What do you feel is the longest reasonable time to withhold sex from a spouse?
DizzyDesiiEditor
Man if you ever feel I’m not giving it to you enough, you have the right to divorce me. Lmao. Sex should be one of the best things about marriage. I personally feel a partner should only withhold sex if her period on, if someone is flu-type sick, if you’re mentally distraught because someone close to you died, or whatever prolonged time the doctor says to wait after giving birth. I dont see any other reason to withhold. If we had a long day at work, then coming home to eachother should be the relief. It should be the energy to wake us tf up. If we ever disrespected eachother to the point of no return or if anyone ever cheated, there's no need to withholding sex. Just simply divorce because you’ve striked out and thats not repairable in my opinion. Other than that, I’m not the type to go to bed mad. I always try to fix the shit before then cause i need to be pounded to sleep 🤣 So yea, I look forward to marriage and lots of sex. Anyways, this is my personal opinion. Whats yours? #FeelFreeToList #ToThePointOfNoReturn
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Man i dont wanna be fckin the furniture in this hoe 🤣 A Dude better not make me wait longer than a week https://i.imgur.com/0AzhKbZ.gif
Sometimes a christian wife or husband is allowed to withhold sex for God seeking purposes. And the time depends on how long they both can agree to hold off sex.
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DizzyDesii
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Now that is fair
boombastikXper 5
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It's like i told my ex wife... You can't cut me off! You don't know where I'm getting it! (That didn't go over so well but i have always kept it real). The most mature girl i ever dated was only 17 and there was 2 things i loved about her. #1 if she was pissed off at me, it didn't matter, she expected me to still dick her down. She might not talk to me afterwards but that's ok. #2 if she was pissed at me and we went somewhere of of someone came over, that was the end of that fight until we leave or company leaves. 2 good rules i think everyone should follow or you'll have a man you can't cut off.
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exitsevenMaster
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A week/.
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DizzyDesii
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Right
exitseven
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Right or Riiiiiiight.
JosyJosyMaster
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As long as you need, like for example you're feeling sick
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DizzyDesii
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Yea i mentioned that above too butbshit how long does a mf need 🤣
Anpu23Master
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Withhold? Um sex shouldn't be a reward/punishment thing...
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DizzyDesii
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I agree
Phoenix98Master
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Not long.
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DizzyDesii
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Is a week too long
Phoenix98
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Lol might be, I guess it'd depend on the reasoning.
FakeName123Guru
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If you don't desire your partner you may as well have a platonic relationship and are friends, but not in a romantic relationship.
Physical desire for each other is part of romance.
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DizzyDesii
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I agree
elizamichale1Guru
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well if not on periods then not more than a day
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DizzyDesii
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Haha i like
elizamichale1
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you are a naughty girl so yes why not
Wester1967Explorer
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5 minutes
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DizzyDesii
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Lmao i can't
Andres77Master
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Sex should never be "withheld". It's a partnership and there should be plenty of communication. I guess"withheld" to me means punishing the other person.
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DizzyDesii
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I agree
pleasestopthisGuru
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Hopefully not more than a few weeks and for understandable reasons. I'm not in a relationship but I know for sure my sex drive is not super high, sometimes I feel tired, or stressed and turned off, but I'd try to make it up to him as soon as I feel better. Also if the marriage is going through a rough time I doubt I would want sex until we've talked things out and fixed whatever was wrong.
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DizzyDesii
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No i agree that things should be talked over first. Thats why i said dont allow yourselves to go to bed mad
xf25xXper 1
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Never use sex as a piece in a game or as a tool for manipulation
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DizzyDesii
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I agree
Riddler1412Yoda
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Daaamm girl, you're gonma make someone really happy. I agree with you.
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DizzyDesii
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Haha thank you :D
Ironic_MethodYoda
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You shouldn't use sex as a tool of leverage.
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DizzyDesii
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I agree
JustneedtoknoYoda
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If they’re your spouse you don’t really hold sex from them. I’ve been told angry sex is pretty fun I don’t know I’m not married
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DizzyDesii
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I know spouses who haven't given up sex in years
Justneedtokno
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Yeah but that’s not good
DizzyDesii
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At all
CnlnglerXper 4
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I agree with everything you said except looking forward to marriage and a lot of sex. After marriage the sex sometimes goes down to almost none. I recommend living with the person you are about to marry for at least 4 years before you make that decision. You might find things you don't like about that person that you would never have known. Also having kids and new responsibilities also might taint or deminish sex.
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DizzyDesii
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I hear ya but i personally want to marry and have kids pretty soon into the marriage. And i doubt sex will die down with me. If anything, my sex drive is only low outside of marriage because i have self restraint
Mark987Yoda
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Sex is a very important part. Even when people are mad at each other they have sex. I have been in a relationship for 5 years and we would have sex about 3-5 times a week. It is healthy and good cardio lol
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DizzyDesii
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Wow never knew you were even taken
Mark987
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I am..
Mark987
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it's been a little while :)
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DizzyDesii
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You never act like it but good to know
lucas262Yoda
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Sex ain't a currency you hand out, not a doggy treat. It's glue.
1 of mu fears is waiting till marriage and being with a woman who hates sex or cuts me off from it. I mean some women play games, and don't realize if this man is doing it right he's got no outlet except himself, some women have the nerve to let their guy do all the work and don't give it up or feel that they should. That isn't taking care of your partners needs.
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DizzyDesii
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I agree
SamsonTXper 3
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I agree with what you said entirely. I don't think withholding sex accomplishes anything except a fast track to a break up. Its a immature thing to do. It best be rectified with good effective, respectful communication asap
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DizzyDesii
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I agree but more so if theyre married
Jethalal26Xper 1
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It's no brainer... understandable. What's make you to ask this obvious question?
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17 62Sometimes a christian wife or husband is allowed to withhold sex for God seeking purposes. And the time depends on how long they both can agree to hold off sex.
Now that is fair
It's like i told my ex wife... You can't cut me off! You don't know where I'm getting it! (That didn't go over so well but i have always kept it real). The most mature girl i ever dated was only 17 and there was 2 things i loved about her. #1 if she was pissed off at me, it didn't matter, she expected me to still dick her down. She might not talk to me afterwards but that's ok. #2 if she was pissed at me and we went somewhere of of someone came over, that was the end of that fight until we leave or company leaves. 2 good rules i think everyone should follow or you'll have a man you can't cut off.
A week/.
Right
Right or Riiiiiiight.
As long as you need, like for example you're feeling sick
Yea i mentioned that above too butbshit how long does a mf need 🤣
Withhold? Um sex shouldn't be a reward/punishment thing...
I agree
Not long.
Is a week too long
Lol might be, I guess it'd depend on the reasoning.
If you don't desire your partner you may as well have a platonic relationship and are friends, but not in a romantic relationship.
Physical desire for each other is part of romance.
I agree
well if not on periods then not more than a day
Haha i like
you are a naughty girl so yes why not
5 minutes
Lmao i can't
Sex should never be "withheld".
It's a partnership and there should be plenty of communication.
I guess"withheld" to me means punishing the other person.
I agree
Hopefully not more than a few weeks and for understandable reasons. I'm not in a relationship but I know for sure my sex drive is not super high, sometimes I feel tired, or stressed and turned off, but I'd try to make it up to him as soon as I feel better.
Also if the marriage is going through a rough time I doubt I would want sex until we've talked things out and fixed whatever was wrong.
No i agree that things should be talked over first. Thats why i said dont allow yourselves to go to bed mad
Never use sex as a piece in a game or as a tool for manipulation
I agree
Daaamm girl, you're gonma make someone really happy. I agree with you.
Haha thank you :D
You shouldn't use sex as a tool of leverage.
I agree
If they’re your spouse you don’t really hold sex from them. I’ve been told angry sex is pretty fun I don’t know I’m not married
I know spouses who haven't given up sex in years
Yeah but that’s not good
At all
I agree with everything you said except looking forward to marriage and a lot of sex. After marriage the sex sometimes goes down to almost none. I recommend living with the person you are about to marry for at least 4 years before you make that decision. You might find things you don't like about that person that you would never have known. Also having kids and new responsibilities also might taint or deminish sex.
I hear ya but i personally want to marry and have kids pretty soon into the marriage. And i doubt sex will die down with me. If anything, my sex drive is only low outside of marriage because i have self restraint
Sex is a very important part. Even when people are mad at each other they have sex. I have been in a relationship for 5 years and we would have sex about 3-5 times a week. It is healthy and good cardio lol
Wow never knew you were even taken
I am..
it's been a little while :)
You never act like it but good to know
Sex ain't a currency you hand out, not a doggy treat. It's glue.
1 of mu fears is waiting till marriage and being with a woman who hates sex or cuts me off from it. I mean some women play games, and don't realize if this man is doing it right he's got no outlet except himself, some women have the nerve to let their guy do all the work and don't give it up or feel that they should. That isn't taking care of your partners needs.
I agree
I agree with what you said entirely. I don't think withholding sex accomplishes anything except a fast track to a break up. Its a immature thing to do. It best be rectified with good effective, respectful communication asap
I agree but more so if theyre married
It's no brainer... understandable.
What's make you to ask this obvious question?
Well Read the paragraph above