When Do You Usually Bring Up Your Sexual Preferences With A New Partner?

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AndrewMG · Answer

I mean they kinda work out that whilst not a sexual preference of mine, awkwardness and self deprecation are big points of my personality so naturally might be brought into the bedroom hence they're prepared for disappointment! Which means every now and then I exceed expectation lol

Makeushiver · Answer

If you laid out the biggest issues ahead of time and just left the fine tuning for "in the moment". Tell him you won't settle for any guy who thinks they are done before going down on you to be a complete non-starter and then gently tutoring him on the finer points of cunnilingus in process. I think that should take care of sexual and ettiquete concerns well.. But is there any guy left out there that doesn't give head? I would think not with as many issues of Cosmo that have been published.
So my suggestion would be Before followed by during just to make sure his tongue is at least in the correct ZIP code.

Please advise which method you tried and what was the most successful

TheNikJamJessProject · Answer

I say before because what if they bring even more to the bed that arouses you and vice versa. Do knock it til ya try it. 😉

douride2 · Answer

It happens at all 3 of those stages for myself.

Desconhecida · Answer

Before sex, always! We dont want any unpleasant surprises, right? LOL

DIRKINOFF · Answer

Pretty early on, I'm a sexual person (I'd say moreso than what is average), so I bring that up before even the first date.

Prettysammie · Answer

I either don’t say anything and just let him do his thing or maybe say a few things during sex like harder, faster, right there. That kind of thing. It’s terrible I know.

hbg84 · Answer

Usually long before we have sex like when we ate just starting to talk to each other

Tunasub · Answer

Communication.. if you don't express it. They won't know it...

SirBearon · Answer

Depends on the situation. Sometimes you fuck a girl on the 1st night and don't really have time to talk about it. Sometimes you discuss it before if there are phone conversations.

monkeynutts · Answer

Generally it's when I do her from behind, and I slip a finger in her bum.

Chris_u006 · Answer

Why only before during and after? Why not other times too? A little teasing is never wrong.

Gedaria · Answer

Before, it's great to know her sex history. And her likes and dislikes...

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

Before sex and yet after the second date.

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

When she finds the box of paddles under my bed and asks what they are. LOL

Steve37 · Answer

Usually during the act, sometimes afterward for next time.

Twalli · Answer

I am pretty vanilla ordinarily. I won't even slap her ass without being requested to. I am willing to go a certain distance with kinks, but I probably won't push for anything besides an attempt at anal. I think most people have a bad experience with it, or heard of one. Because of this they aren't willing to try it with someone who knows how to do it well.