be real! I mean, no intelligent being would do that!"

    Hearing about the Roe v Wade turnover was kind of shocking.

  • Women are the guardians of sex, men are the guardians of commitment / marriage. Check out female pair bonding sometime. Like it or not we're biologically different.

  • I DO keep my dick in my pants!!

  • I agree with everything you said.

  • I agree with you completely.

  • Because women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are always down to fuck, women are selective, this is biological programming. A smart man should be able to overcome his programming and control himself but it is difficult since we are designed to spread our seed. I can control myself in this regard because I have lots of worries, but a man who worries less will have nothing to stop him

  • Sperm is cheap. The only thing a guy has to do in relation to childbirth is cum. With girls there's a lot more.

  • It's complicated

  • That's not true anymore everybody's held accountable for their own actions and when girls mess around they're shamed for it and when guys mess around they shamed for 2 the days of guys guys doing whatever they want without repercussion or repercussion are over people call guys fuck boys and no guy wants to be called back

    • That!

  • Guys who fuck around constantly should just get vasectomies.

  • because the guy isn't stuck with a baby lol

  • Correct it goes both ways!

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