What does it mean if my boyfriend wants to do threesome with me?

My boyfriend wants to have threesome with me but I don’t want to and the thought of it makes me feel sick. Does that mean he’s likely to cheat if he didn’t get to do it with me? Does he even really love me even if he wants to do it? Can a relationship even survive from that? Shit why is threesome even a thing -_-
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  • if you have said you do not want it and he still pursues it. it means he has little respect for you

  • With another girl? I think he's just being an idiot.
    Well, he wouldn't cheat on you, most likely, since his fantasy is having you and another girl.
    If he is just lusting after another girl, then you should be worried.
    And no, i think 3somes will fuck relationshios up, and I don't know what idiot made it a thing either.
    Dont give into trying it.

  • It's okay to want a threesome, but if you told him that you don't want it he should stop asking. There's no reason that he won't love you if he wants a threesome. Be careful and watch for more red flags

    • Can you give me some red flags to watch? I love him to death but the thought of it is just a turn off to me.

    • Being jealous overall, not trusting, lying...

  • No idea. I never have wanted a threesome. I think it's time to move on.

  • I dont think he see it this way unless he specified someone he just thinks a threesome is the end all be all of sex this probably doesn't have to do with not getting enough pleasure from you it might even be some what of a trophy in his eyes

  • He is a perfect brazen faced guy who sees u as his toy. He is not in real relationship with u. I bet it.

  • Leave him pronto

  • He's just young

  • He wants to be adventurous and bring you along.

    • I guess i feel like I’m in a rick and morty adventure since this thing is crazy like that show.

  • Its his fantacy. He should not do if you dont like. Even I like to have with wife n a girl but before that I will make her interested on this...

  • If you've done them before him you better do it for hi,. A friend of mine found his fiancé had a threesome with two guys before he met her and
    they had told each other about their sexual past, but didn't tell him this. She hasn't wanted to get wild or experiement. He blasted and she had no problem doing it with her ex and she asked what she could do to make it right. He told he wanted a list of all their partners ad what they did, He also said she would get wild with him and he demanded a threesome. He said do it or get the fuck out. She finally
    gave in. He was right to demand this, Girls, if you've done sexual things with other guys that you haven't or won't do with you're present guy, that's fucked ! That makes us feel unworthy and we will kick you ass to the curb. And you'd deserve it.

  • You are not good enough

  • Means he wants to have sex with you and another woman at the same time

  • he's proud that he's dating you and he wants to show you off

  • Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis means a lung cancer from breathing volcanis ash

  • It means that he wants to have threesome

  • He trusts you and likes you enough to want to share hus dark desires with you don't snuff out that flame

  • It means he want to fuck another girl

  • It means he wants to fuck with other girls/women. It does not mean that he will cheat on you.

    But definitely nothing to do with love: he loves you.

    • If he loves me then why the hell would he consider fucking another girl in front of me?

    • Well... for us men, love and sex are different things. The sometimes intertwine (making love), but a guy definitely can love one woman and fuck another.

  • He ain't serious about you...

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