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Sexual Health Virgins over 20, do you regret NOT losing your virginity at a younger age?
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26 44I wanted to answer yes, but honestly the only reason I could come up for too justify saying yes is because of what other people think. And honestly I didn't (and still don't) care what people think of me that much.
I lost my virginity after getting married and i do not regret waiting
No. They are very comfortable with still being a virgin even in their 20s.
so apparently, the v-card thing is not important to ladies?
If your asking id also like to know
There are some reasons why i do and other reasons i don't.
I lost mine at 21, no regrets
I would like a man who would wait until he’s GROWN to loose his virginity and not act fast as a child
can't say... Lost it few years ago
YES. I've had 2 relationships but still a virgin, i've been too nervous about it to do something about it but now it's become an issue because most men over 20 aren't patient with waiting for you to feel comfortable I think. I wish i'd lost it to my high school boyfriend because he's the one i've loved the most even though he was a jerk I loved him at the time and at least I would've been experienced by now in that case.
I only cared about losing it in high school; now i don't really care that i still have it. Doesn't matter to me. People still shame me and talk shit, but i could really give less of a shit. At least i don't have an STD.
Who shames you for it?
Of course, I would have lost it to literally anybody, at the age of 13 or so if I could. But desires are one thing, and possibilities are something else. So in reality I never even had a kiss in my life.
Yea same here pretty much
it's not uncommon at all for people to be over 30 and be a virgin, majority men though obviously
No, I used to be ashamed about it and what I thought was omg how can I tell a girl if we get to that point.
Now I am not ashamed at all and proud of my decisions. I want my first time to be special with someone that I love and they LOVE ME BACK. If they truly loves me being a virgin won't make them think less of me, if they think that then they can just leave.
Absolutely not
I lost mine at 21 cause I used to have social anxiety. Catch up fast so no regrets, lol
im 22 n still a social anxiety virgin
@gagsucs for me its more like approach anxiety
i jus have rejection anxiety, and am sure i will always get rejected, so i won't even ever attempt anything
@gagsucs yea same here i can't handle that public embarrassment
@gagsucs the total lack of experience really kills my motivation to even try.
@gagsucs Have you tried therapy? Or, if you're too broke for therapy alcohol helps. Not the best advice ever, but it works.
I dont think either of those would help but i appreciate your effort
i know alcohol wouldn't help because iv tried that before... downed a whole bottle of vodka and was still completely conscious and aware of my actions, still fearing embarrasment, pharapy might work, dunno... my problem tho is my social anxiety is so bad i can't even get into a pharapy place,,,, i would feel too dumb going in there and worry about saying the wrong thing so much that i wouldn't even speak to the pherapy guy... and it would jus be pointless n awkward n he would be wondering why im even there wasting his time
I lost mine 27. Attractive but I was too busy with education & work and have higher standards than to jump into bed with anyone.
Do I regret it? Why should I? If anyone kids who have sex with the simplest convenience more likely regret losing their virginity to some nameless shmuck than anything.
I'm still a virgin and no, I've never regret it. I never had an interest in being used only for sex. And I would never have sex only to please anyone. Some friends of mine keep complaining about how dirty and used they feel when the man doesn't respond afterwards. I can only response relatively little about it. I mean what do you expect? People who wants to have sex quickly are usually not interested in a relationship.
We should tell every young person that they shouldn't let themselfs put under pressure. Just because everyone behaves like sluts, you don't have to behave like that too.
I list of ine after 25, at 27.5 actually. Looking back at it I am glad I waited so long.
I regret it, but it's not about the virginity for me. It's about who I had the chance to get freaky with. I didn't know she was soon to be... well-known. I'll probably never have a chance to bang a famous chick again. Opportunity missed. :(
I lost mine at 23, and I've definitely made up for lost time since then. I don't regret a thing, my sex life since then has been far more rewarding than most of my friends