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What do you feel is the longest reasonable time to withhold sex from a spouse?

Man if you ever feel I’m not giving it to you enough, you have the right to divorce me. Lmao. Sex should be one of the best things about marriage. I personally feel a partner should only withhold sex if her period on, if someone is flu-type sick, if you’re mentally distraught because someone close to you died, or whatever prolonged time the doctor says to wait after giving birth. I dont see any other reason to withhold. If we had a long day at work, then coming home to eachother should be the relief. It should be the energy to wake us tf up. If we ever disrespected eachother to the point of no return or if anyone ever cheated, there's no need to withholding sex. Just simply divorce because you’ve striked out and thats not repairable in my opinion. Other than that, I’m not the type to go to bed mad. I always try to fix the shit before then cause i need to be pounded to sleep 🤣 So yea, I look forward to marriage and lots of sex. Anyways, this is my personal opinion. Whats yours?
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What do you feel is the longest reasonable time to withhold sex from a spouse?
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Man i dont wanna be fckin the furniture in this hoe 🤣 A Dude better not make me wait longer than a week
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  • Um, I kind of think that 3 weeks would be pushing it. That is just me being honest. I hope I don't scare anyone away by saying that.

    • 3 weeks is too damn long in my opinion

    • @DizzyDesii Well, I agree. But I'm saying that's, like, the maximum.

    • Ohhh okay lol

  • Depends on the situation.

  • Yeah I think withholding sex is about as worse as cheating on somebody and it make both party's on edge and stressed out. I need sex to relieve my stress and forget about all the bad things going on in the world. People who is willing withhold sex from there spouse should not be married to that person.

    • True

  • Why would anyone do that?

    • Lots of spouses fo unfortunately

    • That's so incredibly immature and toxic. Sex and intimacy should never be used to pressure someone, especially not someone you love. I'd never be in a relationship with someone who does that.

    • I agree

  • I'm still waiting to see how long it will last. Lol

    • Damn. How long has it been now

    • Hold your jaw up, 8 years

    • Omg thats even longer than i thought. Whats her reason for not having sex?

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  • Haha! I feel like I can in to this conversation at a good time! Haha! Please don’t fuck the furniture. Haha! Also I do think that it can be healthy to take a sexual brake from time to time. But I think that sex is a key part of a relationship and the communication within. I just think that people should ask for a bit of space from time to time.

    • I mean yea if we’re not horny then we dont have to do it. But if one of us is horny, the other shouldn't withhold

    • In general yes. sex and physical effect ion is not a chess piece. However say an Olympian is headed to the olympics. They should probably not be having sex with their SO until after their competition and I think that that should be a decision agreed on before the competitor signed up for tryouts. There are times like that where a person should choose to not have sex with their partner and their partner should vise versa be supportive even in their horniness.

    • I guess I got off on the wrong word… sorry! They shouldn’t be withholding sex no. But there is times when people should abstain.

  • No more than a week with a good excuse

    • I agree

  • I wouldn't withhold unless it was medically necessary.

    • Right

  • 1-2 days

    • Haha i see

  • Only if they had a medical procedure done, fasting and prayer or if they are feeling sick.

    To withhold sexual pleasure from wife or husband is a evil and cruel thing to do to someone. It's emotional, mental and physical abuse.

    • I agree

  • Withholding sex is the best way to destroy a relationship and one of the major reasons guys will cheat.
    It is an attack on the male ego and a horrible idea.
    Will punishment get you to do things you don't want to do?

    • Punishment from parents did get me to do things they wanted. But in terms of this topic, punishment would make me want to leave

  • It depends on the catalyst for withholding…

    • True

    • Like if there is an abuse situation, withhold indefinitely until you can get out of the situation

    • Sometimes you have to use the sex as a means to escape. Distract the abuser

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  • You should never withhold sex. If you cannot then it's not really withholding it.

    • Oh well yea i mean cannot rather than withhold

    • Like unless you are opposed to period sex, you can have it then.

    • Yea i mentioned in the paragraph im opposed to it

  • If we go a week without even a blowjob, we gonna have a talk, lol.

    • The only talk that she be done is shoving the dick down her throat and tell her speak into the mic 🤣

    • Best case scenario, lol

  • I would assume a week is probably the maximum

    • I agree

  • I’ve never done it personally, but a few days to a week probably is reasonable

    • I agree

    • Also sometimes I’m just not feeling up to it I don't know why

    • I think its excusable when unmarried. But if married then no i need him to get in the mood

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  • If I was married, I would never withhold sex except under a few of the conditions you mentioned. If I was married, it would have to be with someone like you who wants to fuck all the time.

    • Hehehe

    • We’d be fucking all the time, enjoying cumming together!

    • Absolutely! Not giving a fck who sees

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  • Depends.

  • A day and maybe just maybe 2 days. 3 or more days is too long

    • Haha i like

  • 2 months?

    • Shit thats a long time. I’d be riding the furniture waiting on him to fck me 🤣

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