What percentage of guys prefer a sexually assertive girl?

I want to take this survey to see if my instincts are on track.

GUYS: Do you prefer a girl who will take the lead all, or some, of the time? ... or do you always want to dominate in your sexual activities?

GIRLS: What is your 'sexperience' with guys, do they want you to take over in bed or do they prefer to dominate you? ... what do you prefer?

This survey can apply to "same sex" couples as well :)

You can comment, or at least take the survey so we can get some consensus as to the percentages... PLEASE!
What percentage of guys prefer a sexually assertive girl?
What percentage of guys prefer a sexually assertive girl?
A. I like to take the lead and be more dominant in bed
Vote A
What percentage of guys prefer a sexually assertive girl?
B. I definitely prefer it when I can be the submissive one sexually
Vote B
What percentage of guys prefer a sexually assertive girl?
C. I like to switch off and take the lead some of the time and let him, or her, take the lead other times
Vote C
What percentage of guys prefer a sexually assertive girl?
D. I have a same sex partner and I prefer to be the dominant one and have my partner submit to me
Vote D
What percentage of guys prefer a sexually assertive girl?
E. I have a same sex partner and I am the submissive one and let my partner take the lead
Vote E
What percentage of guys prefer a sexually assertive girl?
F. I have a same sex partner and we are equal sexually or switch off
Vote F
What percentage of guys prefer a sexually assertive girl?
G. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Who's More Assertive in Bed" survey
Vote G
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
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So far 2/3 of guys like to be dominant some of the time but like the girl to be assertive as well some of the time and only 1/3 of the girls are saying that so half the guys, or half the time, the guys are being disappointed. It seems we need to get with it and take some lessons in cowgirl style or more aggressive sexual positions in order to keep our guys happy... am I close guys? :)
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  • I’m not particularly a switch or sub. I’m more on the dominant side. But I do like a woman that will go after what she wants... even if it comes to showing up naked at the front down when I get home wanting me to eat her.. or pushing my stuff to floor dropping my pants and bending over or giving a BJ. Those are things that I really enjoy.. where I don’t have to initiate it all the time.

  • I don't click on polls, but I don't think I'd have anything to do with you. :) No offence. :)

    • The "No offense" doesn't go with your statement, I am sorry to see Mr CWC. Being mean and rude is offensive. But I will give you the benefit of the doubt... some mothers just don't teach their children proper etiquette.

    • Okay, then fine. Erase the "no offence." I wouldn't have a damn thing to do with you. Period.

  • I've turned down sex in the past on several occasions multiple partners I never instigate sexual activity in other words I was let the girl let me know when she's ready and what she wants I never impose myself

  • I prefer when she is assertive at times, but sometimes I like to go wild as well. So, switch.
    Girls often assume I will always be the dominant one because of my height and looks, but it's all the better if they throw in some spice, otherwise I'll feel like a broken record.

  • Mostly i am dominant but i do like to switch sometimew

  • It's a 50/50 thing Laurie. At times I want her to take control but most of the time, I'm beating that shit up!

  • I prefer to be in control but enjoy her on the edge of out of control!

  • I like it when girls who want it, get it. If she wants to get fucked she initiates.

  • I Prefer my Girl to be perfectly honest as Sexually Aggressive as I Am to be perfectly honest

  • I like to switch so I chose C

    • Never would have guessed, I thought you are totally dominate :)

    • Sometimes I like for the girl to take charge, all depends on the girl

    • Yes you are right. I absolutely love Cowgirl!

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  • How in the hell am I going to know that unless I do a pole? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I said pole 🤣🤣🤣 I love a woman when she comes up and just takes it from me 😁🤣

    • I guess it just comes down to what mood I'm in. But conservatively saying I would say 50/50 LOL I like to take control but I also like it when my partner takes control also

  • I tend to prefer a sexually dominant woman who is kinky enough too, I consider myself switch though and flexible and this is only when it comes to sex, outside the bedroom I'm totally dominant.

  • Yeah it can be either or. Like Jimmy Buffett said sometimes I feel soft and cuddly and sometimes I dont

  • Switch

  • I would like to switch every time.

  • All depends on the mood, who's the hornyest and such I suppose. But i do like a women that won't just lay there n expect to be a lazy lover..

    • Omg lol.

  • i do mainly due to being way to shy

  • Even though I'm a virgin, but I wouldn't mind if a potential girlfriend of mine was taller or stronger. I like the idea of being the one riding on-top with piggyback rides. Sitting in the girl's lap would be a turn on. I guess you can consider I have some submissive tendencies, but otherwise like mentally I am closer to the traditional role for my gender. And I still like that.

  • Prolly most... cause then they know she is gonna put out

  • ❕ nothing feels better you and your partner fulfilling each other's sexual desire.
    And you can't know if she feels what you give her, Unless when you to let her at some times take u up into her wrath.
    And the more you keep on switching sides on who is to be in control, is the more you will be happy in the sexuality affairs.
    It gives you time to learn out new things, And it also makes you know about what your partner loves n craves for. So love would like the swapping.

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