What type of kiss is best for a first kiss?

My first kiss with ex was tounge kiss, I got caught of guard as I never had French kissed before. Had to play along as he shoved his tounge down my throat. Lol.

my second kiss with new guy was a gentle normal kiss three times no tounge.

Peck
Vote A
Tounge kiss ( French kiss) 👅
Vote B
Kiss on cheek 💋
Vote C
Gentle kiss 😘 on lips (no tounge)
Vote D
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Superb Opinion

  • Gentle kiss with no tounge is the best in my opinion. I thought I'd like kissing with tounge before I did it but I'm not that into it. It feels like getting sauce all around your mouth when you're eating or something like that. Because you feel the wetness on your lips and it's not a enjoyable feeling for me. It looks really passionate and fun but yeah I'll stick with dry kisses :P

Most Helpful Guy

  • I think it depends. If you guys are taking things slow and everyone is still a little nervous than more of a prolonged peck is probably right. But if it's a lot of sexual/sentual tension building up over time, then you probably want to start off with pecks and go into frenching.

    But it depends on the mood. Case by case.

Most Helpful Girls

  • My first kiss was tongue kiss as well with my current boyfriend. I had to go along with it as well but he was drunk so I think he just had too much liquid courage lol

  • Fumblie (new word) into "what's my name again?"

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If there is a strong sense of mutual lust, I think most people go for a tonsil examination via French kiss. Otherwise, the safest thing for a first kiss is a simple kiss on the lips, with tongue remaining in their assigned places.

  • When you just lean in and let the mouths do what they gotta do. 🤣 plus hands 🙌. I like unpredictability when it comes to kissing. Before you know it, I’m biting your lips

  • mutually wanted

  • just lips but a few seconds. only lips, as snow white sang.

  • lips but no tongue

  • Eeeh. No tongue on first kiss…. I say slow lip kiss. I usually end with a gentle pull on her upper lip.

  • Firstly a French kiss is just tongue. No lips. Secondly whatever feels right. Our first kiss had some tongue lot of lips and very little oxygen.

  • depends on the couple

    some r adventurous enough to have a french kiss as their first kiss, others want it to be the most simple (peak) or just a gentle kiss then a french kiss once they r comfy enough with it maybe

  • gentle kiss with no tongue.

  • Gentle and peck sounded the same, yet I voted lol last aka Gentle Lips 👄🤣 👀

    • Or a cheek if the two were so awkward 😞 lol 😆

  • Less is more. Neck caress and licking is better than swapping spit. Don't forget the ears! Highly erogenous zone!!

  • First kiss, no tongue 👅

    • Does cheek sound whimpy? I didn't vote cheek lol 😭😆

    • I answered as I answered lol in my answer far above

  • Just a "normal" kiss is a good way to start

  • Gentle kiss, no tongue.

    • @wise4myage right 💕

    • @Jennz6 Yeah, gotta save tongue for down the road, lol.

    • That y he my ex now LOL

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  • That’s a good question…
    Not B. Maybe C.

  • For a first date, a kiss on the cheek is sufficient

  • Tounge down throat

  • Because you aren't sure where the kiss may lead, so being too forward may be a turn-off.

  • Tounge kiss ( French kiss) 👅

  • If left up to me? Tongue kisses! Ohhh fuck I love them haha but I can mix in pecking too : )

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