What does it mean if a guy just wants oral sex and not full sex?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me.

[Anonymous]

Real sex is beyond PIV, it's about pleasure, if you guys are having pleasure with it, what's the matter? Now if you think something is missing, you should talk to him about it. I could completely go off without PIV if I get a bj from a beautiful woman. However, I have to ask the reason why he's avoiding PIV, does he has some fear? You should try to go deeper on the subject until he open up to you.

[mstbooblover]

Many possible reasons I think. Maybe the guy just loves oral sex ; maybe erection problems ; maybe a way to avoid in particular circumstances (no contraception available for instance) the girl to get pregnant ; or just his thing ; etc. In any case the guy does not seem to be gay because the question involves a girl and a guy...

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he just wants to be serviced sexually by you. A blow job is only about his pleasure. Intercourse is mutual and he doesn’t seem concerned about your pleasure at all. So he’s either being selfish here or maybe he’s afraid of getting you pregnant.

[chrissykerdock]

it's just a simple case he prefers blowjobs i've had a few boyfriends who were like that as well... i got very used to just giving blowjobs and infact enjoyed the blowjob time we had together it was very cozy and i found very intimate.

[Avcfhcic]

When you say oral does he want you to suck him off or is it he wants to give you head and eat you?

[Asker]

He just wants me to suck him.

[Avcfhcic]

Yeah that's not on. He's just using you for it. If he doesn't give you head in return or any kind of pleasure then you shouldn't have to suck him

[Asker]

But if he wants to use me, isn't having sex better for him?

[Avcfhcic]

Depends. Sex means he has to do a lot more work, unless you suggest you be on top and do the work. Where as head he just sits there while you do all the work and he gets pleasure while doing nothing

[Avcfhcic]

It isn't fair on you at all

[Asker]

You've got a point there. I feel so hurt when he doesn't want to touch me.

[Avcfhcic]

Yeah I would've understood more if you both gave head, but since only you give then it just isn't a fair relationship

[Asker]

Thanks for your answers.

[Avcfhcic]

You're welcome! I hope you rectify the situation and get a fairer deal. If you want to talk more / have other questions send me a message or type here!

[DaveJord]

That he is probably not a heterosexual. I mean the one reason to be in a heterosexual relation is vaginal sex... if you don't want that then you're probably not a heterosexual.

[PositiveNote]

If he wants blow jobs, he wants sex. I would guess that what he doesn't want are babies. That's actually being considerate, I would think. If you are on the pill, it's still a slight risk, so have you tried asking what he's wanting down deep?

[slatyb]

It doesn't matter what it means. How do you feel about it?

[Raidernation01]

I do that with women but I don't want to have sex with. I will let him suck my dick though.

[Seangreen]

Well that's not a good sign if you really think about it it's not

[Yourfriend2021]

If he likes you he would want to.

[jahaims]

He is selfish and is using you

[boobliker]

the mouth has a tongue the pussy has not.

[Tj87479]

Maybe he doesn’t believe sex before marriage.

[ojmetal]

Are you a heavier gal?

[Asker]

I'm a petite woman.

[ojmetal]

Maybe u r really good at it then

[Nigjt]

Hello since u are not a heavey girl an ur looking pretty Damn good I'd think it must be her love's ur head game to the fullest so just got him to give u ur Dick that u want or don't give up any more head until he does.
God Bless

[Steve1071]

Have you talked with him about this issue? Personally if I was you I wouldn’t do anything for him until he explained why he won’t be physically and satisfy your sexual needs and wants.

[Pterodon]

Closet queen

[Asker]

He is nobody of the kind.

[Pterodon]

Then you tell us why he doesn’t want your pussy

[PeterSmith1983]

It means he likes oral sex a lot

[Honestguyopen]

It means he is selfish and only concerned with what he wants. You have needs and he should respect that

[emperor90]

He wants u to give blow jobs

[Hellraiser1984]

Make him do it first. Then if he's respectful about the sex talk about it but you get head first. And BJ's should be a once a week or month thing. He gets it too much then he's just using you.

[Zygum]

He may be having other girlfriend to fuck

[Slim57]

he's not ready yet