Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health just asking because, i know of a couple of guys, who committed suicide because they lost their virginity late in life, such late, near the end of their 20s, or sometime in their 30s or more, while they did eventually start having a sex life, the more times they had sex, the more it made them sad, depressed, because they didn't get laid earlier in life, such as their teens, or beginning of 20s.
I found these incidents, stories, heartbreaking, depressing, they end up being bitter and jealous, resentful of people who lost their virginity or started their sex life in high school, their teens, or beginning of their 20s.
At the same time, people will say to them: "
What exactly do you gain or accomplish by being angry, depressed, upset about what didn't happen in the past?" While yes they are right, but at the same time, they feel depressed about it and suicidal, because they feel they didn't grow up having a normal dating/sex life like most people do it seems, and upset because they feel everything is their responsibility because they are guys. They feel they missed out on the best years for sex.
Anyway, what do you think of guys who commit suicide over being a late bloomer to sex?
What do you think of guys, men, who committ suicide, because they didn't lose their virginity until late in life? their sex life started late?
Anonymous
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it reminds me, i like to believe, feel, think, that women are the only gender that have a right or are entitled, owed to sexual relationships, dates, but men are not
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i like to feel that prostitution, escorts, should be legalized in the U. S., and regulated a lot, that way the sex works don't have STD's or just very little, or i don't know how to say this, i kinda doubt it will ever happen, but the goverments or society of the world, they should place higher importance to make sure teens or people going through puberty, to learn and develop the imperative social-skills or social-behaviors so people know how to establish a romantic/sexual relationship.
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i know feeling this way won't help at all, but sometimes i hate women due to the fact that nature or evolution gave them the power to control the access to sex, or just the way that nature made it out to be, that men usually it seems end up celibate longer than women do it seems
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these guys, men, they are entitled and have a right if they want to take their own lives
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i know this will never change but it has always angered and enraged, pissed me off, that it seems that it always comes down to a mans social-skills or conversation ability, the way he talks, walks, sits, stands, certain social behaviors, among other things, that determines a mans ability to get a girlfriend or attract a woman, i never liked it but i know it will never change, it just fills me with anger and a lot of rage, i hate the way the world has to be
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i read this statement somewhere, it was depressing and enraging to read, don't get me wrong, i don't disagree with it, but it's just a reminder of stating the obvious: "The fact is you can't go back in time. There's essentially two options. Resign yourself to being alone and living a solitary life, or become open to the idea of having these "firsts" at a later than average age." it makes me think, i really hope that after we die, i hope that reincarnation is real
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me and tons of other guys, or people, would love to come back to life as a human being and start over, to make sure and work harder to make sure they grow up experiencing certain social milestones by a certain age, obviously guys will have to work harder than women do
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"they are still young and there's still sex to be had", i got mad hearing that, because those guys were still late to having sex later than normal, like 10 to 15 years late
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"They chose to kill themselves right in the moment their suffering was starting to END and right when what they finally wanted all this time, they finally got? Killing yourself because you fucked late, but still got laid, is pathetic. You don’t go for two weeks without eating, finally eat, and kill yourself right after. Eating is infinitely more important" those comments really angered and enraged me, pissed me off
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reminds me of a guy, who told me he is a virgin in his later 20s, he gets mad and enraged when he hears his neighbors having sex in his apartment next door, he says he feels like barging in on them and whacking them with a baseball bat, because the sex noises reminds him that he is not getting laid, and that men are dealt with the burden of seduction or work of making a sexual relationship happen or start
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man, sometimes it makes me feel this way, when i see a teenage couple and early 20s couple, it makes me feel like walking up to them and beating up the girls boyfriend right in front of her, would love to make him squeal like a puppy as i break his fuckin' neck
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"They chose to kill themselves right in the moment their suffering was starting to END and right when what they finally wanted all this time, they finally got? Killing yourself because you fucked late, but still got laid, is pathetic. You don’t go for two weeks without eating, finally eat, and kill yourself right after. Eating is infinitely more important" That made me very mad, because the suffering ended when they didn't want it to end, they wanted it to end much earlier, sadly nope it didn'
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because all the years of being celibate for so long, the mental and emotional scars are forever permanent
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its also another reminder how my mindset and mentality towards dating, relationships, has changed over the years, but i get annoyed, irritated, enraged, when people call it a skillset or something you learn, learned behavior, and when people use the word "practice", that enrages me even more, its long and difficult to explain, so what if there is still sex to be had? i don't think its the same as you reach or get to a certain age
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 25Nah, people die virgins of old age, men specially.
There's other shit behind that, like chronic depressing, physical abuse, etc...
yup, thats part of how nature made sex more cruel for men than for women
@anon - I don’t disagree with you.
@loves2learn so you agree with what i said?
That is kind of an overreaction.
why so?
You must be kidding.
It's sad, at least they are not making the lives of others toxic
the dumbest reason I have ever heard of
well sex is one of the biggest parts of lives for humans
How in tf did they let you post a question about suicide if I put the word self or harm within five words of each other my shit instantly gets took down this is bull sht man 💢💢‼️
Sex and suicide is totally unrelated, humans commit suicide because of depression.
Its annoying how people treat sex like its the best thing in the world.
well it is a major part of humans lives
Thought about it many times
i'm sure its more common than we think
Fuck the patriarchy.
its their life, they can do what they want with it, but i don't blame them for committing suicide over having sex late in life
It's the patriarchies fault they feel this way. All has to do with the masculine ideology. Men are "supposed" to be the bread winners, work and take care of their families. Man who doesn't loose his virginity till later in life obviously isn't achieving this idea.
Life isn't about sex, don't make death about it.
you can't deny that sex is a huge, major part of human beings lives
Many people live without sex. It isn't necessary for everyone.
my guess is, you know of people like that, i assume they are all men
Nope, I know loads of people of both genders. Thinking life is about sex is sad.
i assume some of these people are virgins, keyword, some
I don't know where you are trying to get with this, but no.
but it sounds like you are implying, that they have been celibate for most of their lives, just a guess
No I'm implying that they don't think life is about sex.
so then they do have a sex life then
Yes, but it isn't necessary for their survival.
I started at age 19 which for my city was late. I've slept with over 200 women since. These guys are assholes. They made a permanent solution for a temporary problem.
well they started quite later than you
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well having sex late in life is sad or depressing, they missed out on their prime youthful years for hot passionate sex
My sex now is light years better than when I was younger.
I think they are dumb as hell. If you want to loose it so bad look for someone who is down to f. Why kill yourself. It isn't that deep. They should seek help.
That's easy to say being a women, there's always someone down to fuck for you but it doesn't work like that the opposite way around or else this problem wouldn't exist
Prostitutes and escorts exist @Nachowedgie tinder grinder etc
Prostitution is illegal in most places, escorts can be crazy expensive and little to none offer actual sex. Tinder only benefits the top 10% of guys and the vast majority of men are straight so
It maybe illegal but its still there and people still use them and escort do give sex. Sugarbabies are the ones that dont give sex unless they dont want to. I know lots off "unattractive" guys get sex because girls get horny to its where and how you look.
looking for someone that is down to fuck, Nachowedgie summed it up perfectly, its quite obvious that men have to work much harder than women do to get laid
I'm a virgin at 27 only kissed a girl once and i don't care enough about sex to killmyself over it. All i want is to have kids. Kids via surrogacy or the traditional way. Doesn't matter to me as long as i have kids.
It seems like a waste to kill yourself over that. I am more the type that would kill others if I thought that they were the reason that I didn't lose my virginity until later in life.
Feminists have built an infrastructure of systemic celibacy. They need to be torn down along with their system of hate
#SystemicCelibacy
I would assume cases or incidents like that happen more common than we think
Why did they do such a fool?
i don't understand what you mean by that
What do you think of guys, men, who committ suicide, because they didn't lose their virginity until late in life? their sex life started late? I mean why is that
because they are sad, depressed, over all the years of sex they missed out on
Oh I want to kiss their dicks. why they are depressed.
what do you mean by that? women normally don't hook up with guys out of sympathy
You are thinking wrong. If women are so why are most women prostitutes? Women only hang out with men for their money.
I think it's sad and kind of pathetic
well i assume it probably happens more common than we think
No, humans are often sad and pathetic. What I meant isn’t not having sex, I meant your mentality. Nothing you are saying is giving anyone a reason to want to have sex with you. Just get a job and get some hookers and get it over with and shut up about it.
it sucks that it is illegal in most places
Dude fuck off already. You are not a good person. You are a shit human being. Just shit he fuck up, of course no one will fuck your because you SUCK and you are an asshole with horrible disgusting views.
Hey man, stop already. You are just a bad person, why in the fuck would any woman want you?