What makes a women bad in bed?

Question

I never understood this

PositiveFlight · Accepted Answer

In my opinion nothing makes a woman bad in bed. Other than maybe perhaps she just doesn’t want to be there in bed 😂

I constantly hear things on this website about what makes someone good at sex and all of these other ideas. The truth of it is that someone who honestly just wants to share love and intimacy and tries their best with an honest heart about it is what makes for the very best in bed. There is no contest, and every woman I have ever been with is very different. But different is good and unique to each woman. The key to being good in bed whether it be a man or a woman is to just be selfless and come to bed with a lot of love to give. I don’t go to bed with a woman wondering how she will perform or what she can do for me. I go to bed rather with a woman thinking what can I do to show her how much I love her, make her feel safe, make her feel good and climax, and help her know that in the end I will love her even that much more.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

The main and most common reason would be a lack of enthusiasm on her part. The biggest thing that makes a woman great in bed is when she really enjoys having sex with you.

The second most common reason is if she's got tons of limitations and isn't open-minded or adventurous at all.

And the last common reason - and this isn't all that common - is if she's just completely uncoordinated, to the point where she can't get a rhythm during BJs, or moves in the wrong direction or with the wrong rhythm during sex. This isn't uncommon with virgins or girls with very little experience, but nearly all girls quickly figure these things out and it's fine. A small few just never seem to get it.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

When a woman lays there and does nothing, doesn't want to try different positions, and doesn't communicate. I've only been with one girl like this luckily, but the sex wasn't good at all

ohsheeT · Answer

I don't think there is any such thing I mean I hear a lot of guys saying that this girl sucked in bed and I just have to laugh and say well that just means you sucked because you had that moment right there to make it the best thing possible and you didn't do it so maybe it's you this really sucks not her

inhua · Answer

not wanting to be there. skills don't matter that much for a woman as for a man

richardcory · Answer

I think the worst think is a lack of true desire. Good sex is when both people are both enjoying it and really enjoying pleasing their partners.

The other negative is someone who gets judgmental "why do you want that?". Its fine to say "no" but not to judge

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Being absent...👀?

TheThingALing · Answer

I rarely hear guys saying someone bad it bed, instead, they don't realize it but some will expose themselves in not best light because they'll claim she lacked any enthusiasm, starfishing, or any of the other terms signifying her lack of interest

Summeroflove · Answer

Maybe it shouldn’t all be about sex

Simslover92 · Answer

Starfish as my boyfriend says.

Avicenna · Answer

Unenthusiastic, just lays there

TheMadLad · Answer

I mean it’s our job to do everything, So Don’t think there is such thing as a woman being bad in bed. The only thing would be is because she’s not motivated enough or isn’t showing attraction.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Lack of participation, lack of communication, nervousness, general lack of confidence. Basically, if the woman is in her own head, instead of in the moment; the sex will be bland.

Sparkie460 · Answer

When she doesn't do anything to please the guy she's with and just lays there like a dead fish. She has to be a giver and a receiver

hbg84 · Answer

Lack of enthusiasm, just laying there taking it, just being overly lazy in bed.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I never understood it either! LOL. If she's in my bed, everything is GOOD! 😃👍

dudeinohio · Answer

Just lays there. Makes no sound or movement. Not adventurous

kellytheman · Answer

She needs to do some work or be somewhat interactive and vocal. The worse thing a woman can do to a man is just lay there making no noise then ask if we cum yet.