I'm a 28 year old and I'm still virgin because it's a big deal for me to lose my virginity before marriage. So, is it weird for you that I'm only want to lose it on my wedding night?
Hopelessly outdated. Especially since more than half of marriages end up in divorce because they weren't right for each other to begin with. These child like notions of purity are a main cause of half the world making hell for the other half. And children growing up with only role models on how NOT to live one's life. The sexual revolution of the 1960-ies was about liberation. It's almost 60 years ago. Liberty is up for grabs. Take it, embrace it, live.
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So, you find that's abnormal that I'm stay virgin till now because I don't want to lose it with the right person?
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I'm still* Because I want to lose it*
Frankiealaplaaja
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Yes. There is absolutely no guarantee the one you end up marrying will even be right for you at all. There's a decent chance he won't be. When my first girlfriend and I made love for the first time we were mad crazy in love with each other. It turned out that we weren't right for each other in the long run, but at least we both enjoyed it... A LOT. You just would deny yourself that joy. As for the others: any first time with someone new is just as special, only different.
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WalterRadio
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"the right person" is not the same as "wedding night". Sexual incompatibility is the number two reason for divorce. There is no way to know if you are sexually compatible until you've been having sex together for a few years.
JimboGBYoda
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They will never last.
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jb12358Xper 7
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If I’m honest I find the idea of waiting until marriage unnatural and I’d probably prefer to do it with someone who has experience
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xane838
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So you rather date or marry a woman who has been with 10 guys vs 1. I say 10 because the average woman nowadays have that many partners before settling down because they have to fk a football field to know if the guy has good dik
jb12358
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@xane838 yeah I think it’s true for both guys and girls
joethemoe912Xper 5
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I'd say it's unusual but it is your life, do what you want.
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munichguyXper 4
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Unusual rather than weird... Nothing against, though
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Jamie05rhsMaster
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Nothing wrong with that at all. Good for you.
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OfDeathMaster
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Yeah that's pretty weird.
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Why?
OfDeath
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We just disagree on the importance of sex. If you wait until marriage to do it, you just lost your time in my opinion. Especially if you're already 28 years old.
clampfan101Master
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I’m waiting for marriage, and would love if my future wife is waiting as well.
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Dchrls78104Master
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I'm one of them.
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Liam_HaydenGuru
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Not as common as it formerly was but definitely not weird.
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johnwilliams69Xper 5
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I'm 20 and I'm a virgin. It's only because I want to wait for the right person. I have had many chances to lose it but I don't want to give it up to someone just because society dictates me to do so. When the time is right, I will and you should do whatever makes you happy
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Yeah, me too! Thanks. :)
johnwilliams69
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You still able to masturbate or what
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Yeah, but I don't usually do that.
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johnwilliams69
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As long as your able to relieve yourself then it's good.
GedariaMaster
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Good, keep it up...
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COMMODOREIIMaster
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Nope not weird at all. Your choice. 😎
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vxlsirXper 5
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It's fine just realize that one day you might find yourself wondering if someone else is different also your potential partner may worry that you might one day want to experiment which could cause trust issues which at that point would be during your marrige
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Nikunj70Xper 4
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Definitely not dear i am like you, i am also 27 yr old and still virgin and i also believe in same thing that you told So be relax want to loosing virgin is every one choice , if someone not wants before marriage like us than its not big deal or weird
Happy to see and meet you who believe in same kind of thought..😉🙂👍
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TwalliMaster
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Some guys agree with you. I don't, neither does my girlfriend, but she lost it at 33.
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jwssteinXper 5
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No I think that shows you have a lot of respect for yourself and the person you Marry
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But I think most guys found that's horrible to be in a relationship with a virgin woman while I can lose it when ever I want with any guy, but I don't want to do that.
jwsstein
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But there is more than just penatration
WalterRadio
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" I think most guys found that's horrible to be in a relationship with a virgin woman" If he isn't having sex with you, he is having sex with someone else. Among Indonesian-Chinese, it is expected that the woman will be a virgin when they she gets married. So she and her boyfriend/fiance are not supposed not have sex. Meanwhile, her boyfriend/fiance will have a girlfriend he is having sex with or be seeing prostitutes. The women absolutely hate this double standard on expectations. And these days, they usually ignore it and have sex with their boyfriends when they feel like it.
BlackGoldTongue46Xper 2
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Whatever you believe that up to you, but yeah to some its weird and at the same time you might need to at least get licked down there...👅💦👅💦💦💦💯
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OddBeMeMaster
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You do what you think is right. Personally I think you’re setting yourself up for potential emotional issues. Sex is complicated and waiting until you’re married could be too late to know the guy.
I think living together and fucking before marriage should be mandatory.
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TotallyAlmostGuru
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I have a lot of respect for that. But there are risks of waiting. I've been with multiple partners where we were just flat out sexually incompatible (as in, sex was just about impossible), and it doomed the relationships.
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16 75Hopelessly outdated. Especially since more than half of marriages end up in divorce because they weren't right for each other to begin with.
These child like notions of purity are a main cause of half the world making hell for the other half. And children growing up with only role models on how NOT to live one's life.
The sexual revolution of the 1960-ies was about liberation. It's almost 60 years ago.
Liberty is up for grabs. Take it, embrace it, live.
So, you find that's abnormal that I'm stay virgin till now because I don't want to lose it with the right person?
I'm still* Because I want to lose it*
Yes. There is absolutely no guarantee the one you end up marrying will even be right for you at all. There's a decent chance he won't be. When my first girlfriend and I made love for the first time we were mad crazy in love with each other. It turned out that we weren't right for each other in the long run, but at least we both enjoyed it... A LOT. You just would deny yourself that joy. As for the others: any first time with someone new is just as special, only different.
"the right person" is not the same as "wedding night". Sexual incompatibility is the number two reason for divorce. There is no way to know if you are sexually compatible until you've been having sex together for a few years.
They will never last.
If I’m honest I find the idea of waiting until marriage unnatural and I’d probably prefer to do it with someone who has experience
So you rather date or marry a woman who has been with 10 guys vs 1. I say 10 because the average woman nowadays have that many partners before settling down because they have to fk a football field to know if the guy has good dik
@xane838 yeah I think it’s true for both guys and girls
I'd say it's unusual but it is your life, do what you want.
Unusual rather than weird... Nothing against, though
Nothing wrong with that at all. Good for you.
Yeah that's pretty weird.
Why?
We just disagree on the importance of sex. If you wait until marriage to do it, you just lost your time in my opinion. Especially if you're already 28 years old.
I’m waiting for marriage, and would love if my future wife is waiting as well.
I'm one of them.
Not as common as it formerly was but definitely not weird.
I'm 20 and I'm a virgin. It's only because I want to wait for the right person. I have had many chances to lose it but I don't want to give it up to someone just because society dictates me to do so. When the time is right, I will and you should do whatever makes you happy
Yeah, me too! Thanks. :)
You still able to masturbate or what
Yeah, but I don't usually do that.
As long as your able to relieve yourself then it's good.
Good, keep it up...
Nope not weird at all. Your choice. 😎
It's fine just realize that one day you might find yourself wondering if someone else is different also your potential partner may worry that you might one day want to experiment which could cause trust issues which at that point would be during your marrige
Definitely not dear i am like you, i am also 27 yr old and still virgin and i also believe in same thing that you told
So be relax want to loosing virgin is every one choice , if someone not wants before marriage like us than its not big deal or weird
Happy to see and meet you who believe in same kind of thought..😉🙂👍
Some guys agree with you. I don't, neither does my girlfriend, but she lost it at 33.
No I think that shows you have a lot of respect for yourself and the person you Marry
But I think most guys found that's horrible to be in a relationship with a virgin woman while I can lose it when ever I want with any guy, but I don't want to do that.
But there is more than just penatration
" I think most guys found that's horrible to be in a relationship with a virgin woman" If he isn't having sex with you, he is having sex with someone else. Among Indonesian-Chinese, it is expected that the woman will be a virgin when they she gets married. So she and her boyfriend/fiance are not supposed not have sex. Meanwhile, her boyfriend/fiance will have a girlfriend he is having sex with or be seeing prostitutes. The women absolutely hate this double standard on expectations. And these days, they usually ignore it and have sex with their boyfriends when they feel like it.
Whatever you believe that up to you, but yeah to some its weird and at the same time you might need to at least get licked down there...👅💦👅💦💦💦💯
You do what you think is right. Personally I think you’re setting yourself up for potential emotional issues. Sex is complicated and waiting until you’re married could be too late to know the guy.
I think living together and fucking before marriage should be mandatory.
I have a lot of respect for that. But there are risks of waiting. I've been with multiple partners where we were just flat out sexually incompatible (as in, sex was just about impossible), and it doomed the relationships.