What do you think of guys, men, who committ suicide, because they didn't lose their virginity until late in life? their sex life started late?

just asking because, i know of a couple of guys, who committed suicide because they lost their virginity late in life, such late, near the end of their 20s, or sometime in their 30s or more, while they did eventually start having a sex life, the more times they had sex, the more it made them sad, depressed, because they didn't get laid earlier in life, such as their teens, or beginning of 20s.

I found these incidents, stories, heartbreaking, depressing, they end up being bitter and jealous, resentful of people who lost their virginity or started their sex life in high school, their teens, or beginning of their 20s.

At the same time, people will say to them: "

What exactly do you gain or accomplish by being angry, depressed, upset about what didn't happen in the past?" While yes they are right, but at the same time, they feel depressed about it and suicidal, because they feel they didn't grow up having a normal dating/sex life like most people do it seems, and upset because they feel everything is their responsibility because they are guys. They feel they missed out on the best years for sex.

Anyway, what do you think of guys who commit suicide over being a late bloomer to sex?
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it reminds me, i like to believe, feel, think, that women are the only gender that have a right or are entitled, owed to sexual relationships, dates, but men are not
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i like to feel that prostitution, escorts, should be legalized in the U. S., and regulated a lot, that way the sex works don't have STD's or just very little, or i don't know how to say this, i kinda doubt it will ever happen, but the goverments or society of the world, they should place higher importance to make sure teens or people going through puberty, to learn and develop the imperative social-skills or social-behaviors so people know how to establish a romantic/sexual relationship.
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i know feeling this way won't help at all, but sometimes i hate women due to the fact that nature or evolution gave them the power to control the access to sex, or just the way that nature made it out to be, that men usually it seems end up celibate longer than women do it seems
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these guys, men, they are entitled and have a right if they want to take their own lives
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i know this will never change but it has always angered and enraged, pissed me off, that it seems that it always comes down to a mans social-skills or conversation ability, the way he talks, walks, sits, stands, certain social behaviors, among other things, that determines a mans ability to get a girlfriend or attract a woman, i never liked it but i know it will never change, it just fills me with anger and a lot of rage, i hate the way the world has to be
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i read this statement somewhere, it was depressing and enraging to read, don't get me wrong, i don't disagree with it, but it's just a reminder of stating the obvious: "The fact is you can't go back in time. There's essentially two options. Resign yourself to being alone and living a solitary life, or become open to the idea of having these "firsts" at a later than average age." it makes me think, i really hope that after we die, i hope that reincarnation is real
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me and tons of other guys, or people, would love to come back to life as a human being and start over, to make sure and work harder to make sure they grow up experiencing certain social milestones by a certain age, obviously guys will have to work harder than women do
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"they are still young and there's still sex to be had", i got mad hearing that, because those guys were still late to having sex later than normal, like 10 to 15 years late
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"They chose to kill themselves right in the moment their suffering was starting to END and right when what they finally wanted all this time, they finally got? Killing yourself because you fucked late, but still got laid, is pathetic. You don’t go for two weeks without eating, finally eat, and kill yourself right after. Eating is infinitely more important" those comments really angered and enraged me, pissed me off
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reminds me of a guy, who told me he is a virgin in his later 20s, he gets mad and enraged when he hears his neighbors having sex in his apartment next door, he says he feels like barging in on them and whacking them with a baseball bat, because the sex noises reminds him that he is not getting laid, and that men are dealt with the burden of seduction or work of making a sexual relationship happen or start
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man, sometimes it makes me feel this way, when i see a teenage couple and early 20s couple, it makes me feel like walking up to them and beating up the girls boyfriend right in front of her, would love to make him squeal like a puppy as i break his fuckin' neck
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"They chose to kill themselves right in the moment their suffering was starting to END and right when what they finally wanted all this time, they finally got? Killing yourself because you fucked late, but still got laid, is pathetic. You don’t go for two weeks without eating, finally eat, and kill yourself right after. Eating is infinitely more important" That made me very mad, because the suffering ended when they didn't want it to end, they wanted it to end much earlier, sadly nope it didn'
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because all the years of being celibate for so long, the mental and emotional scars are forever permanent
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its also another reminder how my mindset and mentality towards dating, relationships, has changed over the years, but i get annoyed, irritated, enraged, when people call it a skillset or something you learn, learned behavior, and when people use the word "practice", that enrages me even more, its long and difficult to explain, so what if there is still sex to be had? i don't think its the same as you reach or get to a certain age
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  • That is kind of an overreaction.

    • why so?

    • You must be kidding.

  • Nah, people die virgins of old age, men specially.
    There's other shit behind that, like chronic depressing, physical abuse, etc...

    • yup, thats part of how nature made sex more cruel for men than for women

    • @anon - I don’t disagree with you.

    • @loves2learn so you agree with what i said?

  • It's sad, at least they are not making the lives of others toxic

  • the dumbest reason I have ever heard of

    • well sex is one of the biggest parts of lives for humans

  • How in tf did they let you post a question about suicide if I put the word self or harm within five words of each other my shit instantly gets took down this is bull sht man 💢💢‼️

  • Sex and suicide is totally unrelated, humans commit suicide because of depression.

    Its annoying how people treat sex like its the best thing in the world.

    • well it is a major part of humans lives

  • Thought about it many times

    • i'm sure its more common than we think

  • Fuck the patriarchy.

    • its their life, they can do what they want with it, but i don't blame them for committing suicide over having sex late in life

    • It's the patriarchies fault they feel this way. All has to do with the masculine ideology. Men are "supposed" to be the bread winners, work and take care of their families. Man who doesn't loose his virginity till later in life obviously isn't achieving this idea.

  • Life isn't about sex, don't make death about it.

    • you can't deny that sex is a huge, major part of human beings lives

    • Many people live without sex. It isn't necessary for everyone.

    • my guess is, you know of people like that, i assume they are all men

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  • I started at age 19 which for my city was late. I've slept with over 200 women since. These guys are assholes. They made a permanent solution for a temporary problem.

    • well they started quite later than you

    • Check out entrepreneurs in cars, rollo tomassi, mystery method, coach Corey Wayne. I think they would help. All on YouTube. They have books as well if you wanna read , but otherwise it's all free on YouTube

    • well having sex late in life is sad or depressing, they missed out on their prime youthful years for hot passionate sex

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  • I think they are dumb as hell. If you want to loose it so bad look for someone who is down to f. Why kill yourself. It isn't that deep. They should seek help.

    • That's easy to say being a women, there's always someone down to fuck for you but it doesn't work like that the opposite way around or else this problem wouldn't exist

    • Prostitutes and escorts exist @Nachowedgie tinder grinder etc

    • Prostitution is illegal in most places, escorts can be crazy expensive and little to none offer actual sex. Tinder only benefits the top 10% of guys and the vast majority of men are straight so

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  • I'm a virgin at 27 only kissed a girl once and i don't care enough about sex to killmyself over it. All i want is to have kids. Kids via surrogacy or the traditional way. Doesn't matter to me as long as i have kids.

  • It seems like a waste to kill yourself over that. I am more the type that would kill others if I thought that they were the reason that I didn't lose my virginity until later in life.

    Feminists have built an infrastructure of systemic celibacy. They need to be torn down along with their system of hate

    #SystemicCelibacy

  • I would assume cases or incidents like that happen more common than we think

  • Why did they do such a fool?

    • i don't understand what you mean by that

    • What do you think of guys, men, who committ suicide, because they didn't lose their virginity until late in life? their sex life started late? I mean why is that

    • because they are sad, depressed, over all the years of sex they missed out on

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  • I think it's sad and kind of pathetic

    • well i assume it probably happens more common than we think

    • No, humans are often sad and pathetic. What I meant isn’t not having sex, I meant your mentality. Nothing you are saying is giving anyone a reason to want to have sex with you. Just get a job and get some hookers and get it over with and shut up about it.

    • it sucks that it is illegal in most places

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