What percentage of people you’ve slept with have been ‘good in bed’ ?

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Curious… seems like you all practise sex on each other a lot more often these days 😂😂 does practice make perfect 🤔.

YourFutureEx · Accepted Answer

"What percentage of people you’ve slept with have been ‘good in bed’ ?"

50% of the women are deadfish. They're like "I'll just lie there and you do whatever you want". They'll probably get better if they're not drunk, if they're raised well, and/or they're with you in a long term relationship where they are emotionally very attached to you. But their natural skill will be a limiting factor. They're the ones that I'd say have room for improvement. They're the ones that will make you realize the difference between porn and real life sex.

20% of the women are terrible. They're inflexible, (unnecessarily) sensitive, unfriendly, moody, prudish, cheaters and/or gold diggers. They're the ones that will sue you and give you erectile dysfunction and depression.

15% are learners. Not only they are what you'd call "good in bed", but they're willing to get better. They perform how you'd expect from a woman. I wish to land a wife of this category (if not the next category that I'm going to mention).

15% are Aphrodite. You'll have to do your absolute best and make them worship you in bed. And behind their back, you worship them because you've found rare gem. They perform like you couldn't even imagine. You have to be very lucky to find (& get with) them.

"does practice make perfect 🤔"

Not lucky enough to be with someone for long term. I created my username as a joke, but it became a reality of my life. But as I mentioned earlier, if both of you are mature and emotionally connected, improvement will most likely happen and when you plateau, you won't ask for more as there will be countless of the other things that you'll appreciate about them.

John1972 · Accepted Answer

There is a Mel Brooks quote that has been around for ages. Mel Brooks once said, "Sex is like Pizza, even when it's bad it's still pretty good." I'm sure all can agree with that to some extent. Its in the climax that this rings true. The fumbling through process of getting to that point is where things tend to be a bit questionable. I find that sex is good but it becomes great when you have taken the time to learn a bit about someone. When a couple has sex for the first time it is exciting during the lead up to it but at the moment of doing the deed the fact that you know nothing about this person's body, what their likes and dislikes are, where they like to be kissed our touched, are they expecting sensual or do they go more for mount up slap my ass grab a handful of hair and ride me cowboy? You want to know what really mind blowing leg quivering fucking is then learn all there is about a partners body how to touch them and where to touch them. Listen to their subconscious signals that are given off by their breathing and little shifts of the body. Find what they like the most and merge it with what you like the most and when you do that its absoulty fucking amazing each and every time you get to do this dance together. But as with everything you can't have up without down or day without night so I'll have to admit that just meeting someone you know nothing about all you know is that there is instant sexual connection and you find yourselves in the backroom of a restaurant ripping cloths off and almost trying to devour each others flesh, well damn that is pretty fucking great as well.

Kori1236 · Accepted Answer

I mean if I finish I’m happy lol. But I’ve only had one really bad partner (friends with benefits) he couldn’t follow directions no matter how you explained them to him or directed/showed him and he just wasn’t skilled in bed. He said no one’s ever complained before but every relationship he was in ended with him being cheated on so I feel like there’s something lacking in his performance and he dared shit people.

481632 · Accepted Answer

Maybe it's different for guys. Just because I got off doesn't necessarily mean the sex was good. Just because I didn't get off doesn't mean the sex was bad. I can honestly say that only 2 of my partners have ever been consistently good in bed. So that's like... 1%?

Talldutchie · Answer

Not sure dear, but judging by your pic I am slightly better than you! Though I find so many men bad, I might be bad too myself lol!

Carolus · Answer

2%. In my experience, it’s only women who are open to casual sex that are good in bed because they seek enjoyment and open to exploration and are actually disappointed when a man doesn’t deliver (to me, a good woman in bed guides a man on body parts / positions or angle where she gets more stimulated). The other lot of women who are good in bed are well paid whores because they are working on you and want you to come back with the bag. Most other women behave “sacred” not open to exploration, making you beg for the pussy, seek a million promises just to lay there dead, like a sack of potatoes, and others making fucking fake moans as you doing it all alone.

katiesmuff · Answer

It's been well over 70%

Lliam · Answer

When I was around 37, I met a 30 year old lady and we wound up living together for over a year. She set the benchmark. Gold medal, hands down. She taught me about monumental sex.
In comparison, all my previous lovers were average. In fact, looking back, 'I' was average before I met her. But, OMG, she turned me into a sex guru. She was hypersexual, sensual and orgasmic, and made me feel like a sex god.
In all honesty, she represented less than 15% of my girlfriends and less than 9% of all the girls I ever had sex with.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Less than half. The others were either too inhibited or not enthusiastic, like they were having sex begrudgingly.

MCheetah · Answer

I'd say 10% or less. Most people in bed are selfish lovers, but I've never been that. (I don't have a large enough penis to be selfish in bed, if I wanted to.) Option C.

RobT312 · Answer

In my experience most fall in the good category. It’s sex, how can u complain! Only a very few have been bad , and u always remember the very great times

nolabels · Answer

20% and that's being a bit generous. Whether due to inhibition or pure laziness, most of my sexual partners left much to be desired.

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

Very rarely do I consider someone bad in bed. The only one in recent memory that was less than ideal was a girl who was completely inexperienced (virgin), had autism potentially, and was incredibly awkward when we were together (e. g. held her arms close to her, didn't get into it at all, even though she was the one who asked for sex). We had sex several times, and she never changed, and it made me feel so uncomfortable that I stopped trying.

Another girl who I matched with on Tinder half a dozen times finally met up, and had sex with me, but I don't know if it was me being tired, or what, but she came and I didn't. I still enjoyed it tho.

Every other time I'd say the sex was good, because sex is good I don't know.

sunflower00 · Answer

25%. To be fair I’m not the best at it either

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Every single one of them were already good in bed.  I enhanced them and bred them into even more desirable studs! ;)

rachel776 · Answer

no one's really been bad so 🤷‍♀️ there are some meh ones but i'm sure i'm meh sometimes too

SkipPerk · Answer

Most women were bad to start, and got better as we got to know each other. I have had very few good first times with women, and all my best sexual experiences were with women who know me.

the worst thing is when women just lie there, their eyes bulging out of their head each time it goes in. Oddly, I have had great sex with women I did not see for ages. After I got divorced, a few old female friends cheered me up. One woman I had known in high school. She visited me in college (had not seen her in three years, great sex). I did not see her again for over a decade, but we had great sex in the car right after dinner.

I think much of what makes sex good is comfort level and knowing what each other want. That said, there does seem to be a special match sometimes where the sex is life-changing.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Good can be kinda subjective. Like there's women who are bad in bed no doubt. Like this one girl who I could never match her rhythm or this other one who used her teeth for bj's or another who always insisted on riding cowgirl, but she had bad knees (which now that I think about it probably should have been a red flag) so it was a pain in the ass to get in position with her and then to change position after the 30 seconds of cowgirl.

Then there's women who have or lack certain preferences which is more subjective. Like I do not enjoy sex with girls who want only the most plain, vanilla sex always every time. To me, that's for when you're in a serious relationship.

I had one girl who told me she always wanted to make Anime girl noises while getting piped, I said "fuck it, why not" the anime moans were much louder and evocative than expected. I almost would have rather never heard of this kink.

I guess this is just a really long and roundabout way of saying, I don't think I know how to answer that question. Probably most have been good. 70% feels a little high though.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Most have been average, some have been bad and some have been good to great.  I'd say average/bad and good/great 60/40 if I had to guess.

leonidas84 · Answer

Hard to say a percentage. Depends on different factors and parts of the experience.

Dinklex3 · Answer

100%? Lmao. I'm terrible though. I feel sorry for the men that end up with me 😂

NathanDavis · Answer

100%

but, I've only been in exclusive and committed relationships with four girlfriends...

and all of those went on for a few years so in my case practice made it from good to greatness and even FTW!! lol...

Finchie40 · Answer

I honestly feel Sex gets better when you stick to having sex with just one partner , because of the deeper feelings for each other and understanding each other’s wants ,

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Hahaha! Twenty percent, and i never actually slept with one. She came over, we’d have great sex and she’d leave again. It was heaven on Earth! Ell oh ell!

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