What would you do if your woman would tell you that she's sexually unsatisfied in the relationship?

I am in that position and my husband isn't the best in bed , which makes me wanna have an affair. That and the fact that I'm still so young and he was my only partner. I have a high sexual drive and I like adventurous experiences when it comes to sex but I don't feel free to explore that entirely with my partner. Guys can get better at that or he's just not the right person for me?

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  • See ya biatch

  • Guys can certainly get better at that, however, there is probably a reason as to why he is not satisfying you in the way you want, and that could have something to do with either himself, or you.

    Firstly, you are asking a complicated question because there may be a lot of reasons as to why you are in that position. For example, perhaps he is having hormonal problems or lacks experience, or maybe you are suggesting things that are extreme or morally reprehensible. So in short, you should provided more details for a good answer.

    Secondly, it is without a doubt wrong and utterly shameful to have an affair with your partner. It may also be dangerous to assume that he may "not be the right person for you" based on one aspect of your relationship that can potentially be improved. You have signed up for marrige, you are not playing boyfriend and girlfriend anymore.

  • Talk to her about it and see if there is a way to fix it.

  • If you're not enjoying the sex what about sex toys?🙂

  • Sounds like you waited until marriage to find this out.

  • Simply put, they won’t know that something is wrong if you don’t tell them. If you want more foreplay, more dirty talk, more touching (or less of something!), let your partner know. Don’t be embarrassed to ask for what you want. Sex is a two-way street, so always remember your pleasure is 50 percent of the fun too.

    Couples sometimes think that once they’re together, the flirtation doesn’t need to continue. Flirt with your partner just like you did on your first date or even kick it up a notch from the norm. Of course, you’re still attracted to your partner, but pretending you’re not totally dating bumps up the attraction just a little bit.

    Sex toys aren’t just meant for alone time! Bringing a sex toy in the bedroom might be able to help you explain to your partner more easily what it is you like or help you learn what that is. It can also be an easy way to spice things up from your norm. Whether it’s a vibe, handcuffs, or something with a remote, there are so many options.

    I hope it helps. Please don't cheat.