I enjoy taking control but I think when I’m caught off guard it’s so fucking sexy when a chick controls the situation.
SITUATION:
Sexually, I was having sex with a chick and I always have cum inside her but this time I pulled out. She was caught off guard in disappointment. I forgot what she yelled at me it she pulled my penis inside her, I was so surprised and I came so hard again. It’s probably the best orgasm or best sets of orgasm I’ve ever had.
ANALYSIS:
Being in control as a man is fun. And the benefits are knowing what to do to make myself cum. This is the “minimum mark”. Even after that orgasm If I were to put my penis inside her to try to orgasm it won’t happen. Again I think the nerves can predict it like it can predict pleasure and pain. But when I wasn’t in control I can’t easily predict what she was going to do. I think my nerves and my brain wasn’t on guard and it was exciting... so exciting I orgasmed again.
Conclusion, having orgasms is wonderful. And probably the best ones are the ones you cannot predict.
I personally prefer a more sexually aggressive brother
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I personally prefer cumming fast inside a human Vagina
Definitely switch between both for me. I think i need two girlfriends lol, one who is sweet and submissive and follows my every command and gets on her knees for her master, and another who's an assertive, sexually confident femme fatale who gives me spankings if i misbehave 🤣 variety is spice of life after all!
Re your update @laurieluvsit, you're absolutely right that more men are left unsatisfied because of women not wanting to switch roles as much. Also i think men need to be more vocal to their partners about wanting to switch roles more, and women need to see there's nothing shameful in a man wanting to "submit" in bedroom now and then
Yes, I am hearing that loud and clear from many guys :)
I'm a switch and bi
I'm way more dominant with women
I love to play submissive with men
But when I'm submissive with men, I'm still kind of assertive, very vocal.
I could dominate with men a little bit but not that much, not my thing. Ilike to play around sometimes though - tie him up, blindfold him and play with his senses, etc. But going too far doesn't appeal to me with men for whatever reason
But with other women? I'm in charge and she's my bitch, end of story. Get on your knees and do what the fuck I tell you. lolol It's a lot of fun, won't lie :)
I love it! :)
I like those illustrations Laurie!
I like how you turned this
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I know, I just love erotic art like the post I did that you replied to earlier today! Thank you for this contribution to this post! I'm trying not to get too carried away so the post doesn't get pulled by GAG... lol
No "critical" private parts are showing. Your posts are fine.
@laurieluvsit: Thank you for the MHGirl pick. :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Most the guys i know either wanna take turns or they wanna be the dom all the time. Thats how i like it. I could never be with a guy who was submissive in bed all the time. Submissive outside of the bedroom, sure. But not in the bedroom
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Despite all their sexual bravado if you come on too assertive you scare most guys off. Men prefer girls who are responsive rather than assertive. They're starved of postive feedback and lap up any you give them. All pussy feels the same. its how we react to that pounding that determines if we're a good fuck or not.
Some guys really like to be completely submissive sometimes hahaha
During sex, I prefer a woman who likes to be thoroughly fucked - bent, positioned, rolled over, lifted, and used. But I love letting her take charge and use me, as well. When it comes to foreplay, I like a woman who knows how to titillate my entire body slowly and skillfully until I hyperventilate. All that is required are her lips, tongue and fingers. But I like to do that to her, as well. I want to give her an unceasing, out of body, orgasmic experience.
Guys would love a sexually assertive girl. Especially these days, lots of guys are more reluctant to be assertive because they worry they might not like it/seen as sexual harassment. The guys that can't read it at least
as for me, I can be mostly dominant once I'm in a relationship, but I would like to switch it up too ever so often
I'd say 60 40 in my favor of taking the lead.
I do enjoy dominance but not to the point where I'm doing everything and she's practically a corps. Here wrestling me for control helps asset the fact that she wants me just as i want her.
From my experiences, most women like to be submissive all the time. Which is fine.
However, I like to switch it up and let her to take the lead now and then, also to learn what her fantasies and thoughts are for when we are in bed. It's good to know how your partner thinks.
I went with option C.
I've never actually had sex before, so I'm just going by what sounds most sexually appealing to me and when I do think about sex, I mostly think about a woman sexually dominating, it just sounds so hot to me.
I do sometimes fantasize about being the dominant one, but no where near as much as I fantasize about a woman dominating, so for the most part, I think I'd be sexually submissive.
I prefer it because when it comes to consent, it makes me feel more comfortable that way
I'm not sure what cowgirl style is but I will be her cowboy :)
Cowgirl is girl on top riding her guy giving her complete control :)
Yeah, that sounds good! I'm her horse 😂
I am sexually submissive so i want a dominant partner. Can't stand submissive guy.
Amen to that :)
C we switch, some times we switch at the same session and some times we roll dice 🎲 (we have a special dice for the thang) 😂
I prefer both , I lmainly like a girl to be submissive to me. But I also like if she dominates me as well at times , it just shows we are both really into each other , it’s better then being one sided, usually one sided leaves the other with a question mark on their head on whether they are really into you or not , so doing both keeps you both feeling secure
It's not just about positions, but attitude- A woman who knows what she wants sexually and just takes me... OMG schwing!
For instance, most men don't know how to give a girl good oral. Most women don't have the heart to tell him. I had a dominant woman teach me how to please her orally. It was amazing for both of us - she got what she wanted and I learned not just how she worked, but the rewards that came back to me were multiplied 10 times over.
Great survey and great illustrations :) I'm bi but I went with the top of the survey as my thoughts would be the same... I selected A but I could have also selected C - but it's more like a 80/20 on the switch front so I stuck with A if that makes sense...
To your update, a position like cowgirl (and many others) can be done no matter which of the two are being the assertive one.
Thinking about this... who initiates the sex might not necessarily be the assertive one once things get started. She might say "I want to f..." and then I'd take the lead from there.
Ok.. rambling over... fun survey :)
I love assertive women in bed, but assertive doesn’t mean she is taking the lead. Sure, it can mean one of us is pushing the other against the wall and “taking”... but not taking the lead. There is no dominate submissive in my sex. We are both aggressive/assertive individuals enjoying each other. Especially since we both share in the same desired outcome.
initiating sex is a form of taking the lead so is doing the majority of the work. there are times i want her yo take the lead in these 2 senses but otherwise am a dominant only.
Going off my instincts here, as I don't have the 'sexperience' yet, I want a woman who wants it as much as I do. And this would usually take the form of me being the initiater, but she is perfectly willing to initiate herself sometimes.
Overall, I want our sexual relationship to matter a lot to her. The finer details we can work out as we go
I'm a switch. So I like being the dominant and the submissive, but I lean more towards the dominant side (so I prefer being the dominant 70% of the time and being the submissive 30% of the time).
I still remember the first time I encountered an assertive woman in the bedroom. It was such a turn on for her to push me onto the bed, strip me and precede to tease me before going down on me. We'd trade off during sex, not planned or anything, but it was nice. Almost animal like. So much better than the submissive women I had been with who laid there like dead fish.
Some if the time is cool with me. That way I can see when she takes the lead more of what she likes and how she likes it for future sexual adventures between her and I 😁
You have hit the nail on the head with the update. Get with it ladies.😁
Yes, I thought so after seeing the stats but wasn't sure before :)
No experience, but I’m guessing C.
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