What are some reasons why a guy doesn't orgasm during sex?

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What would be some reasons guys don't cum during sex?

laurieluvsit · Accepted Answer

Barring a medical reason, then it is concentration.
His mind is thinking about other things. This will happen when a boy is having a stressful time in his life.
Dress very sexy and alluring, give him a good relaxing erotic massage and whisper sweet sexy things into his ear and in most cases you will reach your goal:)

SmoMan71 · Accepted Answer

Generally because it just wasn’t that good for him. Could be because he is not that attracted to the girl. Could be the sex isn’t what he wants, could be the condom is messing with his sensitivity. He could even just be nervous about it if he is inexperienced. There are plenty of reasons.

eziegler81 · Accepted Answer

Some guys just take a lot for them to cum. Some guys may have a lot going on in the back of his head.

hahahmm · Answer

fear of under performing or other stuff on a subconscious level. Making a big deal about it will only make it worse. Might clear up in a few weeks.

godfatherfan · Answer

medication would be the biggest. Some pain and certainly those used for depression/anxiety/stress have that affect.
He could be masturbating to extreme. But that really should either make it super fast finish or just take him forever...

Starlightmoonnelly · Answer

He's a serial masturbater

markscott · Answer

Reason include erectile dysfunction, too much alcohol or other drugs in system, very dehydrated, emotionally not able to sufficiently respond to sexual stimuli, enlarged prostate, etc.

EdwardMoon · Answer

Basically any number of things can make a guy not cum just like when it happens to girls

zjm142 · Answer

There's a number of things it could be like he could have jacked of before sex or he's tired or he's not turned on enough or he could have drank too much there's a lot of things it could be

redreddyred · Answer

He’s gay. He’s old. He just came before he had sex with you. Pinkeye your choice.

traveler74 · Answer

He was not physically attracted to you enough to ejaculate. Or he has a physical condition which he cannot maintain an erection long enough to orgasm. Or there is a mental issue which has caused him to not be able to.