What is your #1 HOT BUTTON in terms of what you look for in a relationship?
laurieluvsitMaster
HOT BUTTON DEFINITION: What you are most highly charged over when you find or see it; What turns you on the most and fits your needs and personality style?
A. LOOKS! I have to have a HOT LOOKING partner, above the average, more than anything else!
Vote A
B. INTELLEGENCE! I want someone that will challenge my intellect! I need to have a really smart person around me to feel complete.
Vote B
C. WEALTH! Fiancial Security is most important, than I look for the other things I want in that person once I know that part is out of the way. Just being honest
Vote C
D. IMPORTANT PERSON! I need someone like a celebrity, famous or important person in life. I'm just not made for "Run-Of-The-Mill" types
Vote D
E. ORDINARY! I just want an ordinary, every day type person, they don't have to be rich or famous, super smart or the most handsome or beautiful person around, just a really nice good loyal honest person is my HOT BUTTON!
Vote E
F. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Hot Button Relationship Types" survey
Physically attractive to me (this in no way means she has to be a 9 or 10 - just not a 2 or 3).
I'd rather be single than to compromise on these issues. I'm happy to support my partner, and we all have bad days, but I don't want a girl who brings me no joy to be around or who is constantly and eternally having emotional crises and breakdowns. No amount of physical beauty can make up for that (for more than a night or two, anyway).
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jemismynameXper 5
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ohhh, i only go for girls who are verrrry freaking insane! like, the crazier the better. most of my girlfriends have been at least considered "weird," a few have visited a mental hospital... yeah... i don't really go for "normal" girls.
helps if they are drop dead gorgeous... but i prefer a girl with a good/fun personality and interesting conversation, to a boring chick with conventional beauty. Also, it helps if a girl is both a gamer/likes anime AND into nature.
(yeah, i'm picky)
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jemismyname
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jennifer_bloomMaster
+1 y
The most important thing for me in a guy is that he doesn't get angry and doesn't yell and doesn't become impatient when his expectations are not met - I've met very very very religious and humble guys who did not have this patience quality - I've met complete jerks who were patient as hell with their lovers
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HerLucidNightt
+1 y
Oh that's a really good one! A level head is huge.
jennifer_bloom
+1 y
@HerLucidNightt Yes very important to me
HerLucidNighttXper 6
+1 y
Intelligence is so sexy. This man on Reddit (in my professional field) was doing an "Ask Me Anything" and he said that Friday was his intellectual day where he'd read about challenging things or watch something that feeds his mind and i about fell in love with him.
Wow! ... the Gold Star Girl comes through with the perfect opinion again!! ... lol :)
Brainsbeforebeauty
+1 y
Lol more like golden girls age 🤣🤣
laurieluvsit
+1 y
No, I loved the Golden Girls, I wish they had an updated version of it, I think it would be a big hit! Two Broke Girls is the closed thing now for an all girls show having that much humor I think.
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Brainsbeforebeauty
+1 y
Yeah the golden girls was funny
DizzyDesiiEditor
+1 y
Looks
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RegmorusYoda
+1 y
If the question is formulated this way, my answer is probaly SPIRITUALITY or PERSONALITY STRENGTH (ideally they are the same).
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1strangerGuru
+1 y
Ordinary Laurie, because I'm ordinary too.
Really nice good loyal honest fun and someone who I can talk to without getting bored.
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1stranger
+1 y
Plus thanks for the definition 😘
laurieluvsit
+1 y
YES! Love it! :)
katjmjXper 7
+1 y
I think among the choices, I get attracted to the ordinary as it means I see something in him that not many people can. From there I could discover his qualities and skills over time. It would be like opening a box of chocolates
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ZackBanGuru
+1 y
It's the crazy that does it for me. I like unusal girls who have no problem going places and doing things. Getting in trouble having a thrilling adventure and all that. I'm not a fan of a forced gimmick of a relationship where we both pretend to be so perfect and calm and composed. I like an authentic one.
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AN1995Xper 5
+1 y
Ordinary. Or intelligent.
Fun out going,
witty,
can be a little slutty (thats ok too)
feminine, fashionable, etc...
Too Many to list but you get my drift...
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laurieluvsit
+1 y
Yes! I get it, great opinion too!
AN1995
+1 y
Lol agreed
JjpayneEditor
+1 y
E. I want an ordinary extremely fun nerd. Someone that's not ashamed to go cosplay at comic con :)
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_gigi18Xper 5
+1 y
If I had to pick one thing it would be reading. I love a person who reads. Reading to eachother, having debates, great book recommendations, you can spend hours looking at books and not get bored. You can chill in silence and read a book almost anywhere.
Just give me names of one book from each category you think is best so far
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_gigi18
+1 y
Eleanor and Park (romance), I haven't read enough Philosophy to have a good understanding but Sophie's world has been recommended by trusted people. The Sociology Book Big Ideas Simply explained. The Conquest of bread by Peter Kroptkin it's a bit old 1892 so some views are outdated. It was a present to a friend and I read a few chapters. I couldn't put it down but I didn't finish it. Animal farm, 1984, A clockwork orange, The fountain head. I might not completely agree with their political views but they make for interesting reads. In cold blood Truman Capote. The Bat Joe Nesbo. Gone Girl, Ten Types of human and Talking with psychopaths (psychology) The Bat, The rise and fall of the third Reich, Gulivers travels Jonathan Swift, oliver twist charles Dickens Frankenstein Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde, Jane Eyre. I'm not sure what the book type is called but when you read books and at the bottom of each section you have a choice to make then you flip to that page. I liked Leila Johnston Enemy of Chaos.
_gigi18
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* @Aakash_Hangargi
Aakash_Hangargi
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This is the secret of your wisenesz💃🎉nice👍👌thanks for sharing
arabgoddessYoda
+1 y
Soul connection is the ultimate
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laurieluvsit
+1 y
Yes! :)
BlondeGoneWildGuru
+1 y
Confidence makes me weak
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Jamie05rhs
+1 y
I know. But some of us choose not to display confidence, because we don't want to make you weak; we want to make you Strong!
Finchie40Master
+1 y
Definitely attractive but has to have a great personality and a good heart , that’s what makes her hotter
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Goma15Xper 5
+1 y
A lot of things, but the most important ones off the top of my head are probably: Someone who supports me, someone who I can be weird with (and myself with) and makes me feel good about myself. And someone I can talk things out with if we have problems and come to a compromise that makes us both happier.
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cunnilinguistXper 6
+1 y
Where is the "squirter" option?
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Gina96Xper 5
+1 y
A combination of B (intelligence) E (ordinary) & F (other, which for me would be sense of humor) I don't care if they're an important person and I don't care about their money, I have my own 😁
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BeRealUXper 4
+1 y
When I meet someone who understands my passion and interests and also has the same kinks/fetishes we usually hit it off with a fiery blaze
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advicecreamXper 4
+1 y
Intelligence. And a sense of humor. But I think that comes with intelligence...:)
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ariadneRGuru
+1 y
B and E, I need to be able to have a conversation with you, laugh, debate everything.
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