When guys watch porn. Do they fantasize about the actress or their partner?

I've always was curious about this. When guys (who are in relationships and are very happy) watch porn- do they get turned on by the woman and their body and orgasm to it? Or do they enjoy watching it while imagining its their girlfriend and what they would do together?

Id get more upset if my boyfriend just watched porn and came because of how sexy the girl is.
Id rather them use it for ideas for us and still think about me.
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  • Highly unlikely that your boyfriend, no matter how happy he is, will always masturbate thinking about you, unless he's a complete psycho, regardless of the presence or absence of porn. My ex agreed to shoot a bunch of videos for me to pleasure myself, so I was thinking about her most of the time, and just rarely fantasizing about other stuff (not stuff with people I knew or anything of the like), and I was only watching porn very rarely (keep in mind it was long distance; while we were together, I wasn't watching any porn at all, even her videos, and wasn't masturbating either). I think that's the safest bet to have someone thinking about you when they masturbate: Give them your own nudes. Just know that even if he thinks about the porn actress when he's jerking off, that isn't cheating, and doesn't mean he doesn't find you as attractive

  • Depends on the mood, the time, and YES, MANY times, if I can't be with the lady I love, I am imagining her, while watching.
    Sometimes, watching some things, I wonder if she might like to do that, and the 'role playing' thing, and maybe watch the video before, so she knows? I've done that a few times, and sometimes it's right nice, other times, she isn't into it.

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  • Sorry to break your rose tinted glasses, but guys like looking at girls. Naked girls? They are going to get aroused, and bust a nut over the naked girl.

    And just to burst your bubble a little more, your boyfriend has probably imagined your friends/sister (s) naked too. And possibly even jacked off thinking about them naked.

    We are guys. Naked females big tick ;)

  • its usually the actress though if i am in a relationship and my partner isn't there i do like to fantasize that she is there and watching me wank off over porn right infront of her

  • Not really fantasizing does nothing for me I just do what I do while watching what's going on in the porn.

  • back when i watched porn i would fantasize that it was my girlfriend and think of her preforming some of the acts on me. Which never happened😒

    I stoped watching porn quite a while ago because it would give me false hope to things that were never going to happen.

  • There are porn stars I genuinely fine attractive or have something I find attractive, however, I fantasize about the person I know, not the actress. There is no porn star I would choose to fantasize over any woman I've known and found attractive.
    Partner every time.

  • i stop watching porn in a serios relationship, so i can't tell for shure.
    But i will go for the actress if i'm watching alone

  • well im single so i just look at the pussy and rub one off and get rid of those urges once and for all

  • it depends, i've definitely done both. when I was younger less experienced and less committed there was a lot more "I wanna fuck that pornstar" sessions. As I got older and more committed it was almost research as things to try and think about and fantasoze with my partner.

  • The actress and their partner

  • The girl in the porn

    • Im sure that the girlfriend wouldn't feel good about herself if she knew that

    • Of course not but its something guys do in private while the girlfriends at work Then they delete their tracks

    • 😂😂😂😭

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  • To replace the girl with yourself you have to act like her for him for real

  • I always fantasize my sex partner if watching porn alone. Normally we both watch together.

  • I don't have the experience, but it really could be 50/50.
    Sometimes you just ignore her as who she is and have her be more like a representation of who you wished she was (definitely not a pornstar though!).

  • Actress the act then their partner for relief, open up your imagination and become number. I only ever watch porn if the woman I am with lacks imagination and not a lot, for me personally it gives me a gauge to find out what she reacts too. the eyes tell-all, not the mouth normally full of lies they say everything. a bit like women that say that a man cannot tell between a real & fake orgasm (bull not when you know what you're looking for then it stands out a mile, luckily no fakers have been my world fakes are a dougzy no, no it is never done till you cum)

  • I fantasize about shrek and donkey

  • Partner in her place.

  • Most watch porn to look at different bodies they like but i can't say guys would be thinking of his partner well watching

  • Me yes, totally. Since I never had a girlfriend, fantacising about it is almost the only thing I have.

  • Girls watch porn as well, they're just more covert about it.

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