Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health If you've ever hooked up (or sexted with someone who was not your partner if you've never hooked up for real), how often did you get a really good orgasm out of it?
When you masturbate, do you sometimes sacrifice quality (getting a really good orgasm) for the sake of speed and "getting it done?" Or do you prefer the opposite approach (going slowly and teasing yourself so it feels better when you finally finish)?
Two related questions about orgasms?
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I am not talking about cheating! I meant if you ever hooked up with someone OR you ever sexted with someone who was not your boyfriend or girlfriend. Apparently I worded it badly...
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10 46Well, i have talked to girls online who claim to have a hairy pussy which is big turn on for me well we sexted in email and talk dirty yes it got me off and i orgasm they claim to got off too they would tell me I'm good , i'm good.. I would tell them i liked Breast feeding off of them and I like pussy odor.. Yes i use to be a freak.. LMAO This one sent me a picture she was playing with her ass down in her pants..
Every time. Humans like diversity in partners.
Quality. Always.
I went on a serf retreat with some buddies when I was 20. We were hanging out telling stories and laughing that night and one of my friends asked, "Has anyone stuck a toothbrush up their ass when jacking off?". I said, yeah, I did with yours this morning bro."
Everyone admitted they had. My point here is that there are exceedingly more ways to expierience an orgasm that is out of this world, you just have to be open it and willing to experiment. Just as you should with sex, you just have to find the right partner.
I would always chose sex first because I can always pleasure myself in front of her and that's a great orgasm.
First question. I've had incredible sex that was intended to be a one night stand.
Second question
Depends, I've had long elaborate masturbation sessions lasting hours and I have done the, just get the urge gone thing.
Cool
To the first one, fairly often.
To the 2nd question, when I masturbate I only like to edge... no quickies... the journey is as pleasurable as the finale which is crazy intense after a long edging time :)
Edging
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1. I did.
2. I prefer the second one. To feel better.
Honestly I can't get off on text messages. It's pretty hard for phones sex too. In person whether its hook up or relationship i can get there pretty easily if I dont masturbate beforehand
Lol didn't read the whole question. Yeah often I'll just get it done quick and get over with it if just masturbating on my own
And no not all my sexual experiences were that great
@creepazoid Same to both of those
Yeah. I did. And it was good most of the time.
And quantity never comes before quality (pun intended).
Usually for guys good quality causes a lot of quantity... sometimes all over her boobs...
May happen. Although quantity for me depends on the activity ^^ if there was a lot, there won't be a lot of juice
Yes I have several times sext with someone other than who I was with. I try different techniques when I masturbate... some I like more than others.
All the time
No
No never..
My orgasms are unpredictable whether rushing them or going slow, if i take too long hoping for a complete and thorough draining my penis might get bored and reduce to 75% capacity combined with lack luster orgasm and only a few weak contractions i can usually tell when my best orgasms are going to occur when my dick is completely erect and the head is puffed out like a swollen mushroom
All depends on the mental picture and level of sexual desire
I got off pretty good about 3 times while sexting here with 18- to 20 years old girls.
I always prefer taking my time. I like to go through the whole scenario. But i have done quickies before and tbh quickies are not that good.
In general, I agree
It depends what kind of mood im in when having my alone time. I do both.
I have each time...
Sometimes I forgo the quality of a good orgasm in sake of just rubbing one out in a few mins... most of the time when I do masturbate I take my time and prolong the pleasure for a great orgasm
The orgasm really wasn't that great because of the guilt factor.
Teasing and foreplay does make it feel better rather than speeding to get it done.
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"Have you ever fucked a virgin in your thoughts?"
Actually, yes