What you guys/girls think of degradation and humiliation kink?

Question

I know this is something a lot of people will find offensive. If this offends you, I apologise. Just skip this.

For me there is nothing offensive in sex. To make sex life exciting I think it's good to keep an open mind.

I consider myself as a sub. I like being dominated. The more aggressive and disrespectful the guy is the better I feel. I love being degraded and humiliated.

Do you guys try different things in bed even if it's not normal?

jshm2 · Accepted Answer

Well.. I'll be honest. I've only been to such "events" twice.

First was in a mates party where the game was to gangbang the stripper. I am not fond of partaking in something covered in another mans splooge, so instead paid the fine of buying a round.

The other time was a hookup with a Czech girl in Germany. Didn't mind the sex, but the whipping and uddering equipment she wanted used on her was not my thing.

I am all for trying different. But there are some kinks and fetishes that degrade the soul and the people involved.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

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ManWithThePlan123 · Answer

I personally don't mind. I know it would be weird, but hey why not try new things. Also I don't get how people can't separate the bedroom from the rest of a relationship. Like obviously a girl doesn't want to be dominated in the middle of the street by a stranger.(some do but obviously I'm not talking about them)

1Anon · Answer

I love it! It’s one of my kinks.

Samoht_Sirrom1 · Answer

Have you ever been told to strip naked outside walk down the street and suck a dick outside? If so have you actually done it?

Don-_-Don · Answer

I like being dom and rough as well as my girlfriend likes being a sub, but I don't know if that counts as degrading her and humiliating her. Does it?

kemo56 · Answer

I am very open minded... But, I am not turned on by degrading and humiliating. I can play a role for her, but would rather see how good I can make her feel.

HalfAFig · Answer

It's one of my favourites atm, especially SPH.

_SOARER · Answer

I think it destroys a persons self-esteem. I wouldn't be able to respect a woman who liked those things.
For me I can't separate the sex from other aspects of the relationship. I dont want a woman who likes being abused. Its highly dysfunctional.

wondering_guy · Answer

As long as its agreeable between 2 consenting adults then do what makes you happen, I will admit I've watch porn where women have been degrate, never done it for real though.

Sometimes the role play of these kinds can feel ezilerating

Nalix · Answer

I like being forced to submit, but most degradation is a turn off for me. If I'm the one dominating, I generally only like to growl or make other animal noises. Calling me a bitch, slut, subby, stupid, and other similar names is a big turn off. Though anything connected with female supremacy (boy, slave, male...), questions (how does it feel to lose to a woman? Do you admit that you belong to me now?), and orders sure turn me on.

AmeerX · Answer

I think you are doing it right

cou82 · Answer

i would try and or like degrade and humiliation could be fun

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I'm not into that in particular. Though I don't mind being dominant; I'm just not rude about it. Or maybe a little rude, but certainly not mean.

Wise4myage · Answer

Definitely not my thing. I do like trying different things, just not that.

Chris_u006 · Answer

As long as It's not hurting someone It's no problem.

Pighttussy · Answer

I'm into bdsm, so those are kind of a prerequisite

jahaims · Answer

I personally am really I to a submissive woman. My wife and I try all kinds of things in bed. She is somewhat into being submissive but not to the level I like.

Steve37 · Answer

I love experimenting. I'm willing to try almost anything once to see if I like it. Sometimes its simply your partners reaction that makes something that maybe you wouldn't ordinarily find hot to be very pleasurable.

YHL6965 · Answer

I would not mind trying. I would have a hard time being the dom though because I don't like to hurt people, especially the ones I love. I don't consider it as bad since it's just sex. A small question though, were you ever sexually abused?