What is going on with these two girls at school?

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So I had a crush on two girls we'll call them Emily and Alexis. Both of them were friends and Emily has always acted like she liked me for a while, however I liked Alexis a little bit more. Eventually I tries to talk to Alexis which it didn't go so well and I never talked to her again after that. So about a month later Emily started talking to me it was going well till for about a week until she started ignoring me and her bff looked pissed as fuck at me. So around this time Alexis allegedly broke up with a guy she was dating which I did not know before and now has been staring at me a lot, I've just been ignoring her for the most part. Finally I ended up asking out Emily and after she rejected me when I came back to school Alexis was really pissed off at me

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

Pardon the expansion
You are being Cock blocked by Alexis.
Alexis is stuck up and controlling. She rejected you but figured she could have you as plan B
Now that she broke up with the other she came to collect her plan B aka you
Only thing is you can now see right threw her
Emily likes you and I have no doubt Alexis knows this
She is most like putting pressure on Emily to stay away
Emily is trying to stick the stupid girl code of not dating someone your friend turned down or not dating someone who turn down your friend
Alexis could be playing the other stupid girl code card "never date a guy your friend wants as her own"
This is a bs code because A Alexis turn you down B Emily likes you and if Alexis was really open to sticking to the girl code she would be trying to date you out of respect for Emily... Hence none of those girl code work well. Because it means someone has to deny their feelings
Only girl code I can think of off top of my mind that does make sense is don't date or sleep with your friends current man.
Sadly you and Emily have to short end of the stick.
Luckily there are other girls out there...

Elsa143 · Accepted Answer

Bro come on. It's again that old incident you posted.
Don't you get that they both were mad at you because you liked both of them? They don't trust a guy whose eyes is not for them but for others as well.
That's the reason I rejected a guy because he was crushing on other girls. They thought that if you are capable to like two people at once then what else you're capable of in future?
We don't want someone whom we can't trust.
Nobody would want that unless they're a flirt.

Freija1989 · Answer

It seems Alexis wants you now, probably as other people say, she kept you as plan B and Emily doesn ' t want to interfere probably.

I don ' t know how could you get her, if they are close and Alexis doesn ' t want her to. I mean, by what you said it looks like you would come hard between the two of them and if she values the friendship more she won ' t accept you.

nandinikhaneja · Answer

wow both these girls are acting weird! I would say if you feel like talking to them for the sake of your friendship, then talk to them otherwise they both are acting like selfish people! You really deserve much better I would say! You deserve someone who actually give shit about you, not people like these who ate ignoring you, rejecting you!

ShyKI · Answer

You gotta think about your relationship with both of them deeply. What I'm getting here is Alexis is holding some kind of grudge against you, and she doesn't want Emily being affiliated with you because of it. Somewhere along this line you did something to trigger her (Alexis). I don't know what it is though, that's up to you to figure out. Or you could just always ask instead of ignoring her and making it worse.

lucky840 · Answer

Bff girl friends can be crude to not only one another and still be BFFL but kinda messed up with dudes that one or both. (maybe kinda sorta not really but really likes.. like LIKE, likes, like, omg becky💅) if ya know what I mean. I'd say ditch em both you can do better 😉😉

MamuCandy · Answer

Alexis probably though she would get a shot with you after she breaks up with her boyfriend. When alecis heard that you asked emily (her friend) she got jalousy and told emily that you asked her first, wich made emily mad and to ignore you.

Maybe that is how it went

yellowph · Answer

mostly friends don't like the way when a giy likes them, literally for dating

bakingperfectionist · Answer

They're both acting really weird. Having said that, I wouldn't want to date a guy who also had the hots for my friend; its super weird. Maybe drop both and just go for a more simple arrangement where you only ask one of the girls in a group out.

emerald_17 · Answer

Yeah just tell Alexis that u don't wanna date her because of her boyfriend so u asked out Emily
But u actually like Alexis. Wrote her a note , and tell her u had the impression she didn't like u like that. And u actually really like her. But couldn't be upfront about it because she was in a relationship.

Niharika13 · Answer

So u have crush on two girls simultaneously and also these girls are frnds... Noww.. The point is what is going on with these two can only be found out by talking to these girls only.. how anyone else can give their fake opinion lols on what is happening with them 😂😂

princessde · Answer

So Alexis said Emily that she has crush on you. Simple lol.

XxoxX · Answer

Why do I get the impression that if all went well it wouldn’t have mattered who you ended up with. They may have caught onto this too lol.

But honestly sounds like Alexis got hurt. Em may have rejected you because Alexis already had feelings for you... Only one way to know for sure.

nathalie0912 · Answer

highschool has so much drama rather not date in highschool

Anonymous · Answer

What's going on is that you're pursing two girls at the same time, it's here there's the problem...

What is going on with these two girls at school?

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