Guys, what does sexual submission mean for men?

I've never had sex or done anything more sexual than a hug, but I'm seeing a guy who says he prefers to be submissive. The two of us are starting to have conversations regarding sex, but I'm curious about what a submissive man would like in bed. I know my guy is on the kinky side of things and I'm open to the idea, but given my virginity I want to ease into it. So I'm curious, what does it mean for a man to consider himself submissive? Where does he derive his pleasure? Is it kink or bust?
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  • he wants you to take control.. do whatever you find pleasing..

  • A submissive guy is one who will do anything you tell him to do. So if you said kiss my toes he would, or if you told him suck my nipples he would. It puts you in total control of hat he does with out question. So think of a teacher telling her student what to do and not get any back talk.

  • it means u control what happens sexually and u use him to get u off

  • We love to do what ever pleases and pleasures her. To the point of fullffillment and beyond extract and the toe curling big O.

  • He want you to bend him over and YOU do the pounding.

  • you better be read for this. : inclined or ready to submit or yield to the authority of another; unresistingly or humbly obedient: submissive servants. marked by or indicating submission or an instance of yielding to the authority of anothe

  • maybe he is into ballbusting or chasity if he is extreme

  • He would for instance, probably find it very hot not to be allowed to have sex with you except through cunnilingus, for example.

  • Depends on the severity. Either he just likes it when you have control of the situation, or he likes it when you knock him down and make him your bitch. :P

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