Was this a sexual act and I didn’t know it?

Today I spent the day with my daughter’s father and before he leave he asked if he can hug me!! I said sure and suddenly he buried his face in my chest (boobs) while hugging me, I froze up in my place because it was unexpected act from him, then he apologized for it and he just left without saying more words. I got turned on by it, but was it even something sexual and I didn’t know?
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  • I'm sure it was the start of one but he back out sounds like ,, he really should have just held you or held you in his arms so you could have felt his energy rushing through your body not so much a sexual act but just a way to say I love you and you feel it

    • Biased MHO

  • Daughter's father? :S so he isn't your husband or boyfriend now then?
    Dont let him do things like this to you if he can't handle the responsibility of raising his child with you ugh.

    • Biased MHO

    • @Dave31989 😇 how is it bias? @roseprincess

    • the site chose it, my bad

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  • If you froze up, that’s the body’s way of protecting itself in unexpected situations. Similar to shock. This is assault... albeit minor in scale, still is. Unless he is considerably shorter than you are this was NOT accidental.


    He did it to take advantage of you. And yes, to him it was sexual. I know you’re staying close for your daughters sake, but make sure you’re safe and there are boundaries.

    • I am so dumb i swear 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • Nope! Don’t think that way about yourself!! Ever.

  • That's assault.

    • Was it?

    • I don't agree, in this case, due to exigent circumstances.

  • A minor gesture from him, considering that he impregnated you in the past. :)

  • Of course it was sexual. Seems like he still has feelings for you. Why didn’t it work out between you?

  • Yes.

    • If it is then I am dumb to not know it 😟

  • sounds like he wanted to remember what he lost when you broke up.

    • Oh 😕

    • might still have feelings for you. could be just sexual feelings and not deeper feelings however. depends on him really.

  • Defo sexual

  • Unless he was about 12 inches (30 cm) shorter than you, yes, I think he was doing some kind of hanky panky there.

  • I think it was may not sure in the soft pleasure

  • Well, that depends of his position, only he knows that was a joke or a sexual act

  • Yes he was wanting youd breast an misses your body

  • maybe

  • Why are you hanging out with him, if you're not with him

    • Because we are not together we are not enemies. We are staying close for the baby only and i dont share what he feels for me

    • you don't need to stay close with a guy just for a baby in fact, he should be out of your life completely, idiot

  • It was a sexual act but do you know why he did it

    • I didn't do anything sexual

    • No its not that with guys we're territorial so you have his child you connected to him for life he feel like he can always have you whenever he wants

    • In his dreams

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  • Yes it was, at least he knew it was wrong but I think you might just want to talk to him

    • I’d be glad to help in anyway I can, if you need it

    • Thank you 😊

    • Your welcome

  • I don't think so, if he grabbed your ass it might have been

    • And this?

  • Yes, It is sexual. I have NEVER hugged a girlfriend's chest like that.

    • by the way, he loves you and wants you back.

    • I guess its true when they say that you dont know the value of something in your life until you lose it

    • He knows it now. Maybe you do too?

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  • Yeah that was inappropriate at best on his part

  • He wants to fuck. No doubt about it

  • Can you blame him? I'd do the same if I was him

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