You should choose a place where your privacy is assured and you will have no distractions. If your hymen is intact, it is too late to do anything about that now, but the first time is not painful for every girl, even with an intact hymen. Remember that almost every adult woman has done this and survived! 😃😃😃
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First off it needs to be somewhere you are comfortable. Take your time, plenty of kissing and foreplay before hand, and I would suggest insisting on protection. Missionary position would probably be the easiest the first time.
If you feel uncomfortable and feel that you need to stop, don't feel like you can't tell him to stop. Above all he needs to respect you and what you want.0 0 0 0
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Take your time, just let it happend dnt rush.
If you feel like stopping let him know straight away dnt carry on because he's feeling it nd your not.
Get comfortable
Nd be safe!
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0 21Be sure if you want to lose your virginity to him, and tell him that you virgin if you didn't already told him, he won't be surprise by your nervousness if he knows that your are virgin.
0 0 0 0Just be relaxed and take it nice + slow, with plenty of time for sexual foreplay to make sure your vagina is sexually aroused + wet so that penile penetration is comfortable and gives you beautifully pleasurable sensations
1 0 0 0The best place for having first time sex is in the privacy of a home, his or yours, where you're both alone, and on a large comfortable bed
Make sure he wears a condom
Make sure you really want to have sex no pressure
You have fun sex should be fun1 0 0 1Don't do it
0 1 0 0In a bed is always the best place for sex. Purchase some KY Jelly in case he has a hard time getting in, and have lots of foreplay to get you nice and wet.
0 0 0 0spread your legs and let him missionary the fuck out of you. Then change position to doggystyle and let him bang your ass as well.
0 0 0 0Try not to die
1 0 0 0im alive
Another braindead woman falls prey to a braindead man and his sociopathic antics. Sad.
0 0 0 0How do you know he's your boyfriend, if you haven't' had sex
also, you're not supposed to be having sex or around anyone anyway
THERE IS A FUCKING PANDEMIC0 0 0 1Don’t do it.
0 0 0 0too late. Did it xd
No. You’re kidding.
im not we did it litteraly last night
use lube, relax, tell him to stop if it hurts.
0 0 0 0Just relax, let him do most of the work , make sure he does fore play
0 0 0 0Make sure you are very wet before he trys to put his penis in you. You could masturbate or net him give you oral first? Once you are wet make sure he puts some Vaseline on his penis?
You might want to start on top. This way you can grab his penis and slowly slide it in you?
Now the question is this. Are going to use a condom. If not will you let cum in side of you or cum in your mouth.1 0 0 0no he's gonna use condom
Good. But please remember many guys find it a turn on if you swallow.
Take to your time do more foreplay & don't get nervous & don't pressure yourself..
1 0 0 1If you interested pm me..
bruh i just write that i have a boyfriend
I mean I want to give you few tips..
Are you using a condom or raw
0 0 0 1using condom
Lots of foreplay
Do A LOT of foreplay to get you really wet and deep. Have him rub your puss and eat you out before putting in
Have fun0 1 0 1That should be a requirement. He is about to take your virginity he owes you that. Tonight is about you anyways so get as much enjoyment our of it that you can
if he does it right then you won’t have pain regardless of anything else. So if you start to feel pain you make him stop because that shouldn’t happen, and he needs to start over and get you properly aroused.
1 0 0 0I would suggest cowgirl position so you can control the penetration. I would recommend starting birth control too to be safe.
0 0 0 0Question to help my answer.
Assuming you masturbate, what is the widest object/cluster of fingers you routinely pass inside?0 0 0 1i have never masturbated before
Here goes. A nuts and bolts, non-romantic answer.
*Be prepared for things to go wrong and don't be anxious about it. You are on the same team with the same goal. Be prepared to say: "Better luck next time."
*Foreplay will help prepare you. If you are doing oral, now is a good time.
*When first entry arrives, butter up with water base personal lube. You will likely be very snug and you don't want any abrasion at all. Don't rely on nature alone.
*I favor this position because it distributes his weight comfortably for you. It also gives you some control.
*He should enter you in a series of short pushes; a little farther each time, not all at once. You should agree that you control how this goes using pre-agreed coaching words. Have words for "enough on this push" and one for "try again". We used a firm OK! for "enough" and a whispered Ok. for "try again".
*It may take several pushes and you may not get him in at all on the first session if it becomes uncomfortable for you. Be prepared to "regroup" for later or another time.
*The last push will likely pinch and will be stretch-and-give. Once he is in, he should stay in and not withdraw and re-enter if that "stretch and give' pinched a lot, because it will happen again withdrawing and re-entering. Better to just enjoy the ride the first time.
*When he finally withdraws, you may experience "stretch and give" again if he has a prominent head "glans" Each future session will have diminishing "stretch and give" until there's none. But many girls continue to experience a painless spasm on first entry.
*Good luck. Sexual discovery is so much fun!
Don't have sex and save your virginity for someone you truly love and his ready to marry you
Losing your vcard at this age is not appropriate0 0 0 0we truly love eachother and how do you decide if something is appropriate or inappropriate?
i am 18 and its legal so
You are free to do what you want
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