What do you think of Stag/Hotwife relationships?

I mean, I'd totally understand if you said TL;DR, but it's actually interesting. I ripped it right out of a Tumblr blog.

"A STAG is a STRAIGHT MAN that shares his wife or girlfriend sexually with other men and derives his pleasure solely from watching her arousal. He does not seek out other woman in return. This is Stag Hotwifing. While perceived as kinky, Stag Hotwifing has long been part of Western history. Not to be confused with cuckoldry, as the act involves no humiliation of the stag or attempted displays of dominance by these other men towards him. Nor is the wife or girlfriend cheating as she has both permission and active encouragement from her husband or boyfriend in this lifestyle. It’s just a man’s longing to see his wife or girlfriend sexually gratified by males he and she choose for her. This typically occurs by either bringing another man into a threesome to pleasure the wife or girlfriend, or watching or listening to her ‘play’ with the other men or even recount the details of her adventures with other men to her husband or boyfriend after the fact. Stags love and respect their Hotwives in real life relationships."
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  • I have heard about this but haven't met a husband yet who agrees for it, luv.
    On my part I don't disrespect any kinks and think people should do what they like, I did enjoy my kinks so I can't judge others for it.

  • Worked for me! I Fucking love it.

  • i never think like this shit. never!
    this is (sorry but) idiotic for me... sex is emotional too... it is between 1 guy and 1 girl...

  • I did this with my wife for decades.

    Was an amazing time. We would get sooo turned on as she fucked other men, or have gangbangs.

    For me the best part was reclaiming her after the parties. Nothing feels better than sliding into a used pussy. I'm serious.

  • I think you want to have a relationship like that.

    • lmfao

    • Loool

    • I will make it a question. Would you like a relationship like that lucie. Or do you want see if it's ok before giving it a go. Monogamy like non nudity is cultural. It's not in our DNA. which means its learnt behaviour and can be unlearned. So the more humans that do it the more culturally acceptable it vecomes

  • I love the idea. Women need to be pleasured. In my case I wouldn't mind assistance, plus Im sure she would love the fantasy fulfilled.

  • I like watching hot wife on the internet. I wouldn't mind finding a girlfriend interested omit to see if I like it enough to marry someone who wants to play

  • Late to the post, but I had to add to this.

    That tumblr definition that has done the rounds is restrictive and borderline homophobic. Why does that man have to be straight? Sexual orientation can operate completely independently of this kink.

    I'd normally say about this kind of definition "we could just use another label for bi stags", if it weren't for the very common, lingering, anti-bi-men sentiment in the world of swinging. It's slowly getting better, but it's nowhere near caught up to the rest of society.

  • If you loved it enough to take it from a tumblr blog why not take the 2 seconds to give them credit?

  • This is very arousing to me. Like part of bdsm comunity, this game of control is a tool in many levels. All is about fun and stay relaxed. I have a doubt, anyone knows about the other versión, wich are the names when the girl like share her boyfriend. I dont know the word and I had 2 of them.

  • My husband and I had talked about this and we both thought it was hot but just a fantasy.
    We looked online wondering if there were others and learned about the "Hotwife" thing.
    (Just looked up "Stag" and I think the person who asked this question means "Stag Vixen" which seems to be the name for unmarried couples who hotwife.)
    We were on a resort holiday and it happened.
    Answering your question; My husband says - Hot and I say - Amazing.
    Do we have any regrets? No.
    Will it happen again? Probably not because it needs all the right things in play, a special moment.