What do you guys think about a 17 y girl that’s still a virgin and waiting for marriage?

[Farrel12]

[Wsx2wsx2ws]

Keep waiting.
17 is WAY to young. Don't just give in the any horny guy who is not committed.
Marriages bellow 25 had an extremely high divorce rate. Because what is important to you at 17 is trivial at 25 when you are more grounded and understand things a little better. Also the human brain is not fully baked untill 25.
Its like shopping when you are hungry. Everything on the shelf looks good. Then you see all the garbage you bought.

So I suggest you stay single and work on you. Hang around people that are like who you plan to be. Have good close friends who support you.

[godfatherfan]

17 is no big deal. Waiting until marriage is the stupidest thing you can do. You cannot learn sexual compatibility. I have broken up with a woman because we were not sexually compatible. Then you end up divorced for no reason. Do not wait until marriage for sex. Don't let some ridiculous religion nonsense screw up your future.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats dumb. "sexual compatibility"... pfff, thats just looks, you don't need to have sex to know what they look like naked. I'm an atheist, and I'm waiting till marriage because the risks that sex creates are too serious not too.

[godfatherfan]

@TheSpaceGnome WTF are you talking about? I never said anything about looks. I am talking about one person liking a particular thing sexually, and the other person being repulsed by it. or at least not wanting to do it. There are many examples. Sex creates no risks that can't be dealt with if you think ahead. Waiting is stupid and ridiculous.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Even with preferable or repulsive sexual acts, compatiability is figured out by asking questions, you don't need to actually do anything to know if you;re compatible with them or not. Waiting makes sense, it avoids pregancy and stds, if you have a kid with the wrong person or catch an STD, no one will want you, and you'll end up alone the rest of your life.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think it's fine. I was abstinence when I was a teenager and wanted to wait for marriage. As long as it is your own choice, it is completely fine. Just stay strong and keep your values close. And I hope you find the person you're looking to marry in the future.

[IslaTheWitch]

it's her life, why should we have any opinion? Her decision and her consequences

[katiesmuff]

I think she is a good girl and just fine!

[Drew-1990]

I give all the praise in the world to you for wanting to wait till marriage don't let people try to tell you otherwise. You are still young and people are going to try to convince it isn't worth waiting but it is. One day you are going to find someone that is going to make the wait worth it.

[Berethor]

Sounds like a wife material, there is not many virgins who waiting for marriage nowadays.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Billlewis]

I think that's admirable!

[normalice]

Seems common.

[strateguy632]

75% are like that so common. but if decided to wait until marriage, is impressive and can avoid many troubles.

[boggboss]

Good for her I guess lol

[firenine909]

It’s good but focus on your life too

[Dargil]

Hold the course until you find the right one and then decide if you want to make an exception.

[RavVid]

I think she is serious about marriage. A refreshing change.

[Tim2nice]

Her life, her decision. It doesn’t affect me, so I don’t care. I have no opinion

[David94358]

I don't think anything, when you are ready for sex then have sex, it's up to you

[laly520]

her life her decision

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's what's up 👏🏼

[exitseven]

Nice.

[TheSpaceGnome]

In most places you have to be at least 18 to have sex.
People should wait till marriage because of STDs and unplanned pregnancy risks.

[tfan1]

My hat’s off to you or her. I waited till I was married to give my virginity to my wife and vice versa. I was 30 and she was 29 👍🙂

[DrPepper12]

Respect.

[OtterMan68]

normal

[Wise4myage]

I think that's great, but I hope you don't wait forever because is very enjoyable.