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When Fingering A Girl... How Many Fingers Would You Use To Prepare Her For Penetration?
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8 128Well I always start with one but by the time it's go time, I'm three fingers deep.
Most guys would use 2 or 3 fingers
My boyfriend uses 1, I've told him he can use two, but usually only 1
Two is enough... middle and sideways
Thanks for the feedback!
@Nitinsoni Thanks for responding
@Nitinsoni mifdle and sideways?
It depends how aroused she is. If we've just started I'd probably just start with no penetration. Just rub rheir mons as that will stimulate her clit through her inner labia at a time when she probably isn;t even ready for penetration of any kind. After continuing to get her on I would anticipate a possible lack of natural lubricant , or some more never hurt, esp. if it has a tingly erotic sensation. I've been with some women who wanted the fullness of a complete fist- a compressed one. I seems to be the thing they need to get off. Others, just a couple fingers curled up stoking her g-spot, or not at all when I'm using a toy and/or going down
When wet...3, very occasionally a 4th if she really wants the Pain/ Pleasure feeling.
Thumb for clit👍
Index for gspot👆
Pinky for the stinky 🤙
two! I usually like my fingers too afterward!
I use my index and middle finger when fingering a woman 😉✌💦
Thanks for the upvote @Secret6620 😉✌
Normally 2 and a tongue but if just fingering up to 3, only go to 4 if she asks for it.
I used my index finger and middle finger to finger my girlfriend. I would finger her vagina until she orgasmed or until she had enough. When I felt like she orgasmed, I pulled my fingers out and instead of her feminine liquids, it was blood. We immediately got turned off.
Two fingers just to be gentle and warm her up first
@Secret6620 just curious have you taken any new pics?
Don't EVER ask me this question again... The answer will ALWAYS be "None of your business" you're not my man so don't worry about it...
I start with rubbing the outside to stimulate the moistening and start with 1 and move up to 2. Sometimes I will introduce a third.
I would start off with oral to get her aroused and wet then move on to fingering. I usually use only 2 fingers. Then penetration feels fantastic. Hopefully I give her a couple of orgasms during that process.
How many fingers do you prefer?
Plus how many do gets do you use when you masturbate?
So I would start with rubbing the clit until I can feel some wetness. Then I would massage the vagina from outside, around the hole and then it depends. If I know her and I know she can take X fingers, I would insert X-1 fingers and add one more after a little while. If I don´t know her, I would start with one finger, see her reaction and also feel how tight she is, and then add one or more. I would finger her and apply ever so gentle pressure to the clit with my palm. Also, it never hurts to ask, communication is nr.1.
I adored your description! Thank you for explaining your answer! Very Erotic ✨🧜♀️✨
I generally use 2, but used also 3 once
Two, sometimes three. Depending on how she reacts
Starting with one, when feel some wetness, insert two, also touching her clit, and when she is fully wet, three fingers are inserted before penetrating my cock. By that time she is fully prepared are responsive.
In this situation the correct way to go about this is to communicate and listen to the woman and what she is telling you and how she is reacting to what you are doing. Start with one finger and work your way up, keep the communication open. Ask her does she like what you are doing, ask her if 2 fingers is ok or she may tell you or guide you. She will let you know when it's enough for her... that communication could be such a turn on for both parties as well.
Something to keep in mind all you sandpaper fingered monsters.
OH AND CUT YOU FUCKING FINGER NAILS YA DIRTBALLS..
You DO NOT want to scratch her down there. The party will have and abrupt ending and you will never put you finger in the pink again.
I use two fingers. My hands are huge. Three fingers is too big to fit. (At least too big to fit comfortably.)
Typically I start with one and stretch it from there. I don't usually do more than 2 or 3. There have been some girls I have fisted and they went crazy.