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  • 1) top and foremost: make sure you have enough protection against STD and (if you don't want kid) pregnancy.

    2) among the next critical: be prepared that he'll leave, be it immediately after taking your virginity, or some time down the relationship journey.

    3) pain and blood. If your hymen is still intact, blood is almost certain. Then the pain. It usually exists. And it may feel like "the cut of a razor" (said my SO).

    4) awkwardness. Ya, for real, you have to undress to have sex. And you'll feel awkward, very awkward. Get prepared before entering the bedroom.

    5) "is that all to sex?"
    Ya, after all the hassle and pain and blood, that's all to sex? Yes. That's all.

    6) but don't let it be the last. Make it a lifestyle and you'll find contentment and hopefully happiness in life.

    7) sex is just the mechanical thrusting of his penis in your vagina. Yes, as unromantic as this statement.

    But if you both add feelings and able to "make love", then you'll know what writers meant by entering Paradise.

    To conclude, forget all the fairytale. The heavens will NOT open neither will there be angelic chorus. Possibly only pain and blood and no orgasm if he's also inexperienced. This is the realistic view of sex. But if you persists and learn the art of lovemaking, then you'll find the contentment of life.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Make sure you get lots of foreplay, make sure you are sexually aroused and soaking wet.
    Then I suggest you get on top so you can control how deep you let him inside you and to control any pain there might be.
    Other than that, try to relax and have fun. It can be very enjoyable.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Oh God, not another "How do I lose my virginity?" question. The only thing you need to know is how to spread your legs so wear a skirt and no panties and you are all set. So you won't be asking a "I got pregnant, Help!!" question use protection.

    What should I know before losing my virginity to a guy?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Does he care about you or does he just want to get laid?
    Are you ready for sex...
    Make sure it is the right guy at the right time in the right place and you have discussed birth control first.

    Your thoughts?

  • Make sure he uses protection and have lots of foreplay so your nice and wet.

  • Make sure it's the right guy..

  • Don't lose.

  • It will probably hurt the first few times.

  • Hmm lots of men won't respect you anymore like want to marry you or be serious with you.

  • Find a guy you really like first. And then it won’t be that big of a deal.

  • you gave only "give" it once... be sure he is worth it

  • He's probably just wanting you for sex after he act differently. You probably realise you didn't even like him after a while

  • Losing with right person

  • do you like him and trust him enough to give your v card?

  • 1. That you can get attached to that person.
    2. its going to hurt.
    3. you might bleed or you might not

  • There are some helpful videos by different girls on youtube bout what they wish they knew before losing virginity

  • That we are all full of shit, even the ones telling the truth.