When can a guy assume he can cum inside a girl?

If girls have sex with a guy without a condom and telling him they are on birth control, can he assume to cum inside of or should a guy always ask? Some of my friends say its granted that it is okay to finish inside her.
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  • I have had sex with a girl who was on birth control before and I didn't use a condom, and a few times she even took her pills right in front of me. Not every guy's girl will be that candid about it, but if you really need the assurance that she's on the pill just ask her to show you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • People should always ask before they do anything sexual with someone. Especially when it comes to ejaculating inside a woman, regardless of contraceptive status… You should always ask.


    Even if a woman does not use a condom or is on birth control, that does not mean she wants to be ejaculated in. You should always ask before having sex, and ask again before you finish. There needs to be consistent consent, even if you two have had sex many times previously.

  • I'm on birth control and if I'm at that stage in the relationship where I'm cool ditching the condoms, I'll let the guy know I'm on birth control and he doesn't have to use the condom. With that being said, at that point that's also my hint that if he wants to finish in me he can. But during sex I'll also tell him to do it when he's getting ready to cum. That way everybody is on the same page.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It’s about consent, there is no assume.

    also where was the bit about sex health check up.

    the bit about sitting down discussing what happens if she gets pregnant

    There is a lot of responsibility before you shoot your muck into a girl.

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  • you may not have to ask to cum in her mouth but in her pussy you must ask!

  • Conception is not the only thing a condom is used to prevent. Keep doing that and they're going to assure themselves an STI. Because everyone that girl has had unprotected sex with, he now has, too. And vise versa.

    Aside from that, no, you should never assume that. Unless you've had a blanket conversation of 'yes, you can finish in me every time from this point forward,' then he/you should always be asking.

  • If I start sex with a guy without using a condom then I assume he’s gonna cum inside me unless i specifically told him not to (that doesn’t usually happen but there’s times when it’s come up)… :o)

  • CONSENT is the key to everything! You want to finish inside? Ask if it's ok. My boyfriend will verbally say he's coming and I'll either verbally say if it's ok or not, or physically pull him in or push him off.

    • Why wouldn't you bother to tell him before you even start?

    • There are times when I do

    • Well, then, I guess there are gonna BE times when he blows his load inside of you when you didn't want him to, too. If YOU can't be bothered to tell him up front not to cum in you, you can't put the blame on him for doing so if you didn't want it.

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  • Never assume, be polite, always ask.

  • i say if the girl does that it's fine

  • When they're married.

  • Always ask. Then ask again.

  • Always make sure she is okay with it! Consent is key! Just because she is on BC doesn’t give anyone the right to do so! Communication is important! If she says it’s all good then why not but if she says otherwise then don’t :)

  • I always say condoms prevent minivans & if she is on birth control pull out dude & shoot your love piss elsewhere because pills don’t always work & storks do fly.

  • Use some manners and politely ask.

    • I can do polite, in my best upper class English country gentleman voice, "Would you mind awfully if I cane inside of you, that would be absolutely spiffing my dear?" 😂

    • @DonkeyDan You at times, have an absolutely wicked sense of humour! 😂

    • I do try 🤣

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  • Ask. Always ask. She may prefer you not to for other reasons

    • And those other reasons are?

    • @yofuknutz she may not like it. May want to be extra safe. May not like the process of clean up. She may have a sensitivity to semen which triggers thrush.

    • Actually I'm glad you brought that up they have a product now it looks like a tampon but it is bigger you put it up there it's almost like a Q-tip you twisted around and you take it out and throw it in the trash it gets rid of most of the body fluids it's a new product I can't believe it I used to bring a maxi pad for my ex because I used to put so much in there that she would have to wear that after doing the nasty

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  • Most of the time it’s discussed or u should.. very politely ask her.

  • It's only ok if she says it's ok after you've asked.

  • Never assume, never never never

    • So I can assume that you just lay there on the couch like a couch potato

    • it may be true but you didn't have to assume that just because I was a potato 😔

    • I never said being a potato was a bad thing sometimes the best thing especially when she let you get your freak on so you can come inside her.

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  • Never assume, always ask.

  • When he is married to her.

  • Be safe and wait `til she's bleeding.

    • However, if she doesn't say so up front, go for it! If it's THAT important to her that you DON'T cum in her, she SHOULD tell you before you start! UNLESS, she's one of those chicks that wants to trap the guy by allowing him to knock her up!

  • Just cum inside her if she lets you fuck her without a condom then she wants that cum

  • good idea to ask, although saying on birth control is a good sign.

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