Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health She is living in a sex less relationship for 5 years. She's together with her boyfriend for 12 years and she likes him, they get along. She's currently at home as she is ill and can't work.
She is in her forties and still horny. She found two men in her neighbourhood in their early twenties who have sex with her when her boyfriend is working. She is calmer and nicer to her boyfriend as a result.
She says she enjoys their company and her boyfriend doesn't need to know about them. She doesn't feel guilty at all.
What do you think my friend should do?
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What Girls & Guys Said
9 42They need too talk it out. There more men out there than you think that would love to see their girlfriend getting fucked by a nice cock or even a black one.
Sounds a good arrangement, she is happy he happy and her two friends are happy
Sounds good.
She doesn't work yet fucks around? Winner
Like and love is two entirely different emotions. If she's comfortable with this arrangement, and the boyfriend of 12 fucking years has stopped having sex with her, they can stay in touch by phone for all she's getting from their relationship. Unless she's dependent on him for financial support, I say find another apartment and fuck the brains out of those two 20-year-olds. After all, added together they equal her age don't they?
You don't think she is wrong?
No, I don't feel she is wrong. Look, we're in this life, for better or worse. We have to make hard decisions all through our lives, but the hardest is whether we hurt someone we love or let go of someone that we just like. I hope they can be friends but she obviously has sexual desires he's not fulfilling. I find it hard to believe he's not fucking someone else that she doesn't know about.
It doesn't matter they are much younger and two of them? You don't feel bad for her boyfriend at all? He's 56
The boyfriend has not committed to a long-term marriage. He doesn't have sex with her anymore. What part of it's over doesn't she understand? She likes sex, the two young men provide it.
Well, I can't judge. I just wonder how she would feel if her boyfriend was having sex with 2 other women, while she was at work. It's an odd relationship though, where healthy, wonderful sex isn't a part of it. So i can understand her wanting to fulfill her sexual desires. I'd do the same thing.
Women and men are different. she's a slut. A man would be ok doing this
Well.. not giving your spouse sex is *abuse* so he 100% deserves to get cheated on.
That's subjective and wrong
It 100% is subjective, as all moral choices are. I have 0 respect for married people who demand exclusivity but then deny sex. It's malicious.
honestly there's nothing u can do other than tell the boyfriend
Does boyfriend know? all depends on this, if he does, then carry on as she is, if not, that's an entirely different matter,,,
that's pretty fucked up, she should leave him if it isn't working
She is already getting sex therapy which makes her easier to live with for her boyfriend.
Sounds like Win, win for the both of them.
Totally up to them how they want to live.
Would you say that if it was her boyfriend getting some instead?
If it was the boyfriend not getting any sex at home because the wife shut her legs. YES!
I think not equal
What is not equal about that?
It's OK for men, but not women
One cut the other off and the other was getting strange
Women and men are different
Outside of the Phyiscal differences. Penis and vagina, what are the differences?
Men are more horny, sex is more important to them, women should restrain themselves and upkeep morality
Okay. How long would you live in a sexless relationship speaking as a respectable woman.
For me, looking at it from a woman’s point. I would be worried about getting pregnant. Providing that was possible
She should let her boyfriend know about her sexual needs.
He knows but doesn't do much
Then she gotta find a new boyfriend.
Train wreck ahead for your friend.
Wow I'm not gonna say what want about your friend cause what I have to say is not good
He should do what she want
She’s asking for trouble.
find a new boy friend. If not keep on doing what she is doing the best of both worlds
You don't feel bad for her boyfriend?
sound like he does not care he is not doing anything about it. so why feel sorry about him
Yeah I don’t believe that.
People need sex so your friend needs to call it quits
Why doesn't the boyfriend have seX with her etc?
I say good for her