(1) Experiment with positions
The first and easiest to try is with you on top. This will help push him up into more pleasurable areas, also it'll give you more control
(2) Cunnilingus
Just Cunnilingus.
(3) Toys
If you already have any personal sex toys you can teach him how to use them. I would also recommend a sheath or an extender. If size is the only problem then this should basically solve them all.
(4) Communication
If he's not had a lot of sex then just talking to him, explain what you won't, will go a long way. He might not have a lot of skill but there's really only one way to get that. If he's more insecure about this then you can try to encourage by moaning when he does something right or telling him to do more of something that works, but also wouldn't rule out just giving clear and direct directions. What ever works for yous really.
(5) Other people/ bdsm
If you didn't have sex before marriage then this probably isn't for you, but a lot of guys are into humiliation which means his size is actually a boon not a hindrance. Its worth not ruling out
BIASED MHO size queen alert
@LegendaryIcon how is she a size queen?
@MrReliable12 how not
There is cremes and stuff you can get, rub it on 5 to 10 minutes or so beforehand and it increases blood flow to make it slightly bigger.
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This may not be the best one, just an idea... I have some that will make a man get a little bigger and from personal experience it also makes me swell a little, so it works out pretty good.
I use a penis pump and that works very well. Never thought I could get it so big.
@Sam85226 Something I've never tried, sounds interesting.
This is exactly why I say couples should have pre-marital sex so you know what kind of lover your mate is going to be, and what equipment you will be working with. The virtues of being virgin and all are nice, but...
Now you have a guy who is below average in some areas.
About the only thing you can do is get a sleeve that he can put over his penis and do you with it. Otherwise talk him into swinging, so you at least you can have a good sized one now and then. The other option is to get him into a cuckold relationship and you get to have a Dom Bull for a lover.
Good Luck.
Thanks for the MHO :)
He could wear a silicone penis sleeve. It’s like a stepping stool for his Johnson. Either that or you could try pegging him with a strapon.
BIASED MHO size queen alert
@LegendaryIcon It’s the first time in recorded history that a female has admitted a male was correct.
right. she knows she's a size queen, she just didn't want to admit i called her out on her shit
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Coach him up. Make him better at sex. Teach him what you want and what he needs to do. Add toysv to the mix. There are plenty of things to fix this.
Yep this is one of the reasons why I think people should do all this trial and error stuff before they sign a contract. Marriage is hard enough and with around 50% failure rate people have got to up the odds somehow.
Try doggy style, which you angled down at about 45°. The angle will feel the deepest.
Find some media or books etc that talk about good sex techniques. And remember, it's not all on him. You also have to bring stuff to the table. Do everything you can to speak up, and teach him.
you need to take the lead on this and guide him. if you waited for marriage then he is obviously inexperienced and possibly a virgin? you also sound like you know what you want and like so guide him and take the lead, you can turn him into the greatest partner of all time. but it will take time and experimentation, which can be fun
It takes two for good sex to happen... This is where if you really love your husband, you communicate and learn together how to sexually please one another...
Don't you think that she is troll?
@TonyMetal___86 probably😂I know there's guys that create fake pink accounts and ask shit like this to try to make women look bad🤷
No muffin for him/her 😌
First off you're going to want to practice your oral game, both of you. Second off you need to be watching or reading stuff together about how to overcome that handicap. With the proper stroke technique, and if you can orgasm through penitration, size issues can be overcome. Also toys are going to be your friends. Try using a bullet on yourself while he's doing his thing. They make extensions.
And people keep saying and arguing with me to the point of fighting, that size doesn't matter. It Always mattered and Always WILL. It is not just a physical pleasure that you get. It is both Mental and Emotional Pride that BOTH You and your significant would experience. What do I mean Both him and me? For him it is obvious, enormous confidence booster and happiness. And for you, it would be both physical pleasure and Mental and Emotional Pride! that your husband, your man that you have married and walking with down the street, is packing a Heavily Loaded Gun down there. Skills can always be taught, learned and perfected, but without having a good hardware in the first place, those skills would be useless.
If you waited until marriage, how do you know he is small and sex is average?
Regardless, maybe if you loved him the sex would be better.
Talk to him him about upping his game.
Since there are no time machines to go back and stop yourself from marrying him, there is little that you can do. Not sure what you are comparing his skills against unless you have been having sex with other guys and lying to us about waiting till marriage. Right now the only opeion for you to change things is to get a divorce. That would be best for him!
You should have made a definite and written out vision of the marriage you want and then you both should have compared visions to see if you fit or if you are willy to compromise some things. Vision is everything. How do you plan to maintain a good marriage without a vision of where you are going and working toward maintaining? First, talk to him and tell him how you feel. After that stop complaining and start thinking of a solution. Sex toys and or femdom might be a good place to start according to other commenters.
Teach him, show him what you like and how to get you off most guys are more than willing to learn
Help him out. We’ve all had our first time. Be patient with him and show him what you want. Then continue to be patient while he learns. Impatient people suck (no pun intended).
Uh oh... well there's always extenders that fit over the penis, ... or some kind sheath
Divorce him if you are so unhappy and can't get past it. Don't cheat. That is why you should have asked him things that you considered important to know before starting the relationship.
Since he's your husband you can communicate and talk to him about it.
And talking to him will make her husband's d*ck grow bigger 🤣🤣 I sense that this is a fake pink account!
@TonyMetal___86 No one claimed that talking to him would make his dick bigger.
I know, just saying!
A valuable lesson in not waiting for marriage to find out if you are sexually compatible.
You best teach him how to lick your pussy then.
get yourself a nice big toy or else consider taking a lover but in both cases, if you want the marriage to work, you must be open and honest with your husband
you can include sex toys
Do you use sex toys
How long have you been married? Maybe you should just cut your losses and end it. The alternative seems to be 40 years of sexual frustration.
Young women take note. This is a perfect example of why it is foolish to wait until marriage to have sex. You may end up in a sexually frustrating marriage.
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